Relationship and Sex Advice

**Brill Weave** · 2012-01-29 12:06

I'm not even going to comment on the blatant stupidity of your relationship Crosis. You want to be holding this bitch's purse while she fucks other guys for the rest of your life more power to you.

**Mazmaz** · 2012-01-29 14:08

Kill her.
Or become a cuckold.

**Brill Weave** · 2012-01-29 14:15

He's already a cuckold if we want to get into common law marriages.

**Mazmaz** · 2012-01-29 14:51

Yea but you have to enjoy being a cuckold for it to be a kink.

**shidobu** · 2012-01-29 15:10

Originally Posted by CrosisX

Well we've been dating since i was 19. Anyways new situation.....inb4 long post.

So we've been together 8 years and have a child together. We've had a lot of ups and downs. She cheats. (yes the baby is mine) Anyways right now she's really interested in another guy. Whole world is crumbling right now. Not just mine but hers. She's afraid of being kicked out of the house which we currently share with my parents. My mother knows about this situation but if my father finds out shit will really hit the fan. I am starting to be come accept that there is no way she will ever be a 1 man woman but we don't want to stop living with each other and making our son suffer without one of us in the picture full-time.

Right now with this other guy shes very confused and feels really bad cause she knows she could never remain faithful to him and he feels very strongly for her going as far as saying i love you within the first 3 days of knowing her. At the same time he doesn't want his time wasted. I'm really at a loss for words on what could, should, or may happen. I really don't know what i'm asking for here just some guidance i guess is what i'm looking for. Also would it be right if i ended up sleeping with someone else even though i have a feeling it might be for revenge against her but at the same time I hope it snaps into her that what she does hurts?

wow... we usta play 11 together

what the fuck happend to you
get your shit together kid

**vagus** · 2012-01-29 18:52

CrosisX,

horrible story. If the kid is yours and she doesn't care for you. Tell her to GTFO and keep the kid. She can see him / her on the weekend.

**guartz** · 2012-01-29 20:00

Sums up this thread pretty well IMHO
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dTCm8tdHkfI

**BadKarma** · 2012-01-29 20:05

So BG, how I get foreskin back

**Kuya** · 2012-01-29 20:13

Stem cells, brah

**Mazmaz** · 2012-01-29 20:15

Can't answer you until this thread is in politics subforum.

**hey** · 2012-01-29 20:24

Originally Posted by CrosisX

I am starting to be come accept that there is no way she will ever be a 1 man woman

Frankly, i thought that was pretty obvious just from playing ffxi with you two. If you aren't ok with that, then you need to end it. It's up to you what you decide to do in regards to your living situation, and your son, but you're not helping helping anyone by staying in a relationship that cannot work out.

**Kerberoz** · 2012-01-29 20:31

Originally Posted by CrosisX

Well we've been dating since i was 19. Anyways new situation.....inb4 long post.

So we've been together 8 years and have a child together. We've had a lot of ups and downs. She cheats. (yes the baby is mine) Anyways right now she's really interested in another guy. Whole world is crumbling right now. Not just mine but hers. She's afraid of being kicked out of the house which we currently share with my parents. My mother knows about this situation but if my father finds out shit will really hit the fan. I am starting to be come accept that there is no way she will ever be a 1 man woman but we don't want to stop living with each other and making our son suffer without one of us in the picture full-time.

Right now with this other guy shes very confused and feels really bad cause she knows she could never remain faithful to him and he feels very strongly for her going as far as saying i love you within the first 3 days of knowing her. At the same time he doesn't want his time wasted. I'm really at a loss for words on what could, should, or may happen. I really don't know what i'm asking for here just some guidance i guess is what i'm looking for. Also would it be right if i ended up sleeping with someone else even though i have a feeling it might be for revenge against her but at the same time I hope it snaps into her that what she does hurts?

**kuronosan** · 2012-01-29 20:50

Alas Benoit, we barely knew ye roid raging loving man self.

**Brill Weave** · 2012-01-29 22:37

Lot of relationship posts on here lately where the guy is basically a doormat. Toughen up you pussies I demand it!

**Eaglestrike** · 2012-01-29 23:15

Originally Posted by Brill Weave

Lot of relationship posts on here lately where the guy is basically a doormat. Toughen up you pussies I demand it!

Yes, where are all those tough hardcore MMO-playing nerds, wtf!?

**Churchill** · 2012-01-29 23:19

I can't even respond to half of these posts because I just can't comprehend the situation even occurring.

**shidobu** · 2012-01-29 23:32

Originally Posted by Churchill

I can't even respond to half of these posts because I just can't comprehend the situation even occurring.

hes not trolling. Ive known of him and his gf since like 2004/5

**Churchill** · 2012-01-29 23:45

I didn't say he was, but I can in no way relate to a lot of the stories on here. Being a cuckold specifically, just wow.

**Yuri-G** · 2012-02-01 23:37

alright, gonna tack a question on here and see if I can't get some advice without starting a new thread. please keep in mind that I only recently began dating after a long hiatus, so I need some help reading mixed signals:

short story: went out with a guy for a couple weeks, clicked, guy invites me home repeatedly, told guy I have HIV, guy backs off and says he "didn't want to date." HOWEVER! as of two weeks later, guy keeps texting me to randomly ask how I am, invite me out for drinks, etc. guy shows enough interest/sweetness to make me wonder, but every time I initiate contact, guy shows enough lack of interest to annoy me, I leave him alone, guy starts texting me again, repeat.

my options, as far as I can see them are:

a) be polite and responsive when he initiates contact, but leave it at that, and move on
b) ignore him and move on
c) tell him how I feel in the vain hopes that it'll change his mind, get told otherwise, move on

a) is the most mature way to handle things, imo, but it feels dishonest. b) would be the most immediate relief from the confusion, but is a little harsh. c) is so goddamn tempting but would never work out as well in reality as it does in my head and would only send him running in the opposite direction.

thing is, as much as I know all of this, my head is having a hard time convincing my heart. it's obvious he's still interested, given that the only reason he cut it off was the HIV, and that he's still very attentive - more attentive now than when we were dating. and for every step I take back, he takes two steps closer to me. but then I take a step forward, and he just takes two steps back. this is real life, not a Paula Abdul song, and opposites are not attracting - they're just pissing me off.

BG, what would you do?

**Andalusian girls** · 2012-02-01 23:41

murder him

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