Social Awkwardness

**Rhyis.** · 2012-08-23 00:58

Originally Posted by Cantih

Why I never bothered with bars or clubs (besides the whole not drinking/can't dance thing). I like vidya, books, sci-fi/fantasy, table top, etc. and it would be wise to find a lady who does too, and they generally aren't going to be there either.

Unfortunately, there are no "geek bars" that have the same "I am here to find other people" social status quo that normal bars have.
Establishing one might be a sensible idea, but it'd be a constant war of 86ing those guys so as to keep the environment someplace people want to be.

Pro tip to the young: Nobody finds a real relationship at a bar/club. Bar skanks have exactly one purpose, and it has nothing to do with your interests.

**Conformity** · 2012-08-23 00:58

Originally Posted by Rhyis.

Pro tip to the young: Nobody finds a real relationship at a bar/club. Bar skanks have exactly one purpose, and it has nothing to do with your interests.

I thought their purpose was to get fucked?

**Rhyis.** · 2012-08-23 01:01

Awww snap.

**Sera** · 2012-08-23 01:01

Originally Posted by Rhyis.

Pro tip to the young: Nobody finds a real relationship at a bar/club

smart advice

**Churchill** · 2012-08-23 01:02

ive met some marriage quality girls at the club, usually older ones though. unless you think banging a chick straight out means no good, in which case, more pussy for me

conform is right though, you're both there for the same reason

**Conformity** · 2012-08-23 01:04

One night stands are so fucking rare even in the club.

Now take em on a couple dates, they fuckin. Especially if ya ballin

**Cantih** · 2012-08-23 01:05

Originally Posted by Xajii

I dunno where you live but many major cities have barcades and soem other combination nerdy/hip hang-out places. Ladies will be rare there, but I guess it's an idea.

But I am not convinced that having the same hobbies is that important in finding a solid relationship with someone

It's not the MOST important thing, but it does help a lot.

As for the places, the only one I know of is Dave & Busters. However, you generally go there with a group of people you know, not all by yourself, so yeah, different social dynamic.

**Ryko** · 2012-08-23 01:05

Originally Posted by Conformity

Your wife thinks you are some master shit talker we are all afraid of. She thinks like this in an effort to save face. Might want to trade in your wife for a logically functional version of a woman.

idgaf why you fucks ride my nuts; part of me thinks it's specifically because I don't snap at the bait (actually, a number of you have said as much so I better not act like it's some sherlock moment). Sono is likely still butthurt over some shit I said in '09, dole as well. None of it is new. "You're fat. You're poor. You're going nowhere in life."

I guess it doesn't bother me because I can objectively assess where I am as compared to where I was years ago, and while certain aspects still need improvement, there has been significant progression and I'm actually working on improving what I can.

That's probably about as much about the subject you'll ever get from me, but don't let that discourage anyone from trying to bumble with the bee.

Also, the longest (and honestly, only) extended local relationship I had aside from Brandi was with someone I met at a bar.

**Sera** · 2012-08-23 01:05

I kind of don't get why there's such a stigma for girls who don't wait. If it's done safely it's no worse than when a man doesn't wait. That said, I prefer to get that out of the way early. If you're not good in bed, I don't want to date you anyway - so it saves both of us some wasted time and effort.

**Sera** · 2012-08-23 01:07

Also, this way I can find out if ya dick is tiny or if you don't eat pussy. Boom. Elimination. NEXT!

**Ryko** · 2012-08-23 01:08

Originally Posted by Sera

Also, this way I can find out if ya dick is tiny or if you don't eat pussy. Boom. Elimination. NEXT!

She still does this, it's pretty awkward for everyone involved.

**Sera** · 2012-08-23 01:08

:D

**Conformity** · 2012-08-23 01:09

Originally Posted by Ryko

idgaf why you fucks ride my nuts; part of me thinks it's specifically because I don't snap at the bait (actually, a number of you have said as much so I better not act like it's some sherlock moment). Sono is likely still butthurt over some shit I said in '09, dole as well. None of it is new. "You're fat. You're poor. You're going nowhere in life."

I guess it doesn't bother me because I can objectively assess where I am as compared to where I was years ago, and while certain aspects still need improvement, there has been significant progression and I'm actually working on improving what I can.

That's probably about as much about the subject you'll ever get from me, but don't let that discourage anyone from trying to bumble with the bee.

Also, the longest (and honestly, only) extended relationship I had aside from Brandi was with someone I met at a bar.

Cause when you became mod you would lock all of cream sodas threads and chased him out of spam. Just now he came back, you faggot.

**Conformity** · 2012-08-23 01:10

Sera, until you lose the weight stop talking about anyone doing anything sexual to you

**Rhyis.** · 2012-08-23 01:10

She still eats pussy?

**Rhinox** · 2012-08-23 01:11

you left yourself open for that.

**Conformity** · 2012-08-23 01:11

I wonder if she gives rimjobs

**Ryko** · 2012-08-23 01:11

Boo fucking hoo. I got nothing against travis, I just don't fuck with people posting pictures of themselves shitting on floors without spoilers. Never once have I insulted the guy personally, and any time we had a one-on-one conversation he's been a really cool guy. Admittedly, I just started doing it to fuck with him at some point, so I'll take the hit on that.

When it comes to the internet, it's really easy for me to keep things out of the realm of it being personal.

**Churchill** · 2012-08-23 01:12

people ride your dick because you posted a gif of you doing spinning slash on the gamefaqs boards before any NA's were lv50 and before this site was a twinkle in bg's eye.

but really idk, i know (a long time ago) people that did it to me were just young and so any sort of brazenness/trolling was just shock value to them. even looking back before 4chan, LUE was one of the most off color places on the internet and LUE is like disney compared to the stuff people do now.

srs though I was told you needed stepping to so the man dance is necessary

**Conformity** · 2012-08-23 01:12

Originally Posted by Ryko

Boo fucking hoo. I got nothing against travis, I just don't fuck with people posting pictures of themselves shitting on floors without spoilers. Never once have I insulted the guy personally, and any time we had a one-on-one conversation he's been a really cool guy.

Just sayin, you fuck with my niggaz you fuck with me. Revenge is the driving factor in my life.

Thread: Social Awkwardness

Thread Tools

Latest Threads

Up & Coming Threads

Hottest Threads