Hey Ryko

[Sera]

It bothers me because it is very unlike him to be like that. Its fine though. People change, friendships end/change, whatever. I can't allow myself to focus on it anymore. It bothered me so much it was affecting other shit. So I had to just say fuck it.

[Day]

guys pls

no

[Sera]

You perceived incorrectly but whatever.

Well when I try to come to someone and talk, and I get laughed at, that's a pretty clear signal to me.

[Demosthenes]

It bothers me because it is very unlike him to be like that. Its fine though. People change, friendships end/change, whatever. I can't allow myself to focus on it anymore. It bothered me so much it was affecting other shit. So I had to just say fuck it.

You said I've been doing it a bunch, I'm waiting for other examples please. The only one you've laid bare so far has been one that was ultimately caused by my asking people not to do something while I was mad as fuck, which you then did, jokingly or not.

[Ryko]

It's possible he was laughing about the situation and not directly at you.

[Demosthenes]

Well when I try to come to someone and talk, and I get laughed at, that's a pretty clear signal to me.

Carry on thinking I was laughing at you. Carry on being wrong.

[Demosthenes]

It's possible he was laughing about the situation and not directly at you.

Ding ding ding!

[Day]

[Ryko]

That said, if the situation really did hurt your feelings, possibly a better time to talk about it would have been at home or in text, and not at the bar where everyone is trying to blow off steam. He didn't come to karaoke the week it happened, so there was a week to iron it out earnestly, which ray typically can't help but being.

[Ryko]

I mean I don't like being laughed at when I'm serious either, but if I'm legit pissed about something, Ray has never done anything but given me the chance to get it off my chest.

[Callisto]

Carry on thinking I was laughing at you. Carry on being wrong.

trolld...u...lolz?

[Ryko]

Both people involved over reacted at different points of this whole fiasco. Meh.

[Callisto]

was it like female mind meets nigga moment or what

[Day]

You mean to tell me your wife and demos overreacted... don't lie to me.

[Callisto]

You mean to tell me your wife and demos overreacted... don't lie to me.

cray

[Ryko]

Miscommunication after some third parties were trying to troll Ray about something personal.

[Demosthenes]

I'm not sure how she seriously perceived that I would suddenly out of the blue, after proving time and again, that I love the shit out of her, that I would laugh in her face over something serious. When the shit on fb went down, I was joking with her on BG literally 5 minutes later.

[Ryko]

cray

Ain't it, Day?

[Chun Liroy]

Ain't it, Day?

Ain't it Ray

[Ryko]

I'm not sure how she seriously perceived that I would suddenly out of the blue, after proving time and again, that I love the shit out of her, that I would laugh in her face over something serious. When the shit on fb went down, I was joking with her on BG literally 5 minutes later.

This whole thing could have been handled better, from the first reaction on your part, to how it got resolved (or not, in this case).