The whores and the Madonnas

[Lucienne]

Their behavior. If they act like a whore, I don't see any problem treating them like one. If they act like a respectable, intelligent human being, then I'll treat them like one. That said, the difference between men boils down to whether or not they're willing to treat a woman poorly or not. I'm not willing to treat others poorly, unless they're a shitty person. It takes a certain amount of introspection and self-assessment to make sure you're acting ethically and fairly towards other people, regardless of gender, and to keep your presumptions in check. That is where the disconnect happens. Some men (and women) aren't equipped to do that as well as some others.

So it's a mixture of faults with her and faults with the guys, imo, like all interpersonal problems. The best advice I think I can give to anyone looking for a relationship, male or female, is that you have to like yourself and know your own worth first and foremost, and be willing to stand up and fight to preserve that feeling.

I wouldn't say same guys treat me and her differently. Basically, the polite ones will treat us both the same, but stick with me, the assholes will generally leave me alone entirely, or leave extremely fast. I don't get hit on by bad boys.

[Lucienne]

i forget the names obviously, i met these people once and we got rather drunk. but the blonde had good english iirc? she studied in LA or something?

You spent a day walking in town with this woman, good sir.

[Callisto]

Everyone except my mother

you sure you don't mean my mother

[Alleya]

Sounds to me like you're just better at choosing men, then, if the nice guys are nice to her but she ends up with the shitty dudes.

[Lucienne]

Depends on how they portray themselves, if they're an air-headed bimbo and it's obvious it's their mission in life is to take dick, then yeah totally. But if not, no. I'll treat them with respect and stuff.

What would make a woman look like an air-headed bimbo on a visual level?

[Callisto]

luci are you saying that your friend is down to get slapped around a little? I'd treat her real nice if so

[Rocl]

You spent a day walking in town with this woman, good sir.

oh wow what! I did not think she would have issues with men, and I completely forgot you worked together (not at the bofhaus or w/e though?) oh man she is not a whore

[Rocl]

or maybe she is a whore but she did not whore near me

[Callisto]

What would make a woman look like an air-headed bimbo on a visual level?

Probably more on an audio level, once they start talking you kinda know.

[Odon]

http://thechive.files.wordpress.com/...uck-face-5.jpg

[Blarg]

does she have a lower back tattoo

[Callisto]

odon that's a man, not a whore

[Odon]

It could be a man-whore

[Odon]

Also Luci, read this.

http://www.laddertheory.com/

[Lucienne]

http://thechive.files.wordpress.com/...uck-face-5.jpg

Oh god! rofl

oh wow what! I did not think she would have issues with men, and I completely forgot you worked together (not at the bofhaus or w/e though?) oh man she is not a whore

Where did you get the work part from? We did two modelling jobs together though, and she worked as Spanish teacher at a school where I worked for a while.

She doesn't have problems meeting men per se, she has a problem meeting decent ones and we can't really figure out why, because it doesn't make much sense.

[Lucienne]

does she have a lower back tattoo

No, no tattoos.

[richardd]

i have a bad habit of stereotyping. there are woman who dress like sluts who happen to be smart and have crazy majors like astrophysicist and can back it up with detailed conversations, but just so happen to like having sex and just want to fool around, i guess. im not going to judge them on it, some woman dont like being in relationships, so with that said. most cases do not have that conclusion. a lot of woman who dress that way happen to be horribly stupid and deserve their stereotype, but i would treat every single woman i ever meet the absolute same. everyone starts with a clean slate with me, and i'll be nice.



but college is a bit different so, i wouldnt really go with my experience for a tally towards your final answer lol. woman outnumber men by a pretty large margin and over here men dont really go out of there way to get woman, unless its a white guy who wants black girls. and not so sound like an egotistical jerk, but in all honesty, if you already stand out and have a pretty athletic frame, you really dont have to get woman. woman get you.

[richardd]

odon is my madonna, though

[Rocl]

Where did you get the work part from? We did two modelling jobs together though, and she worked as Spanish teacher at a school where I worked for a while.

She doesn't have problems meeting men per se, she has a problem meeting decent ones and we can't really figure out why, because it doesn't make much sense.

For some reason, I completely misinterpreted the bit about meeting in a bar because I am about 5/4ths retarded.

You know, I was expecting this thread to also be about one of your co-workers I met for some reason, probably because I misread that earlier post so I have about 0 advice since she was such a lovely woman I can't figure out why.

Does she have confidence? Cuz bitches....... men love confidence, right?

[Odon]

i have a bad habit of stereotyping. there are woman who dress like sluts who happen to be smart and have crazy majors like astrophysicist and can back it up with detailed conversations, but just so happen to like having sex and just want to fool around, i guess. im not going to judge them on it, some woman dont like being in relationships, so with that said. most cases do not have that conclusion. a lot of woman who dress that way happen to be horribly stupid and deserve their stereotype, but i would treat every single woman i ever meet the absolute same. everyone starts with a clean slate with me, and i'll be nice.

Yeah like Calli said,

Probably more on an audio level, once they start talking you kinda know.

Once they open their mouth and start to chat with you it becomes glaringly obvious if they're a bimbo or not.