I'm not gonna get back into all this about which subjob is best for monk in nyzul, but 5% seems like a pretty low number for you to be stating. Maybe you are using spreadsheet with full haste and what have you? All my comments are based on splitting up from the group since staying completely together is dumb. Fact is you don't counter if you have shadows up, and casting shadows takes time compared to /dnc sub where there is no need. Casting time lowers DoT, not countering lowers DoT, and while I haven't exactly mathed the exact numbers out, I guarantee that those factors lower damage more than whatever you are coming to.
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