gay poll

[Day]

I won't play marco polo with blax because I am afraid they will drown

you can just peek and follow the oil slicks

[Kuya]

I would not because I am terrified of HIV, I mean no disrespect, but I know way too many unsafe sex practicing gay friends or guys who won't get tested etc. While I do my best not to treat gay men differently, I quite frankly do not trust their safe sex practices.

All of this precludes the act itself. Health and safety aside, would I get nailed in order to do them all? Probably not, in all honesty. Realistically, what is that girl going to think of him afterward. And trading services for sexual favors, with her body as a reward? There's so much wrong with that scenario, I can't imagine she respected him much to even ask him to do so

gay people should take note, even persons who seem pretty pro gay can have pretty strange or toxic views of gay people that they don't express

[Kuya]

howie, your gay friends have unprotected casual sex?

[Howie Roary]

howie, your gay friends have unprotected casual sex?

uh, yeah and it seems to be the norm. My ex's roommate even cheated without telling his partner, did not wear protection, did not know the other person's history and has yet to be tested in a long time

to me that is so fucked up

[Howie Roary]

although he's bi and a narcissist and fighting his gay side (which he loves) but he comes from some form of Christian background and wants to want women

[Howie Roary]

then there's my friend in Montreal who I've offered to go and get tested with him, for moral support, and he has not been tested since I've known him (10 years) and while he is not (I forget the word) one of those people that knowingly have something and have unprotected sex anyway (these people at least inform their partners and their partners seem okay with it for some reason) -- he may as well be one but in a bad way because he doesn't tell

but that's a whole other can of worms if the other person doesn't ask

[Howie Roary]

anyway it all freaks me out

[Kuya]

stop hanging out with skeevy queens

[Howie Roary]

for the record, it's not like I think Conformity is any cleaner just because he has sex with (rich) women

[Howie Roary]

stop hanging out with skeevy queens

it's a bad sample I guess. I am always happy to hear of 1 year+ relationships in the gay community because prior to meeting anyone like that I didn't know anyone who wasn't a giant unsafe slut

[Kuya]

no, it's def rare to see gay men in a long term relationship that lasts more than a year

[Rhyis.]

Howie, what's your stance on fucking African women?

[Kuya]

and they're def sluts, as all males tend to be, but the having sex without a condom part being normal is a bit suspect though

[Howie Roary]

I totally understand how it would be difficult, walking around in a community where everyone is a horny male, and to some extent compatible

if I were the only guy at an all girl's school you better believe I wouldn't be bothering to stay in a one year non-open-relationship

[Rhyis.]

Whole lots of the hiv over there.

[Blarg]

maybe they are nervous that if they get tested they will get bad news so they never get tested to avoid possibly having to mentally deal with that

[Howie Roary]

Howie, what's your stance on fucking African women?

it recently changed to being willing to and attracted to more than I ever was, but I understand what you are implying


I don't have unprotected (against anything other than pregnancy) sex with anyone until they've been tested. And for [ugh I can't think of this word]'s sake I always get tested after a relationship (realistically right before a new one) just so I can say with surety that I am clean and we can get to the good part where says "I'm on the pill"

[Howie Roary]

maybe they are nervous that if they get tested they will get bad news so they never get tested to avoid possibly having to mentally deal with that

this is a given, and I sympathize. Doesn't mean I want to stir my stick in their coffee

[Howie Roary]

this is a given, and I sympathize. Doesn't mean I want to stir my stick in their coffee

err empathize I think

[Vuitton]

it's a bad sample I guess. I am always happy to hear of 1 year+ relationships in the gay community because prior to meeting anyone like that I didn't know anyone who wasn't a giant unsafe slut

I get tested regularly (just this past Monday!), don't fuck everyone/anyone (I don't even have Grindr), and won't fuck without a condom outside a relationship. I hope I help you average out your sexual knowledge of gay men a little bit.

(Also, your friends are fucked up if they're really doing that. Endangering so many people.)