Your sexuality does not and should not define who you are, that is an absurd idea. You don't go around saying that's gay Don over there! Or hey bisexual Stacey! Lookey there, here comes transgendered Pat!
You don't do this because people do not define themselves by their sexuality. If you do try to do that, you're missing out on a whole lot more that life has to offer. If you try to define someone by their sexuality, you're just like racist or any other sort of bigot trying to define someone by a single characteristic that is probably different from your own.
And are you kidding about straight people denying themselves desires? Hookers, porn, pop culture sluttiness, alcohol, drugs. There is a plethora of things people try to deny themselves because to give in to it would be a bad thing. It's not limited to straight people or gay people either. Don't be so closed-minded
It's fine if gay people want other people like them to identify with, but it should not be their ONLY defining characteristic, you make it out to be that.
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