howie, i heard that your friend wasn't the one who seduced you to suck his dick

**Ryko** · 2012-01-19 04:59

Originally Posted by Kuya

Are you saying that making general statements about the sexuality of women is getting me the opposite responses of what i would have wanted?

Well I was actually talking about that of the heterosexual male. Who cares what manipulative bitches think? I don't suck dick because I don't like sucking dick. If I were into a girl like no other and she told me to suck a dick to be with her, I'd still tell her to fuck off because I'm not a college co-ed.

**Sera** · 2012-01-19 04:59

Originally Posted by Ivve

...nobody has ever felt the need to prove to me that they don't or wouldn't fuck other men. i'm not even sure i understand why they would ever feel the need to prove that. i would never attack or ridicule someone over perceived gayness, because i don't see anything to attack or ridicule. i can't follow your logic here. why would a man want to prove his straightness to me? why would that not be accomplished by sex?

additionally, i have actually gone out of my way to tell some men that i've known that homophobia is very much not okay. i take a more literal approach to policing that behavior, so whatever twisted-ass perception they've got and decided to justify with my feelings is fucking dismissed.

I never once stated I would attack or ridicule a man who did so. I simply said that I personally don't find it sexually appealing and DO find it to be a complete turnoff. I wouldn't abuse the guy or ridicule him, but I doubt he'd be able to get my attention sexually. That doesn't give the guy carte blanche to abuse others in a futile effort to overcompensate his manliness to convince me that he's not gay. One does not demand the other. They're not the same thing.

**Sera** · 2012-01-19 05:00

Originally Posted by Ryko

Well I was actually talking about that of the heterosexual male. Who cares what manipulative bitches think? I don't suck dick because I don't like sucking dick. If I were into a girl like no other and she told me to suck a dick to be with her, I'd still tell her to fuck off because I'm not a college co-ed.

Please do not suck any dick.

**Ivve** · 2012-01-19 05:00

Originally Posted by Ryko

Well I was actually talking about that of the heterosexual male. Who cares what bitches think? I don't suck dick because I don't like sucking dick. If I were into a girl like no other and she told me to suck a dick to be with her, I'd still tell her to fuck off because I'm not a college co-ed.

this. i know some men find women making out with women attractive, but i've still never done anything like that for the benefit of a man because it's fucking ridiculous. the segment of the population that would behave that was is outrageously tiny. we do not live in a girls gone wild video.

**Ryko** · 2012-01-19 05:00

I stopped for my new years resolution.

**Kuya** · 2012-01-19 05:01

Originally Posted by Ryko

Well I was actually talking about that of the heterosexual male. Who cares what manipulative bitches think? I don't suck dick because I don't like sucking dick. If I were into a girl like no other and she told me to suck a dick to be with her, I'd still tell her to fuck off because I'm not a college co-ed.

Are you saying that men don't care what women think or that you don't care what women think?

**Ivve** · 2012-01-19 05:02

Originally Posted by Sera

I never once stated I would attack or ridicule a man who did so. I simply said that I personally don't find it sexually appealing and DO find it to be a complete turnoff. I wouldn't abuse the guy or ridicule him, but I doubt he'd be able to get my attention sexually. That doesn't give the guy carte blanche to abuse others in a futile effort to overcompensate his manliness to convince me that he's not gay. One does not demand the other. They're not the same thing.

not only that, but would you ever even tell him it's the prior dicksucking that turns you off to him? i mean most of the time women are not explaining to you the reasons that you're not getting laid. again a situation of, when would this ever come up? it would have to be some situation i can't even imagine occurring in regular society.

**Ryko** · 2012-01-19 05:02

Originally Posted by Kuya

Are you saying that men don't care what women think or that you don't care what women think?

Derp

**Kuya** · 2012-01-19 05:03

Originally Posted by Ivve

...nobody has ever felt the need to prove to me that they don't or wouldn't fuck other men. i'm not even sure i understand why they would ever feel the need to prove that. i would never attack or ridicule someone over perceived gayness, because i don't see anything to attack or ridicule. i can't follow your logic here. why would a man want to prove his straightness to me? why would that not be accomplished by sex?

additionally, i have actually gone out of my way to tell some men that i've known that homophobia is very much not okay. i take a more literal approach to policing that behavior, so whatever twisted-ass perception they've got and decided to justify with my feelings is fucking dismissed.

Are you saying your personal experiences don't pan out with my general statements? That's fine.

**Kuya** · 2012-01-19 05:05

I think it's perfectly legitimate to respond to a general statement and say "But i'm not like that/that's not how it works for me", provided that's as far as the intention goes: saying you're not like the others/or that you're not like what that general statement said.

**Sera** · 2012-01-19 05:05

Originally Posted by Ryko

I stopped for my new years resolution.

http://i36.tinypic.com/33tr0cj.jpg

**Ivve** · 2012-01-19 05:07

Originally Posted by Kuya

Are you saying your personal experiences don't pan out with my general statements? That's fine.

yes and no. i'm saying i'm gonna need to hear some examples of these situations where men are compelled by women to prove their heterosexuality. surely if our preferences are influencing their behavior, then there is some payoff for being a homophobe. are men commonly rewarded by women for their homophobic behavior, to actually reinforce or promote the behavior? because idgi

**Ivve** · 2012-01-19 05:07

basically i need you to prove to me in some way that your general statement has some kind of legitimacy and isn't just FYA.

**Sera** · 2012-01-19 05:09

Yeah I'm not really getting the connection. So, because Ryko isn't inclined to suck dick or fuck dudes, the automatic progression here is that he has to overcompensate and make SURE that I KNOW he's hetero enough by being a complete dickhead to our gay male friends? Does not compute

**Ryko** · 2012-01-19 05:11

Admittedly, a dude once sucked another dude off in my house and I was at the end of the couch. Granted, I was staring deeply into my computer so as to avoid seeing any of it so I don't know if that makes me homophobic or just courteous. I have yet to have a third party look at me when I'm getting a beej so I don't want to accidentally cross that urinal line when I haven't even crossed that at a urinal. That shit would be awkward.

After that I made a rule that only I am allowed to bust a nut in my house.

**Rocl** · 2012-01-19 05:26

Originally Posted by Ryko

I don't know if that makes me homophobic or just courteous.

After that I made a rule that only I am allowed to bust a nut in my house.

Makes you racist

**Kuya** · 2012-01-19 05:37

i'll addresss some posts when i get to a computer, but i want to make sure i know where the disagreement is. for starers, does anyone disagree that 1-women police the behavior of men and that 2-men care about what women think?

**Linliel** · 2012-01-19 05:47

Originally Posted by Kuya

Why don't you girls ask the straight men here what they think.

I think most of them ran away when you started posting more dick pics

**thetruepandagod** · 2012-01-19 06:38

Originally Posted by Kuya

i'll addresss some posts when i get to a computer, but i want to make sure i know where the disagreement is. for starers, does anyone disagree that 1-women police the behavior of men and that 2-men care about what women think?

I think when men are in the company of men and women an equal amount, as opposed to men always hanging out with men, the women will win out in how much a man will change his behavior to please others.

**Charismatic** · 2012-01-19 08:13

Originally Posted by Ryko

Admittedly, a dude once sucked another dude off in my house and I was at the end of the couch. Granted, I was staring deeply into my computer so as to avoid seeing any of it so I don't know if that makes me homophobic or just courteous. I have yet to have a third party look at me when I'm getting a beej so I don't want to accidentally cross that urinal line when I haven't even crossed that at a urinal. That shit would be awkward.

After that I made a rule that only I am allowed to bust a nut in my house.

How does this even happen?

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