What the fuck is wrong with men?

[Kuya]

didn't callisto also say he has a small penis at some point or was that the very hairy australian guy named wafik

[Ksandra]

go back to being a male apologist

I will and laugh when you get some chick preggo with the excuse "She told me she was on the pill!"

[Milkster]

He's said such words.

[Ksandra]

I mean, how many times do men have to be fooled by those 4 words before they stop believing it?!

[Callisto]

Wow, that's the most depressing thing ever. So you're basically leading her on until you sort your shit out and someone you like better drops in your lap? That's just mean

Not necessarily. As far as things are right now I'm leaning towards marrying her. Me being borked emotionally shouldn't be something she gets punished over, if she cheated on me or killed my cat or something it'd be an easy break, but until she commits some sort of major fuckup I intend to stick it out, I think she deserves that much.

[Linliel]

lol highly disagree

you're doing it wrong

[Mertron]

I will and laugh when you get some chick preggo with the excuse "She told me she was on the pill!"

yes because i was being serious, and assuming truth

go away

[Callisto]

didn't callisto also say he has a small penis at some point or was that the very hairy australian guy named wafik

I did say that but I probably also accused wafik of having a small penis as well

[Mertron]

do people actually take anything i say seriously

im only serious like 22.7 percent of the time

[Callisto]

do people actually take anything i say seriously

im only serious like 22.7 percent of the time

people who aren't serious don't try to use statistics to back up their points

[Linliel]

Not necessarily. As far as things are right now I'm leaning towards marrying her. Me being borked emotionally shouldn't be something she gets punished over, if she cheated on me or killed my cat or something it'd be an easy break, but until she commits some sort of major fuckup I intend to stick it out, I think she deserves that much.

yeah but you're OBVIOUSLY not happy. Even if you have the best of intentions, if you're not happy with your relationship it's going to suck. And it's just going to suck MORE for her because she'll find out you've been leading her on basically.

[Ksandra]

yes because i was being serious, and assuming truth

go away

stop spreading lies. I know you're the father of 10 from trusting women.

[Mertron]

people who aren't serious don't try to use statistics to back up their points

i was lying about the numbers

take that smarty pants

[Conrad]

do people actually take anything i say seriously

im only serious like 22.7 percent of the time

can you back that up with statistics

[Mertron]

NO SKIRKLE DAMMIT GAWD

[Kuya]

I did say that but I probably also accused wafik of having a small penis as well

he does have a small penis doesn't he

[Howie Roary]

callisto's scenario reminds me of my relationship from 25-29, we were on and off and ultimately I broke up with her for good because I was not attracted to her enough and simply couldn't settle

obviously I don't know the whole situation but in the end a clean break was the best thing I ever did

also she made me truly level with her and ask what the real reason was and I told her it was because I wasn't attracted enough to her and despite all the ways I tried, I couldn't seem to reconcile that in my mind (on paper we were ideal etc)


anyway she later thanked me because for years everyone put a positive spin on how she looked, no one had fully levelled with her (weird situation)

[Callisto]

you're doing it wrong

I'm 28, over $45k in debt for a school degree that I wasn't able to finish, I can't get a decent job because of the lack of degree, can't pay down debt to start pursuing degree again because of lack of decent job, vicious cycle, etc. I have poor physical/mental health and no insurance, over $10k in medical bill debt, and after having my own place at the age of 19 I'm on pace to still be living with my mother at 30. If I'm extremely lucky, I'll have a kid that the very least doesn't have any major birth defects, isn't a complete shithead or idiot, and isn't overwhelmingly ugly. Things aren't exactly reaching upward for me post-30, lol.

Note that these complaints are largely mitigated by positives, while my life sucks now I had a solid decade of it being fucking awesome and had some really good times, I have currently have a rather large circle of amazing friends, I have several hobbies that keep me occupied and content, and there's a female who willingly touches my penis on a regular basis. Things could most definitely be worse.

[Kipling]

this thread isn't fun anymore

[Callisto]

yeah but you're OBVIOUSLY not happy. Even if you have the best of intentions, if you're not happy with your relationship it's going to suck. And it's just going to suck MORE for her because she'll find out you've been leading her on basically.

That's the thing, it's not that I'm not happy with the relationship in particular, I'm just, well, not happy. I got some shit I'm trying to deal with and it hampers every aspect of my life, including the relationship. I really, really don't believe it's just because of her, I can tell she loves me pretty heavily, and I think that it'd be more unfair of me to hurt her feelings by breaking up with her just because I have shit wrong with me that keeps me from being happy in general.