View Poll Results: Do you need to be attracted to your partner?

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  • Yes, this is normal

    17 89.47%
  • Yes, but I know it's shallow

    1 5.26%
  • No, I see inner beauty and/or intellect

    1 5.26%
  • No, anything else is shallow and not normal

    0 0%
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    Quote Originally Posted by Chun Liroy View Post
    Yes I can, and I have. Doesn't everyone have that one person who you're like "Damn, for some reason I'm really attracted to them, even if I don't think they're hot"?
    yes but I can't do leathery skin/pockmarks etc

    and as it turns out, I have been spoiled re: cellulite, only ever been with one person that had it (kinda forgot about it/assumed it was an older woman thing)


    I can deal with lots of different body types, so long as the skin is smooth and the breasts are bigger than the waist. If they got a big bum, so long as it's round and not like.. shaped like a smushed loaf of bread, then I can deal. It sounds shallow when I break it down but I have certain areas I can be flexible on and some not.


    also attracted doesn't mean dating/I can stay with them. I think that might fall under initial attraction, but I think I could only look past certain looks if I were already hooked on their personality, like someone I never met before or something

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chun Liroy View Post
    I mean are we talking like a 0 when I'm an 8 or like a 4 when I'm a 6?
    wtf is a 0, I can't even see those

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    but yeah a 5 or a 6 if you're a 7 or an 8

    4 or less you better be p. damn noble, I salute you sir but I don't understand you

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    Well I'm not sayin I'm an 8, nigga.

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    I dated a 7 when I was a 20 years old once

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    Quote Originally Posted by Howie Roary View Post
    yes but I can't do leathery skin/pockmarks etc

    and as it turns out, I have been spoiled re: cellulite, only ever been with one person that had it (kinda forgot about it/assumed it was an older woman thing)


    I can deal with lots of different body types, so long as the skin is smooth and the breasts are bigger than the waist. If they got a big bum, so long as it's round and not like.. shaped like a smushed loaf of bread, then I can deal. It sounds shallow when I break it down but I have certain areas I can be flexible on and some not.


    also attracted doesn't mean dating/I can stay with them. I think that might fall under initial attraction, but I think I could only look past certain looks if I were already hooked on their personality, like someone I never met before or something
    I had a thing with a chick with a small ass. I told her everyday to eat more so her ass got bigger.

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    2 points below is acceptable if the chemistry is worthy enough. I believe there was a House episode that described this in detail.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chun Liroy View Post
    Well I'm not sayin I'm an 8, nigga.
    the part about you isn't that important, it's whatever attractiveness is acceptable to you personally, wherever you fall on the scale of 5-10.


    call it "I've gone out with more attractive girls than this before" or "so and so had some extra weight but at least she didn't have cellulite and bad skin." Comparing is probably a bad idea, and the more I type, the more shallow I feel especially giving specific reasons, but I guess now it's down to relative morality or something, if others for the most part identify with what I am saying

    It's not like I plan on changing, I've made at least 2 breakups on account of this factor, I guess I'm just wondering where shallowness falls on the relative scale

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    Nah, I was referring to you talking about being noble to fuck a 4, unless you were referring to that only if you weren't an 8.

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    We'll leave the 3 and below for titanss, he seems to like those

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chun Liroy View Post
    Nah, I was referring to you talking about being noble to fuck a 4, unless you were referring to that only if you weren't an 8.
    noble wouldn't even think in numbers, only see the person's unique attributes etc

    I'm not talking about charity lays as being noble, that's called slumming it

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    it's rather unfortunate that the concept of 10's and 8's and 4's has entered the conversation, as it makes the very framework of the comparison itself rather shallow

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    unfortunately either due to the topic or myself as the OP, it is difficult to know that the same concept is understood in the same way by others

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    Play on playa, play on

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chun Liroy View Post
    Play on playa, play on
    thankfully leroy has arrived as the representative of humanity, may his words not doom us all

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    I cannot kiss someone I'm not physically attracted to and most women don't take kindly to "I don't wanna kiss but can I stick my penis inside you"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Odon View Post
    most women
    SO YOU'RE SAYING THERE'S A CHANCE?

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    I had a chick drop the L word on me and I had been feeling distant from her at the time and wondering about continuing etc. I had been hoping to settle the thoughts on my own and if I couldn't, I had set a day to talk about my concerns with her (literally the Sunday after the Saturday she told me one weekend)

    "So um.. about that"

    ouch

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    Should probably be "physically attracted" because I looked at the title and thought "of course you do, what the fucking shit are you talking about"

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    So I was really attracted to this chick physically, but then I got close to her and she has some TERRIBLE breath, and suddenly I don't want any part in that. Does it make me shallow.

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