Random Fail: First World Problems

[Boyiee]

I dropped the 45lb barbell on my foot from about knee high while removing the 45 plate today. I was wearing chuck taylors so I felt every bit of it, no break at least.

[dasva]

We lost the baby

I guess I'm not deserving enough

Wait weren't you just going in for a scan today? Geez what kind of timing is that shit... not that anytime is a good time

[Ratatapa]

We did but the technicien didn't find the baby. So she search and zoomed a lot and found it to tell us the baby died 5 weeks ago.

But GF has 0 sickness and didn't bleed at all.

Now we have to go to the hospital tomorrow to remove the foetus

[Dimmauk]

We did but the technicien didn't find the baby. So she search and zoomed a lot and found it to tell us the baby died 5 weeks ago.

But GF has 0 sickness and didn't bleed at all.

Now we have to go to the hospital tomorrow to remove the foetus

Yeah, same for us. Sorry that it happened, but y'all will keep trying until it happens.

[Astylla]

We did but the technicien didn't find the baby. So she search and zoomed a lot and found it to tell us the baby died 5 weeks ago.

But GF has 0 sickness and didn't bleed at all.

Now we have to go to the hospital tomorrow to remove the foetus

I'm sorry - how many weeks was she supposed to be along ? It's unfortunately not uncommon regardless of age so don't let that affect you.
As others have said again there was likely something wrong and it's the body's way of addressing it. I realize that doesn't make it better or easier but you are deserving and your emotion and excitement and support shows that.


Also don't forget that grieving over this is natural and it doesn't need to be shared with anyone that you feel won't be respectful and understanding.
Let your girlfriend know that taking Advil may help the physical discomfort before she goes in if she's allowed it. I'll be thinking of both of you tomorrow , hugs.

[Ratatapa]

I'm sorry - how many weeks was she supposed to be along ? It's unfortunately not uncommon regardless of age so don't let that affect you.
As others have said again there was likely something wrong and it's the body's way of addressing it. I realize that doesn't make it better or easier but you are deserving and your emotion and excitement and support shows that.


Also don't forget that grieving over this is natural and it doesn't need to be shared with anyone that you feel won't be respectful and understanding.
Let your girlfriend know that taking Advil may help the physical discomfort before she goes in if she's allowed it. I'll be thinking of both of you tomorrow , hugs.

She was gonna start week #13

[Greatguardian]

I'm really sorry to hear that, Rata. You have my condolences. It's already been said, but it really wasn't your fault. Try not to let this consume the both of you.

A fail of my own: I may have mentioned my girlfriend's insane periods in here before. New fail this week is 6 weeks after her last period, chronic stress from work deadlines induced her period early (early for her, her cycle is normally 8-9 weeks) and the flow was so severe that she's now in the hospital getting an IV + plasma/blood infusions to counteract severe dehydration, pancytopenia, aplastic anaemia, and febrile neutropenia which all basically mean she's severely low on every type of blood cell. Her vagina was bleeding her to death.

edit: Icing on the cake is she's terrified of needles, so it's been a fun couple of nights.

[Astylla]

A fail of my own: I may have mentioned my girlfriend's insane periods in here before. New fail this week is 6 weeks after her last period, chronic stress from work deadlines induced her period early (early for her, her cycle is normally 8-9 weeks) and the flow was so severe that she's now in the hospital getting an IV + plasma/blood infusions to counteract severe dehydration, pancytopenia, aplastic anaemia, and febrile neutropenia which all basically mean she's severely low on every type of blood cell. Her vagina was bleeding her to death.

Holy fuck that's insane - does she have PCOS by chance or has that ever been addressed ?
That's very scary I can't even imagine and I have had some fucked up shit happen before I knew what was causing it. I hope she will be okay quickly.

[Greatguardian]

Holy fuck that's insane - does she have PCOS by chance or has that ever been addressed ?
That's very scary I can't even imagine and I have had some fucked up shit happen before I knew what was causing it. I hope she will be okay quickly.

Thanks! She's never been diagnosed with PCOS, but I don't know if she's ever had a pelvic ultrasound. She's at a healthy weight and hasn't shown many other external signs of increased androgens, but since these sorts of periods apparently run in her family it's definitely worth a look. I'll mention it to her and see if she can't get one while she's in the hospital. She does normally have thrombocytopenia, which means her bone marrow isn't producing enough platelets so her blood has trouble clotting. So far the tests have mainly been focused on her bone marrow.

