Feminism Thread

[Charismatic]

C'mon man, all I said was that she's not ugly and people who say she is are bullshittin'. I think she's above average but not even close to the top.

[Churchill]

i said 6/10 then and stick with it

[Ksandra]

I think my point was that all of that shit was superfluous because women don't hold on to their ideas, dealbreakers, or values at all.

The biological children thing was actually that they wouldn't make white babies and would adopt black children.

My dealbreaker is literally over 35, not attractive, not born a woman with woman parts. I'm not trying to find a wife though, if I was it would be over 25. Not BPD is a given, but that shit is easy as fuck to spot.

I don't see how your dealbreakers are any better than theirs?

Also, I don't think many of those are superfluous. Again, some people find certain things more important than others.

You mentioned military btw, and I actually understand that. In fact I think if a woman wanted someone military I'd consider them to be gold-diggers. Why? Because the only bonuses to a military guy are financial related. (Free housing, free education, lower cost food, free healthcare, etc.) All the negatives are about losing your loved-one (whether for months at a time, or forever).


Also, chewing tobacoo is fucking disgusting and smells bad. I can relate to women saying it's a dealbreaker, 'cause one of mine is smoking cigs. Holy hell I hate that shit, I hate the smell, I hate the yellow teeth, and fuck off on destroying my lungs over it. adsljsldkjs just thinking about that shit makes me want to puke.

[Charismatic]

The point he was making is that they list all of these things as dealbreakers when they actually aren't if the guy is attractive enough. So none of it even means anything.
Women will readily admit that they throw away their values if the guy is attractive enough. (I don't agree that physical attraction is the only kinda that will override this, I think enough money or a combo of the two will do it also)

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[Ksandra]

The point he was making is that they list all of these things as dealbreakers when they actually aren't if the guy is attractive enough. So none of it even means anything.
Women will readily admit that they throw away their values if the guy is attractive enough.

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you can't assume the women posting on reddit are the same women that would throw those deals out the window if the guy were hot.

Keep in mind that image is from OKCupid, as Church said those sites are for like one-night stands/good fucks.

Who gives a shit if someone is a republican if you are just gonna fuck them for one night?

You should not lump long-term relationships with one night stands. These are going to have two completely ideologies. And dealbreakers have nothing to do with one night stands.

[Charismatic]

What the sites are good for in terms of what women want out of them and what men want out of them are totally different Ksan... trust me on this one.
Women generally aren't using it for one night stands, or at least that's what all of the profiles say (which would only further prove my point if this isn't actually true.)

[Ksandra]

Women generally aren't using it for one night stands,

lol

[Charismatic]

So then you agree that what they say they want doesn't actually matter then?
Why are we arguing at all in this case? You agree.

Nearly all female profiles state that they don't want one-night stands.

[Ksandra]

So then you agree that what they say they want doesn't actually matter then?

on Okcupid? sure. That's not reddit though. Unless reddit turned into a matchmaking website, the two are completely different.

[Churchill]

okcupid for women is like going to a sushi buffet where it does the revolving chain thing

you are missing out bro

edit: and goddamn you need to get yourself educated lol, ofc it's all bullshit. women need plausible deniability for everything. "i've never done this before" of course not honey, now wipe your face off.

[Vandalhart]

wont try new foods

This, I agree, is dumb. Unless they are a professional chef or something.

The only reason I can actually understand this is because my wife is HORRIBLY picky about food. Every once in a while I'd like to try something new in terms of a meal and she's not willing to budge on any of the things I'd like to try. It can be rather irritating.

[Milkster]

The point he was making is that they list all of these things as dealbreakers when they actually aren't if the guy is attractive enough. So none of it even means anything.
Women will readily admit that they throw away their values if the guy is attractive enough. (I don't agree that physical attraction is the only kinda that will override this, I think enough money or a combo of the two will do it also)

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This was a terrible example. 1) He didn't message all of the same people with the different pictures 2) Only one example of the below average = all women 3) Online dating is predominately used for fucking and when you fuck you could care less about personality and it's all about getting off to someone you'll probably never speak to again. You heteros are behind the game on this. It's a fucked up world out there online unless you know how to navigate it.

[Milkster]

edit: and goddamn you need to get yourself educated lol, ofc it's all bullshit. women need plausible deniability for everything. "i've never done this before" of course not honey, now wipe your face off.

