oooo! i'll have to do some research! does cider actually help with split ends? my hair is so course and curly

i would love more protection on it without having to sacrifice the normal look for an oily one lol.
what do you guys do when your hair is too volumized and poofy? to help with that and frizz, i've been combing my hair while i shower (as stupid as it sounds) and it's been working. i dont blow dry it anymore so i can prevent as much heating as possible, but i do iron it when its completely dry after a coat of the UV olive oil spray for protection.
also, if you want that shampoo smell, this one comes close.
as stupid as it sounds, the woman around here (ages 18-23ish) respond really well to girly scents or fragrances rather than the masculine musks, and parfumes i prefer. and i've gotten a TON of compliments with this.
http://www.ulta.com/ulta/browse/prod...sImpprod640826
in the middle of my biology class, i've had a woman stop and ask me what conditioner i used to make my hair smell so good and i told her about the spray.
i wouldnt use normal parfume/perfume or fragrances. i dont like alcohol touching any protein fiber on my head, but those scents last about 12 hours with 4-5 sprays. longer if its not too cold.
but on older, more mature woman, i'm still learning. i really dont know how to go about making an ideal first impression beyond the physical senses. i prefer a masculine look and feel, but with my cards, i'm coming up a bit short lol. so, i still keep a little bit of everything around just in case.