The whores and the Madonnas

[richardd]

Where is this magical land

its the durteh sawth

but, its not a big deal really. any guy can pull girls here if their standards are low, lol. they're swarming with an abundance of tight shirts, christian slogans, and bluegrass fist pumping.

[richardd]

i am being a little over dramatic.

[richardd]

they dont fist pump

[Ivve]

Where can I watch the video your Sig came from

[quannum]

This leads to my next question: Can a woman look too good to be relationship material?

a man's required confidence is directly proportional to a woman's looks.
assholes are more likely to have a higher confidence than non-assholes.
the more attractive (intimidating?) woman is more likely to be in a relationship with an asshole.
QED

[Callisto]

Pretty much, I'll say that while a girl may not be so attractive that I'd be afraid to talk to her, she'd probably be attractive enough that if we were actually dating I'd have issues with trust/jealousy.

[#686578]

its the durteh sawth

but, its not a big deal really. any guy can pull girls here if their standards are low, lol. they're swarming with an abundance of tight shirts, christian slogans, and bluegrass fist pumping.

I think I can deal with pretty much all of that

[Blarg]

This girl started talking to me the other day and offered me a part of her cookie'thing (I declined). I was wondering if she was hitting on me or just being friendly but then a few minutes later she says that her cookie'thing was gross and then in my head I was like 'she just wanted to pass her shitty desert'thing off onto me!'. I'm not going to let that mean girl get my man-parts anytime soon with that attitude.

[Sera]

Also never ever get it in your eye. SERIOUSLY.

word, that shit is the worst

[Lucienne]

Sorry for the late answers, working 11 hours sucks.

Do you mean the total package or looks wise?

I'm going to say total package, because look wise would be extremely skewed.

maybe she should just raise the bar a little bit. don't date anyone who hasn't achieved a particular amount of success in their personal lives, don't date people who don't feel that they are a catch.

You have a point. The problem is, Sweden is an extremely non-hierarchic country build on the believes that no one is better than anyone else.

a man's required confidence is directly proportional to a woman's looks.
assholes are more likely to have a higher confidence than non-assholes.
the more attractive (intimidating?) woman is more likely to be in a relationship with an asshole.
QED

This makes a lot of sense, sadly.

[Sera]

Don't go to bars to meet men if you want more than someone looking to have a one night stand. Not saying that's what they're all there for, but the odds are against you.

Such a key statement. A bar is not a place to find a partner, it's a place to find a temporary sex toy.

[Ivve]

You have a point. The problem is, Sweden is an extremely non-hierarchic country build on the believes that no one is better than anyone else.

i mean, on a human interaction level i think that's not a bad attitude to have. but really, it's not so much about being better than anyone else as it is finding someone else who is most likely to have the confidence to maturely handle a relationship with another successful and attractive person. for better or worse, that's more likely to be present in someone who has similar qualities.