Ladies of Spam

[Demosthenes]

It is in my opinion that the friendzone is made up.

[Chun Liroy]

Demos, can you take my Orgo test for me plz.

yo u block me bro

[Indeed]

It is in my opinion that the friendzone is made up.

So you don't know anybody that you don't have any chemistry with, and would never consider dating because they don't meet your standards for a romantic relationship?

[Ksandra]

It is in my opinion that the friendzone is made up.

I have put guys in the friend zone. Just sayin'

[Greatguardian]

It is in my opinion that the friendzone is made up.

define what you're calling friendzone because I'm pretty sure it's possible for people to be friends with people that they are not attracted to and have no intention of banging ever despite their emotional support.

[Ksandra]

Holy shit. There is actually a wikipedia article on the friend zone. LOL

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Friend_zone

[Greatguardian]

I have put guys in the friend zone. Just sayin'

I have intentionally put myself in a select few chicks' friendzones because they are legit cool peeps and ladder jumps aren't impossible

[Demosthenes]

So you don't know anybody that you don't have any chemistry with, and would never consider dating because they don't meet your standards for a romantic relationship?

When I say made up I mean the people that lament being in it. I was not specific enough nor did I phrase correctly. I always presumed it meant the place you go after someone has gotten to know you due to "inaction". "He or she is not sleeping with you because he or she realizes that you have flaws they are not willing to put up with." Aka you would be broken up by now if you had gotten a chance to "date" them. For the record I do have friends that are interested, they however cannot be more than friends for the simple fact that a. I am not single. b. my lifestyle is not what they perceive it to be. People that lament the friend zone imho are entitled.

[Demosthenes]

LOL Ross and Rachel. That dude Ross was a crazy and creepy stalker!

[Greatguardian]

o ok

[Demosthenes]

Why won't she see that I am the one for her! ;_;

[Greatguardian]

see that shit's dumb, of course it makes chicks super uncomfortable

[Demosthenes]

I'll just stick around as emotional support and complain about it behind her back.

[Demosthenes]

She put me in the friendzone guys.

[Greatguardian]

I am, however, often told by females that it is super uncommon to meet guys who are capable of being chill with them not letting dick into despite wanting to stick dick into. Is it really that damaging to one's ego that a chick does not want your dick at present?

[Day]

its human nature bro, most guys will just move on after being frenzoned, girl takes this as not being capable of being chill

[Greatguardian]

moving from friendzone to sticking dick into is just a matter of making a woman want you to stick dick into. are people so insecure that they think this is impossible after a woman gets to know you?

[Greatguardian]

its human nature bro, most guys will just move on after being frenzoned, girl takes this as not being capable of being chill

fair enough. i am working under the assumption that said girl is chill and worth hanging around despite lack of dick sticking. i don't have much interest in women that i wouldn't want to wake up next to, personally

[Day]

generally not worth the effort, guys who do that are also labeled as not being capable of being chill, also they fucking weird and sad

[Milkster]

Sex complicates things, some people would rather not risk a friendship over a relationship/fuckship ending badly.