Interracial Dating/Couples

**bechyni** · 2012-01-29 22:52

Iman- http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-CmygXh6JTa...nada-iman2.jpg probably mixed

Angela Bassett- http://ia.media-imdb.com/images/M/MV...0,214,314_.jpg

**BadKarma** · 2012-01-29 23:38

Giraffe. Neckkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk

**bechyni** · 2012-01-29 23:40

Was going to say just a bad pic/clothing but every picture she has a long neck so.....yeah

**BadKarma** · 2012-01-29 23:45

Shes probably just really fucking skinny

**Milkster** · 2012-01-29 23:58

Because she's a super model.

**Milkster** · 2012-01-30 00:36

Another thing I don't understand is, not marrying a person just because they're a certain race. A few people have commented that they would date other races but not marry said races. Why? If you can get along well enough and enjoy being with them why would you not want to spend your life with them?

**Guitarman** · 2012-01-30 00:39

Grew up around pretty much all races. Best friend is mostly mexican, close asian buddies, first love was a phenominally gorgeous east Indian woman. I've never really had any trepedation about a race. If she's attractive, i'll go for it. fuck what color she is.

**bungiefan** · 2012-01-30 03:10

Originally Posted by Ksandra

Don't give a shit. Married an asian. Would have married him if he was black, white, indian, klingon, etc.

Even if they were Bene Tleilaxu?

On my first and probably only significant other, since I'm engaged, and she's not my race. My family doesn't care, but her mother doesn't seem to like me not being black very much, and tried to separate her from me by moving across the country. It didn't work and she came back with assistance from me and her friends 6 months later. Her mom is a leader in their church, and I think that has something to do with it too.

I don't care who has a relationship with who, as long as it isn't a toxic relationship.

**solanis** · 2012-01-30 04:44

Originally Posted by AoE

*I feel that the average white girl tries way too hard to achieve the "perfect image" that's expected of her. (Successful husband, kids before they hit mid-20s, etc)

this goes very counter to what I've experienced, like... getting married and having kids before your mid-20s as a woman would be considered unusual and kind of weird and shameful in my circle. the "perfect image" is more like, a flourishing career by the late 20s, married in late 20s early 30s, and kids a few years after that.

**AoE** · 2012-01-30 10:21

Originally Posted by solanis

this goes very counter to what I've experienced, like... getting married and having kids before your mid-20s as a woman would be considered unusual and kind of weird and shameful in my circle. the "perfect image" is more like, a flourishing career by the late 20s, married in late 20s early 30s, and kids a few years after that.

Thinking more on this, it probably applies more to the suburban girls that live around here who don't really aspire to be much. The ones who wanna be successful probably fit more into your observation.

**bechyni** · 2012-01-30 10:39

Regardless they're both groups of women who should be in the kitchen. <3 Sol

**Lucavi** · 2012-01-30 10:40

Also depends on city life vs. county life vs. country life with women. Success in the city is usually having a high-paying or high-profile job by 30 with 0 kids. Success in the country is the polar opposite; having a large, happy family by 30 with a spouse making decent bank. County life usually falls somewhere in the middle. As a county guy, many women that I grew up with and deem "successful" typically have pretty good jobs and perhaps 1 or 2 kids by 30. Go figure that the ones that left the caul de sac for city life are still childless, but are usually working some pretty swanky job.

I guess it just goes with the territory, literally.

**solanis** · 2012-01-30 10:46

you're gonna like how your anus looks after I destroy it bech, I guarantee it

I think it's more an issue of education than anything else, even more than class. my cousin, for example, comes from a wealthy family and she's getting married now in her mid-20s. meanwhile my peers and co-workers from middle class and even poor backgrounds wouldn't dream of getting married before 28-30. although, one couple at my university got married last year when the girl in my class was like... 19 or 20, and the guy was in the year ahead of us. it was pretty shocking and very strange. even stranger, he got murdered in a hit-and-run this summer. stranger than fiction etc

for the most part, you can't have a high-powered career if you start having children before your early 30s. there are exceptions of course but I doubt it's very common. in NYC, even in their 30s the moms don't take much time off since excellent baby nurses and nannies are available. the parks at midday are a sea of polish and jamaican women pushing expensive strollers lol

**Linliel** · 2012-01-30 10:54

I don't give a shit what race you are, if you're smart, witty, charming, attractive, relaxed, open-minded, aren't crazy, and good in bed I'm all for it. Fortunately I've found me someone just like that.

**Chun Liroy** · 2012-01-30 10:55

Originally Posted by Linliel

I don't give a shit what race you are, if you're smart, witty, charming, attractive, relaxed, open-minded, aren't crazy, and good in bed I'm all for it. Fortunately I've found me someone just like that.

Well.

IS HE BLACK?

**Linliel** · 2012-01-30 11:22

Originally Posted by Silentleroy

Well.

IS HE BLACK?

Maybe?

**solanis** · 2012-01-30 11:22

so yes, he's black

**Sho** · 2012-01-30 11:34

I'm Black, Nigerian decent. Dated everything under the sun. Hispanic, Asian, African-American, African, European, American-White, Indian, etc.

Every woman has a particular spice and appeal to them, and I embrace each individuality wholeheartedly. Tell you what though; it's exceptionally hard to find a African-American chick with her head on her shoulders correctly. I laugh when people tell me that they are the least desirable females, but also nod in agreement. Kinda sad to say, but oh well.

**Chun Liroy** · 2012-01-30 11:35

Black brits are the whitest blacks.

**Lucavi** · 2012-01-30 11:37

Originally Posted by Sho

Tell you what though; it's exceptionally hard to find a African-American chick with her head on her shoulders correctly.

This is far more true than it should be. I can go to a friend's graduation and by the end of the night, have at least 3-4 white chicks that I'd date after just meeting them that day and spending a few hours laughing with them, probably for an extended period of time. I spent 4 years at an HBCU and could only find 2 during that entire time, and this is coming from a "brotha".

It is what it is, though.

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