Because women will be considered whores, sluts, bitches, etc by other women and men if they don't fall in line with how society and men believe they should act. Just look at the thread I made about "How many partners" and the ridiculous double standard there is.

[Ksandra]

The only reason I can actually understand this is because my wife is HORRIBLY picky about food. Every once in a while I'd like to try something new in terms of a meal and she's not willing to budge on any of the things I'd like to try. It can be rather irritating.

Ya, but she's your wife, so that means you could handle it. I am also a picky eater, and I definitely say it's a plus that my husband and I tend to eat similar foods as that does help when planning dinners, but I wouldn't imagine it could ever be THAT bad that you'd have it on your mind as a dealbreaker.


I'd like to point out, that my husband doesn't do any of what I would have thought of as "dealbreakers" when I met him. So @ church, some stick to their guns.

And I'll be honest, not all women stick to it, but neither do men. This isn't a women thing. I have lost so many video game friends to "good-looking" women that won't let them play. Mindboggling, but it happens sooooo fucking much.

[Charismatic]

Because women will be considered whores, sluts, bitches, etc by other women and men if they don't fall in line with how society and men believe they should act. Just look at the thread I made about "How many partners" and the ridiculous double standard there is.

Haha, what? I think you mean mostly other women. Its other females that trash them the hardest on that kinda stuff.
I think it probably has something to do with them losing bargaining power. I find it to be similar to how far more women seem to hate porn/prostitution/strip clubs, etc

[Milkster]

Haha, what? I think you mean mostly other women. Its other females that trash them the hardest on that kinda stuff.
I think it probably has something to do with them losing bargaining power. I find it to be similar to how far more women seem to hate porn/prostitution/strip clubs, etc

No, I mean men and women. Men will slut-shame a woman just as fast, if not faster, than a woman. Just using BG as a small sample with threads like this: http://www.bluegartr.com/threads/114...d.-Halp!/page3

Women have been conditioned not to be sexual people and expressing your sexuality as a woman means you're less of a person. Or they could hate the idea that these things perpetuate on the female population as a whole. Using sex work as an example is the same as saying playing violent video games causes people to go on killing sprees.

[Charismatic]

Using sex work as an example is the same as saying playing violent video games causes people to go on killing sprees.

This isn't analogous at all to what I was saying.
Not even a tiny bit.
Also, your using BG as an example seems kinda silly considering we probably have a 10:1 male/female ratio. You can't really use anything on her as evidence for or against any sort of actual gender comparisons. (note: I didn't click your link)

[Churchill]

Because women will be considered whores, sluts, bitches, etc by other women and men if they don't fall in line with how society and men believe they should act. Just look at the thread I made about "How many partners" and the ridiculous double standard there is.

eh, you really don't have any more of an idea of how women think than the people in that thread. i'll inb4 your girlfriends tell you all sorts of things so you know.
>believing what women say
>lel

and to all that, I say so? for one, most of the people who gave a shit in that thread were neckbeard virgins putting the pussy on a pedestal.

that aside, if i did ever decide to get married i wouldn't marry a woman who has had a bunch of partners. womens ability to actually pairbond suffers with increased sexual partners to the point that they are unable to. men dont have this issue because their primary sexual strategy is to secure as many mates as possible, not secure the best singular mate possible.

[Milkster]

This isn't analogous at all to what I was saying.
Not even a tiny bit.
Also, your using BG as an example seems kinda silly considering we probably have a 10:1 male/female ratio.

Sex work is a fantasy that the workers help the customer fulfill just as playing video games isn't real and should be treated as such. Going out into the real world and expecting fantasies to come true is what happens, a lot. As a woman, I'd be upset if porn perpetuated the stereotypes that all women like to be gagged during oral, rough sex, etc, if I was not at all into that sort of thing. People have distorted images of reality and relationships because of fantasies and media.

You said that men don't demean women just as much as other women, I think it's a perfect example showing that they do. Not even one woman on these forums agreed with the men.

[Ksandra]

No, I mean men and women. Men will slut-shame a woman just as fast, if not faster, than a woman. Just using BG as a small sample with threads like this: http://www.bluegartr.com/threads/114...d.-Halp!/page3

Hey look, a thread where milkster was being retarded.