So I got married

[Cream Soda]

Isn't child support rather unequal though? (correct me if I'm wrong). Like the person paying for it is putting in greater than 50% of the child's expenses? (aka every time you get a promotion, they nail you for even more)

[Byrthnoth]

Spoiler alert:

Spoiler: show

Streak is actually ffffffff from the future. He pisses off the future BG mob and they sent him back in time to be banned by our mods.

Unfortunately, if Ksandra bans him then she will be preventing the angry e-conversation between his future and past self from occurring, thus not driving him into the rage mode that eventually causes his wife to leave him. If he doesn't rage, then he never whines about paying child support and gets so insufferable that the BG mob sends him back in time. It's a paradox. Time is going to start collapsing upon itself and we'll end up with a temporal singularity until the doctor marries his friend's daughter, tells her his name, and sets a plan into motion that ends with killing himself. Also, don't blink.

At least Jenna-Louise Coleman will be in the next episode.

If Jacques had The Glow, I don't think other characters would be necessary any longer.

[Ksandra]

Alimony is still pretty fucking stupid though.

I agree to an extent. I've talked about this before that I feel there's not enough protection for the male side, and things like lying to get pregnant are types of things that really should be looked into. however, at the end of the day, a divorce can cause the expenses given to a child to be severely reduced, and both parents need to be responsible. Dude was married had a kid(s?), so they both need to be responsible for the well-being of their children. It's not the chidlren's fault the mom is lazy. BUt when you bitch about the money instead of bitching about not having your kids 50%+ of the time AND put a general bubble on all woman, then you are suspect in my book.

[AidenCarby]

I like Ksandra, but....that's statement is pure jokes. None of these bitches spend that paper on the kids, they spend it on the next motherfucker that happens to stumble into their life and on themselves.

[Cream Soda]

but the kid needs the new car with the leather seats so he's more comfortable on the ride to school!

[isladar]

//super edit: Mods, cream soda has inspired me, can I change my name? or will isladar just ban me for 1000 years for asking?

You need an admin (i.e. SUPER RED NAME NO FUCK YOU), and it has to be reeeeeeally worth it, or make me laugh. Congratulations on your wedding! Ask your wife if she can think of something embarrassing for a username and I'll consider it.

[hey]

Relevant:

[Streak]

seriously, you sound like a dick, and not because you had a divorce with someone lazy, but that you can't wrap your head around that money is FOR YOUR KIDS and that you are also responsible for what happened.. You don't like it? Work towards joint or full custody. Until you get it, bitch about not getting your fucking kids, rather than bitching about having to pay money to support them.

I have joint custody, I pay child support. I have no issue with child support, as you say, it is for the child and sufficient for that purpose.

Spousal support/alimony on the other hand is a sick joke. My ex has 2 university degrees and worked the entire 10 years we were together except for the last 2 years. She sank into depression staying home with our child and didn't want to go back to work, instead she wanted to divorce me and collect alimony for life. So far she is succeeding.

[Ksandra]

I like Ksandra, but....that's statement is pure jokes. None of these bitches spend that paper on the kids, they spend it on the next motherfucker that happens to stumble into their life and on themselves.

and again, if that's the case start getting into court and fight for your kids.

DO NOT get me wrong. I know it's fucking hard for a dad to get custody over the mom. I hate that, and I am a huge supporter of trying to reform child custody to make it easier. My point is not that all ex-wifes are perfect about the money, it's that you should be bitching for your KIDS, not for your money,

[Melena]

I have joint custody, I pay child support. I have no issue with child support, as you say, it is for the child and sufficient for that purpose.

Spousal support/alimony on the other hand is a sick joke. My ex has 2 university degrees and worked the entire 10 years we were together except for the last 2 years. She sank into depression staying home with our child and didn't want to go back to work, instead she wanted to divorce me and collect alimony for life. So far she is succeeding.

Can always retire or hope she remarries. At least in California, second my dad retired he no longer had to pay alimony. Doesn't help that he lost 12 years of his retirement to my bitch of a mother but you can't put a price on happiness.

[Ksandra]

because 90% of men are forced into financial slavery paying child support

I have joint custody, I pay child support. I have no issue with child support,

Make sure the wifey keeps a job and is financially self sufficient. If you have kids, do NOT allow her to stay home with them beyond maternity leave. Do not put yourself in the position of being the "breadwinner".

My ex has 2 university degrees and worked the entire 10 years we were together except for the last 2 years. She sank into depression staying home with our child and didn't want to go back to work,

oh the backpedaling

so you spend 8 years, wife goes into a depression and instantly all women who want to be stay- at home moms are terrible, and that they all want to leave for child support.

[Brill Weave]

Can always retire or hope she remarries. At least in California, second my dad retired he no longer had to pay alimony. Doesn't help that he lost 12 years of his retirement to my bitch of a mother but you can't put a price on happiness.

Don't know why but I'm sensing anger issues towards Mom.

