Do you need to be magnetically attracted to your partner?

[Odon]

SO YOU'RE SAYING THERE'S A CHANCE?

Yes, but they cost money.

[Odon]

Should probably be "physically attracted" because I looked at the title and thought "of course you do, what the fucking shit are you talking about"

I kind of just assumed this before replying.

[Conrad]

i love boobies

hooray for boobies

why did it quote that the first time what

[Odon]

So I was really attracted to this chick physically, but then I got close to her and she has some TERRIBLE breath, and suddenly I don't want any part in that. Does it make me shallow.

Nope. Not at all.

[Howie Roary]

nothing to see here, don't ask

[Howie Roary]

Should probably be "physically attracted" because I looked at the title and thought "of course you do, what the fucking shit are you talking about"

oh, oops that was a duh on my part. I say one thing and assume others know what I mean

can a mod change "attracted" to "physically attracted" pls

[Howie Roary]

So I was really attracted to this chick physically, but then I got close to her and she has some TERRIBLE breath, and suddenly I don't want any part in that. Does it make me shallow.

halitosis or coffee breath or even most smells related to cigarettes are a big no

[Odon]

I think Titanss said it best. "There are some chicks you just want to fuck and then there are chicks who's hand you will hold at Walmart."

[Odon]

My Hand Holding at Walmart Tier is pretty empty.
There's 2 or 3 chicks in there.

Obviously this doesn't include celebrities.

[Odon]

But I'm about as shallow as a puddle so..

[Howie Roary]

oh, oops that was a duh on my part. I say one thing and assume others know what I mean

can a mod change "attracted" to "physically attracted" pls

this never works lol

[Howie Roary]

I think Titanss said it best. "There are some chicks you just want to fuck and then there are chicks who's hand you will hold at Walmart."

I only stay with the ones I can do both

[Odon]

Yeah, that was implied.

[Conrad]

boobies

My current relationship started as a fwb deal, because she goes to school across the country and we were just hanging out for the summer. I didn't want anything substantial but then I spent more time with her and realized she was awesome to be with and really enjoyed her company, and we decided to make it the real deal. I didn't really want to bring her around to my friends at first because I didn't want to introduce her to my pals just to say to them "oh she's not gonna be around anymore," but in the end I'm glad that I stuck around because even though the distance has been somewhat difficult to manage and we're both relatively new to the serious relationship thing, my life is better for having known her more than if she were just a fling
Ultimately though and to answer your question, I was wary at first for a variety of reasons, but I grew more attracted to her over time and I care about her enough that I would continue to be attracted to her in spite of any physical imperfections she has or will have in the future.

[Chun Liroy]

halitosis or coffee breath or even most smells related to cigarettes are a big no

I will never EVER date a person that smokes cigarettes. Cigars/weed is ok, but cigarettes? Hell no. One of my only deal breakers.

[Chun Liroy]

But yeah, it was bad enough to the point where I didn't want to ask her questions because I didn't want to smell that shit.

[Howie Roary]

I will never EVER date a person that smokes cigarettes. Cigars/weed is ok, but cigarettes? Hell no. One of my only deal breakers.

I surprised myself by nailing a chick that smoked, it's basically a dealbreaker for me. I guess I do it expecting that they'll change. In a girl I really care about/love though? I pretty much can't stand it

[Odon]

but I grew more attracted to her over time and I care about her enough that I would continue to be attracted to her in spite of any physical imperfections she has or will have in the future.

You can blame Oxytocin for that bro, it's a hell of a chemical.

[Conrad]

oh

[Howie Roary]

My current relationship started as a fwb deal, because she goes to school across the country and we were just hanging out for the summer. I didn't want anything substantial but then I spent more time with her and realized she was awesome to be with and really enjoyed her company, and we decided to make it the real deal. I didn't really want to bring her around to my friends at first because I didn't want to introduce her to my pals just to say to them "oh she's not gonna be around anymore," but in the end I'm glad that I stuck around because even though the distance has been somewhat difficult to manage and we're both relatively new to the serious relationship thing, my life is better for having known her more than if she were just a fling
Ultimately though and to answer your question, I was wary at first for a variety of reasons, but I grew more attracted to her over time and I care about her enough that I would continue to be attracted to her in spite of any physical imperfections she has or will have in the future.

I have yet to successfully overcome my lack of attraction to someone. I mean if some of those things changed? Then sure, but pockmarks are generally for life, and one ex lost like 60 pounds in a ridiculously short amount of time (some kind of Dr. Bernstein's type deal) and her ass and upper legs just didn't look right.

Like I said, I've accepted some things as they were from the get-go, dated some girls pushing just under 200 but still had all the right curves (and oddly enough both were the best in bed I've had).