lol
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that is the best one
sure is bleeding emotional scars in here
just chiming in to say that my love for this thread knows no bounds now
I disagree with this: I guess some ladies agree but I don't. I will talk to anyone. If he starts getting skeevy or rude that is a different story. But what is the harm in talking & being cordial/social? I don't have a problem with talking to someone I don't know if they are interested in speaking to me.
BAZANGO
Do not take that to imply that I will not Aggressively Re-Educate a guy who loses control of his boundaries. I give everyone ONE chance -- if they cross a line I tell them so directly and clearly. If they ignore it, I have as little of a problem accepting your drink as I do with pouring it all over you when you prove that you can't help but act like a skeevy fucktard.
reading through I feel like you've given the internet a roadmap on how to drug you at a bar, though
I have been drugged once but I figured it out almost immediately and had my friend Jess take me home. That was scary. Now I always watch the bartender closely to see who he hands which drinks and stuff... One addendum to my rule is that I don't usually accept drinks that aren't handed to me BY THE BARTENDER HIMSELF unless I know the person who is handing it to me. That's nothing personal though, that's a safety thing.
edit: Most DUDES actually seem to understand the difference and will have the bartender hand the girl a drink. I think pretty much all guys who are socially aware understand that handing a girl a drink himself looks a bit shady.
But to turn a drink down just because you're being a snot? Meh. I don't see the appeal.
i like to watch
the roofies kick in
oh yeah, never accept a drink from the guy, always the bartender. That's just common sense 101.