[Cleverness]

oh the backpedaling

so you spend 8 years, wife goes into a depression and instantly all women who want to be stay- at home moms are terrible, and that they all want to leave for child support.

Clearly it's her fault for getting depressed, and him not doing something about it for 2 years has nothing to do with it. Raising children is easy anyway, it's not like children are little demons who go through "MUST TOUCH AND CLIMB EVERYTHING" stages and poop constantly, and carry over 9000 diseases from the playground. And aren't born with Kung Fu Grip.

[Streak]

BUt when you bitch about the money instead of bitching about not having your kids 50%+ of the time AND put a general bubble on all woman, then you are suspect in my book.

Ksandra, she took the kids and fled 1500 miles away and got Daddy to pay for the divorce.

Do you have any idea how hard and expensive it is for the Father of the children to fight to undo that?

Maybe if more Mom's weren't bat shit crazy and pulling stunts like that, calling cops with false accusations and throwing men in jail as a pretense to secure custody there would be more Dads with 50/50.

[Ksandra]

Clearly it's her fault for getting depressed, and him not doing something about it for 2 years has nothing to do with it. Raising children is easy anyway, it's not like children are little demons who go through "MUST TOUCH AND CLIMB EVERYTHING" stages and poop constantly, and carry over 9000 diseases from the playground. And aren't born with Kung Fu Grip.

I'm going to be bald by the time I'm 40 because of this. ;_;


but ya, calling it now guy is probably more of a cause of the divorce than he wants to admit.

[Eurell]

forgot to mention our processional was ronfaure's song. But then we met in ffxi so it was required.

Ha, we played the same thing. Then as we walked out after the ceremony we played

although that doesn't sound like the exact version we used lol.



Also, I'm a stay at home dad. Does this make me evil and only in it for the money to? Or is that just the women?

[Ksandra]

Ksandra, she took the kids and fled 1500 miles away and got Daddy to pay for the divorce.

Do you have any idea how hard and expensive it is for the Father of the children to fight to undo that?

Maybe if more Mom's weren't bat shit crazy and pulling stunts like that, calling cops with false accusations and throwing men in jail as a pretense to secure custody there would be more Dads with 50/50.

hey numbnuts, you might want to relook at your posts. You posted some retarded bubble generalizations even BEFORE aks posted. As I said, I'm a stay-at-home mom. Come at me, bro.

You also have no idea if the father was ok with it. You generalize left and right and give terribad advice. Even this one includes generalizations.


And yet again, I am not saying custody is perfect. and I have said several times in the past I want more protection for the father. That does not mean all women who are stay-at-home and that all women who are divorcees are terrible.

Also, I'm a stay at home dad. Does this make me evil and only in it for the money to? Or is that just the women?

just the women, we are the root of all evil after all.

[Aksannyi]

Ksandra, she took the kids and fled 1500 miles away and got Daddy to pay for the divorce.

Do you have any idea how hard and expensive it is for the Father of the children to fight to undo that?

Maybe if more Mom's weren't bat shit crazy and pulling stunts like that, calling cops with false accusations and throwing men in jail as a pretense to secure custody there would be more Dads with 50/50.

Wow, I was not going to share this because it is truly NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS...

But have you ever been in an abusive relationship? Ever had a man hold you down on the ground choking your neck? Ever had a man force you to have sex with him, or to blow him? Ever have a man threaten you physical harm just for talking to another man? Even the goddamn cashier at the Wal-Mart?

Yeah, damn right I left that relationship, and I never looked back. I was taken advantage of in the worst way - that man spent all of my money knowing I would be incapable of leaving him. My father did me a HUGE favor in coming to get me, and I'm paying him back because I don't want a handout, not from anyone.

I made a poor choice in marrying him and I regret it, yes. My children are well cared for by family (not going to elaborate on that right now, but both my ex and I are paying their way presently).



Was I to stay in that abusive relationship for the rest of my life? Was I? You want to talk about a shitty situation, I worked my ass off to rise above the abuse I found myself in and I came out triumphant at that. I am working and living on my own, my children are well cared for, and my ex-husband can do whatever he wants, as long as he keeps supporting the children. He doesn't give me a dime, I don't give him a dime, everyone is happy.

Are you happy now? Or should I have stayed and taken constant beat-downs and gotten pregnant on his whims because I had no say in what happened to my body? Which would you think is the better choice? Leaving? Or staying?

Okay then.

[Byrthnoth]

I want to be a stay-at-home dad. Not just any stay-at-home dad, but the best stay-at-home dad. If there is a stay-at-home dad triathlon, I want to win it. Any rich ladies want to volunteer to be my sponsor? I really think we can go all the way.

Don't worry if you don't want to be pregnant/have kids yourself. I promise to cheat on you for the sake of my career and our mutual goal of winning the stay-at-home dad-athlon.

[Ksandra]

Aks, you are not allowed to bitch about saving yourself and your kids because it's a law.

he, however, is allowed to bitch about money because it's a law.


get it right.