Feminism Thread

**Zeb** · 2014-09-30 13:41

Originally Posted by Qalbert

Having sex with someone who is drunk (assuming consent not established in advance) is wrong. Same as taking money from someone who is drunk. You are using their impaired state to your own advantage. idgaf what term you want to use, as far as I'm concerned it's still nonconsensual and therefore unacceptable.

Should casinos stop offering free alcohol to their guests?

**Xno Kappa** · 2014-09-30 13:50

Me and the wifey have drunk sex all the time. Gonna go turn myself in.

**Vandalhart** · 2014-09-30 13:57

It's not rape, it's a snuggle struggle!

Sorry, I had a conversation with a friend earlier today and that was a line that came up and I wanted to use it somewhere.

**Qalbert** · 2014-09-30 14:00

keep strawmanning and pretending I didn't already say countless times that established relationships with prior consent are different from having sex with a random drunk person

**Qalbert** · 2014-09-30 14:01

Originally Posted by Zeb

Should casinos stop offering free alcohol to their guests?

morally/ethically yes they should stop, they are intentionally encouraging an impaired state for their own monetary gain.

**Priran** · 2014-09-30 14:05

Originally Posted by Charismatic

Well, not normally... but I've got the solution!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jo4568PIRnk

Somebody actually just created an app for just that.

It's a great tool if you don't mind that the company behind it tracks the names and numbers of everybody you sleep with and makes no promises that it will not share this information with whomever they please.

**Qalbert** · 2014-09-30 14:14

secret front for the EBDB?

**Koul** · 2014-09-30 14:20

Originally Posted by Priran

Somebody actually just created an app for just that.

It's a great tool if you don't mind that the company behind it tracks the names and numbers of everybody you sleep with and makes no promises that it will not share this information with whomever they please.

Wait let me guess. This app is sexist misogyny victim blaming ammo because now rape/sexual assault victims will just be blamed for not downloading the app or not having a phone capable of running it. Sexist cisscum pig.

**Priran** · 2014-09-30 14:23

Originally Posted by Koul

Wait let me guess. This app is sexist misogyny victim blaming ammo because now rape/sexual assault victims will just be blamed for not downloading the app or not having a phone capable of running it. Sexist cisscum pig.

There's more than a couple holes in the premise.

**NynJa** · 2014-09-30 19:02

http://www.ctvnews.ca/business/twitt...amas-1.2032079
http://www.ctvnews.ca/polopoly_fs/1...._620/image.jpg

ERMAGHERD SEXISM

best part:

Logel initially put the picture of the PJs on Facebook but gained little traction. The women then decided to share the image on Morrison's Twitter account, sparking hundreds of retweets and comments.

"If no one cares on facebook, I'll bitch on Twitter and hope people there care"

**Correction** · 2014-09-30 19:24

Originally Posted by NynJa

ERMAGHERD SEXISM

best part:

"If no one cares on facebook, I'll bitch on Twitter and hope people there care"

Says the man with the meta-whining on a message board

**TummieGaruda** · 2014-10-01 16:29

Here's an interesting story... is it rape or not?

Just recently Lena Dunham (HBO's Girls) came out with memoir where she recounts how she was date rapped. In the book she explains how she went to a party and was drunk and high on cocaine and xanax and she runs into a guy who she thought was creepy. Somehow they end up back at her place and he's forcing himself on her and she starts talking dirty to him to convince herself that it is her choice and they start having sex. It is when she noticed that the condom that he said he was using was in a nearby house plant that she realized that she didn't consent to any of it that she pushed him off and kicked him out of her apartment.

**archibaldcrane** · 2014-10-01 16:51

Ignoring the "forcing himself" and her talking dirty to retake control or whatever, consent to sex with a condom is not consent to sex without a condom, so yes.

**Salodin** · 2014-10-01 19:20

Um, but shes talking dirty and acting like some one who is giving consent. Until the point of her actually saying "no", it's not rape, correct? And assuming he got off of her with out a fuss after she actually said "no", does that still make it rape?

**archibaldcrane** · 2014-10-01 19:24

She's (fake) giving consent to sex with a condom. If he tricked her by pretending he was using a condom and then penetrated her without one, it's not something she consented to, fake or not.

**Salodin** · 2014-10-01 19:28

Obviously the man is morally wrong, but unless she said "yes, with condom" it's still not rape is it? This example is exactly why these things need to be looked at on a case by case basis =\

**hey** · 2014-10-01 19:41

Originally Posted by Salodin

Obviously the man is morally wrong, but unless she said "yes, with condom" it's still not rape is it? This example is exactly why these things need to be looked at on a case by case basis =\

If she sees a condom, seems willing, then he tosses it to the side and doesn't tell her, it's pretty fucking safe to assume she wouldn't have consented without it and the guy knew, but did it anyway.

**Salodin** · 2014-10-01 19:48

Sprinkle a little assumption here, a little there...

**Byrthnoth** · 2014-10-01 19:49

She strikes me as a total bitch, but as long as the guy stopped when she said no then it wasn't rape. Sounds like he did, so it wasn't rape.

Assuming, I guess, that he was equally fucked up at the time.

**Salodin** · 2014-10-01 19:52

I wouldn't call her a bitch for kicking him off after she saw the raw dick, but if she didn't want to have sex she should have said no to begin with. Just because she got the courage to finally say no once she saw the raw dick does not make it rape when she was literally talking dirty to the guy to get him to fuck her.

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