[Astylla]

Thanks! She's never been diagnosed with PCOS, but I don't know if she's ever had a pelvic ultrasound. She's at a healthy weight and hasn't shown many other external signs of increased androgens, but since these sorts of periods apparently run in her family it's definitely worth a look. I'll mention it to her and see if she can't get one while she's in the hospital. She does normally have thrombocytopenia, which means her bone marrow isn't producing enough platelets so her blood has trouble clotting. So far the tests have mainly been focused on her bone marrow.

It's a common myth that PCOS only affects those that are overweight when I personally know someone who's maybe 120 pounds soaking wet who has had it her entire life and just turned 30 with multiple kids. Given the info though it could not be related at all and PCOS diagnosis typically comes from eliminating other sources , very few ever get diagnosed properly.

Regardless of what's going on I know how scary it can be and hope everything gets sorted out.

[Ratatapa]

Thanks for all the words, today will be another hard day, GF is going to get the foetus extracted ( if that's the good term).

I've been trying to be so strong for my girlfriend her familly and my own familly, but now I'm crying all alone in the living room, my GF and co are so emotional that if I show them any sign of me crying they'll all start again and I can't let that happen.

I know it's all crazy talk, but we can't sell this house, been trying so hard to like my new job which is fine but not exactly what I was hoping for and now this.

GF had the baby dead for 5 weeks and we got 0 symptoms no bleeding nothing this is just all crazy. We were so happy we were suppose to learn the sex in August, GF started to buy stuff for the baby.

I just don't know what to do anymore I know I'm not the first one, but I had such a hard kid life, I was hoping that maybe for once I could have something.

But now the feeling will be there and we try again. "what if"

We don't wanna think about that but at the same time it's just normal

[kuronosan]

It's a common myth that PCOS only affects those that are overweight when I personally know someone who's maybe 120 pounds soaking wet who has had it her entire life and just turned 30 with multiple kids. Given the info though it could not be related at all and PCOS diagnosis typically comes from eliminating other sources , very few ever get diagnosed properly.

Regardless of what's going on I know how scary it can be and hope everything gets sorted out.

I can't stress this enough. It's common in overweight folks, but that's a given. It's not the only presenting factor.

[Tokitoki]

If its via Adidas, I'm fairly certain that coupons such as that one do not work on Ultraboost's, although they may work on other boost's like pures. This used to be the case at least, there is actually a fine print somewhere either on the shoe or coupon page.

Yeah it's from Adidas. Funny thing is I got an email this morning about having them in my shopping cart still, but did not get the promotional code.

[tyven]

JUST PAY RETAIL AND LETS GET THIS GANG FITTED FAM

[Astylla]

Somehow my phone volume was all the way up and startled me when it went off so I literally fell off my bed and scraped up my right thigh a bit. Then my cat sat on a granola bar wrapper and it stuck to his butt that my husband left on the nightstand and he freaked the fuck out for like 5 minutes. Good morning I guess lol

[Boyiee]

JUST PAY RETAIL AND LETS GET THIS GANG FITTED FAM

The new khaki 3.0's look great.

[dasva]

Somehow my phone volume was all the way up and startled me when it went off so I literally fell off my bed and scraped up my right thigh a bit. Then my cat sat on a granola bar wrapper and it stuck to his butt that my husband left on the nightstand and he freaked the fuck out for like 5 minutes. Good morning I guess lol

Granola butt cat!

[Astylla]

Granola butt cat!

I wish I had grabbed my phone to take a photo because it was hilarious. Just see this blurb of black fur run into the living room with a Kirkland granola bar wrapper stuck to him. He got it loose on his own but was so angry at it he kept attacking it LOL.

[tyven]

The new khaki 3.0's look great.

fam get ready to feast your eyes on the worst and best shoes ive ever seen holy shit https://solecollector.com/news/2017/..._medium=social

[Boyiee]

fam get ready to feast your eyes on the worst and best shoes ive ever seen holy shit https://solecollector.com/news/2017/..._medium=social

Haha I was looking at those before and wasn't sure what to think.