Random Fail: First World Problems

[Astylla]

Don't really have the money to go out, was only going to go out because my friend asked me to. So it's kind of a win, in that I get to save a bit of money.

That's such a douche move honestly, so basically couldn't afford to anyway so why the fail at all. You should have felt relieved or you know , been honest that you couldn't really afford to go out at all but appreciated the offer and maybe suggested another time that works for both of you.

At least the reason I don't have many friends is based on honesty.

[Aksannyi]

It had been months since we'd seen each other, so I could have cut back on something else to have a few beers with a friend. It's not like I was going to get piss drunk because the last thing I need is a DUI, which would be a really quick way to end my teaching career.

I guess I just see it differently though.

[Airenn]

Aks, it's all about how you word shit - esp. on bg. "I don't really have the money to go out" is not acceptable to BG. "I get to stay in, play vidya games and otherwise save what I would have spent" is weirdly enough for more acceptable to these people. We were all on XI, we know how this shit works.

[Churchill]

Actually what you're watching now is women trying to solve other womens problems.

[Astylla]

Actually what you're watching now is women trying to solve other womens problems.

If that isn't the fail of the thread I don't know what is. It's like the fucking women's bathroom when you're drunk , it's all let's help each other out and be nice but once out the door it's just another cat fight.

I don't know why I bother myself lol

[Aksannyi]

It's fail to give friendly advice to people now? Okay BG.

[Astylla]

The fail is bothering when the same result happens every fucking time which is the definition of insanity at that.

Hence my analogy and on that note I need a drink.

[Zetanio]

Actually what you're watching now is women trying to solve other womens problems.

Mahhh man.

Fucking lol.

[Astylla]

Attempting to be social again and updated my OKC account. Getting lots of messages ( mostly one liners which I despise) but hardly anyone I'm even interested in on a platonic level let alone letting things progress either way for the most part.

At least I've learned from my past mistakes and being picky who I respond to.

[Zetanio]

or it's just that OKC is a cesspit.

Lowest hanging fruit.

[Melena]

We've known some people who had luck with it, but just as with any other free dating site, it has it's issues. Probably about 15 years ago, I created a fake account on alt.com, made the profile about as obvious as possible that it was fake and still kept getting one liners and a few phone #'s from it.

[dasva]

Yeah I have a friend that has a lot of luck on it. And by that I mean he uses it to help make sure he has at least 4-5 fuck buddies at a time

[Zetanio]

If you're willing to pick from the bottom, it's certainly not hard to get laid off of it.

[Anoat]

If you're willing to pick from the bottom, it's certainly not hard to get laid off of it.

Sometimes you gotta knock the bottom out of a couple hoodrats to get back in the game.

[Zetanio]

You are correct.

[Cantih]

or it's just that OKC is a cesspit.

Lowest hanging fruit.

OKC is the worst form of dating site, except when compared to every other form of dating site. (PoF is the cesspit)
If you know yourself, and are smart about answering the questions, you can actually get very high quality matches. Well, if you live in a major metro area anyway.

But ever since it was bought out, yeah, it hasn't been getting any better.
And free is better than paid. Paid dating sites have an immediate conflict of interest, the sooner they match a customer, the sooner they lose revenue.

[tyven]

Why are you using dating sites to find friends?

[Astylla]

Why are you using dating sites to find friends?

Not just friends but others in open relationships and such , I just prefer to establish platonic relationships first and see what happens naturally.

If all I cared about was getting laid randomly I would have plenty of takers I already know. Unfortunately most of them have too much drama I want zero part of. As I don't get out to lifestyle events much anymore this is actually one way I've found locals with mutual interests.

[kuronosan]

A knife. Was being dumb stabbing a pit in an avocado and was way more ripe then seemed to slipped and bam knife sticking out of my hand.

It's not really normal infected red and directly around it isn't bad just more like dull red like a weird colored bruise. Should also noted those areas started looking a bit different within an hour. Was more gray bluish until today. Feels completely normal like before I stabbed it other than the slight tightness around the closing wound. just looks weird

It's called a hematoma. If you disinfected it you'll be fine, though you should consider stitches if it's deep.

I did the same thing one time.

[Zetanio]

OKC is the worst form of dating site, except when compared to every other form of dating site. (PoF is the cesspit)
If you know yourself, and are smart about answering the questions, you can actually get very high quality matches. Well, if you live in a major metro area anyway.

But ever since it was bought out, yeah, it hasn't been getting any better.
And free is better than paid. Paid dating sites have an immediate conflict of interest, the sooner they match a customer, the sooner they lose revenue.

The whole thing is pretty awful.