Violence Against the LGBT Community

**Kuya** · 2012-08-10 17:42

Another reason for some transsexuals, particularly those who do prostitution work, is that their clients come to them specifically because of the surprise they have downstairs.

**Churchill** · 2012-08-10 17:54

when i pay for a hooker it's primarily to do lines of blow off her fully erect penis

**Ksandra** · 2012-08-10 17:55

Originally Posted by Nirokun!

http://i50.tinypic.com/2w7gzub.jpg
Do we love this dress? Do we love that this dress matches my nails? Do we love that this dress feels like a tshirt and was $16.00? Yes, yes, yes, yes! (I hope you can't tell that I need to shave and shower like, asap! lol)

I love this pic. If I were a lez I'd do you,

**archibaldcrane** · 2012-08-10 18:58

Originally Posted by Ashmada

Could've fooled me too. Sure there are still telltale signs (jawline, shoulders), but subtle enough to not be noticed when you don't know.

Yeah, if you aren't looking for them you don't really notice

and then when you have that grand, hit-with-a-ton-of-bricks realization, every little thing that's "just a bit off" really stands out.

**Naggi** · 2012-08-10 19:43

Niro, you are stunning.

**Guyverarmor** · 2012-08-10 19:48

I would hit that with a thousands suns, not gonna lie.

**Angeleus** · 2012-08-10 22:46

Originally Posted by Ksandra

I love this pic. If I were a lez I'd do you,

God bless to all the woman, who is this honest.

**Koul** · 2012-08-10 23:36

Mega cute pic. That dress is so fetch

**Kuya** · 2012-08-10 23:51

what the hell is fetch

**Rhyis.** · 2012-08-10 23:57

http://ihasahotdog.files.wordpress.c...dont-wanna.gif

**Kuya** · 2012-08-11 00:01

Whatever it is, that dog doesn't seem to be doing it

**Koul** · 2012-08-11 00:08

Originally Posted by Kuya

what the hell is fetch

It's slang for cool or awesome. It's from England or...something.

**Saga** · 2012-08-11 02:05

Originally Posted by Koul

It's slang for cool or awesome. It's from England or...something.

how dare you besmirch lacey chabert's great name

**Rhyis.** · 2012-08-11 02:08

Originally Posted by Kuya

Whatever it is, that dog doesn't seem to be doing it

Because as the mean girl says, it's not going to happen.

**The Stig** · 2012-08-11 03:52

I had a peek through the RL pic thread and now you posted a similar pic, but a lot more clearer.

Yeh I can see how no one would think twice (after reading your posts about your life at work). I also think you look genuinely beautiful.

You should make a (BG) blog on the journey to thailand. Your posts/typing are actually fun/great to read. They feel meaningful.

Oh, keep the glasses. Looking very cute in them. (In some other pics you had them off but I wasn't sure if they were reading glasses or ... etc)

and then when you have that grand, hit-with-a-ton-of-bricks realization, every little thing that's "just a bit off" really stands out.

In a lot of cases yes, but in this case, it's really not there. Nothing really seems off.

**archibaldcrane** · 2012-08-11 04:29

Originally Posted by The Stig

In a lot of cases yes, but in this case, it's really not there. Nothing really seems off.

You're looking at a still photo bro.

**The Stig** · 2012-08-11 04:31

I suppose. Didn't consider that.

**Plow** · 2012-08-11 04:41

Originally Posted by Nirokun!

I couldn't.

I'm sure there are plenty of people into that, both as a fetish and a dating preference, but I couldn't. If you were morbidly obese, and someone loved you like that (and didn't want you to change), does that stop you from wanting to be the best you can be? If you didn't like yourself because of your weight, does having someone else love you(re weight) make you happy? Is it enough? I thought about this before (non-op vs pre-op), and even before with the gay thing. I didn't want to limit my potential for happiness in any way, to please someone else, and chose to go about life living the way I wanted to, disregarding what other people thought. I transitioned when I knew it would be easier to have a boyfriend and live as a gay person, because I never saw myself truly happy that way. I'm going for the operation because I'm not going to settle for a lesser life, even if, in the end, it never amounts to what I wanted it to be. And if I never achieve the happiness I've always wanted, I could at least say that I tried.

http://i50.tinypic.com/2w7gzub.jpg
Do we love this dress? Do we love that this dress matches my nails? Do we love that this dress feels like a tshirt and was $16.00? Yes, yes, yes, yes! (I hope you can't tell that I need to shave and shower like, asap! lol)

Interesting, the question actually came to mind because I remember hearing a radio show talking about the question of "If you wanted a tattoo, and your significant other was against it, what would you do?"

In the end my conclusion on that discussion was basically that for me personally it would probably come down to how strong the feelings were, on either side. While this is a pretty large stretch to make the comparison, I suppose in the end it kind of comes down to the same thing, but the feelings are surely incredibly far more intense in favor of going for it in this case.

**Nirokun!** · 2012-08-11 11:51

Originally Posted by The Stig

Yeh I can see how no one would think twice (after reading your posts about your life at work). I also think you look genuinely beautiful.

You should make a (BG) blog on the journey to thailand. Your posts/typing are actually fun/great to read. They feel meaningful.

Oh, keep the glasses. Looking very cute in them. (In some other pics you had them off but I wasn't sure if they were reading glasses or ... etc)

In a lot of cases yes, but in this case, it's really not there. Nothing really seems off.

Thank you!

While I haven't considered a blog, I did consider doing a huge post in the RL pic thread. It would mostly be of things I saw, and not pictures of me, because I don't think people want want to see my IN PAIN face, nor would I want to hold up a camera and point it at myself for that kind of photo documentation. lol

My guy friend tells me he likes the glasses, too. (He's married but he still tells me what to do. Also, always, always! hair down. lol) I definitely need them to see, and I have thought about having my eyes corrected one day, but probably would not happen anytime soon with the things I have to save for.

What someone sees in another person is based on their life experiences. You judge someone's appearance based on other people in that group. If you judged me against other half-asian women, you can easily say there's big differences, but if you don't, your interpretation is different. I definitely try to control where someone's mind is going when they meet me for the first time:

You're tall!
I know! But I'm the shortest in my family!
No way!
I'm 5'11", my older brother is 6'1" and my little brother was 6'3".
Oh wow!

What I say is true, and I'm not lying when I tell them how I'm the shortest and tell them about how tall we are. I don't tell them why I'm tall, but I color their interpretation early on. And if, at some later time, they see me differently, at no point was I lying or leading them on. I feel like, at least for me, it's the right way to go about it to be able to live my life quietly.

Originally Posted by archibaldcrane

You're looking at a still photo bro.

I feel like this is a challenge where I'm supposed to get on camera to prove myself. There's so many things wrong with that. (You're not hurting my feelings. lol)

**archibaldcrane** · 2012-08-11 12:57

Nono, not by any means Niro - just saying...one shouldn't assume from a single photo that you are the passable-est woman ever (not that you are making that claim by any means).

And yeah you actually remind me a bit of a half-asian girl I dated for a while.

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