How many is too many?

[Cantih]

Seriously, get of the board Archi, go get boning.

[Xajii]

Shouldn't you be drinking long islands out of coconuts while watching your wife bounce around in a bikini?

You need to be banned for the next two weeks.

Notice how it's the Packers bye week now

COINCIDENCE OR CONSPIRACY?

@ Bane and anyone else saying 0 - I'd seriously like to know how old you are. Sound almost like my dumb ass did at 17.

[Abandon]

fuck bitches, get money

[Dizzy's]

Im 21

[Denchi]

Real talk, I had a buddy from college who just happened to move to MN after college (We both went to ASU), and he worked at Land o Lakes (WUTTTT).

Dude is a model, doesn't know it. Never had any girlfriends, never slept around, just focused on his shit and got it done. Had 1 gf that didn't last a long time, then BAM, found a hottie at 24 and is gettin' married in the spring. Shits possible...........don't need to sleep around to find the one.

[BaneTheBrawler]

I'm 24. I don't see how my opinion could possibly change, since it's not based at all on the pleasure derived, and I'm not saying I'm only ever going to have sex with one woman. I'll have sex with as many people as I want to, though given the standards I've set I think I'll probably have 10 or fewer partners. Right now, I don't know anyone I'd want to have sex with, because the only women I know are either married, live across the country, or are people I don't like. I've met a few who might be candidates, but my life isn't in a good position to get to know them better. When I do find someone I want to have sex with, I'll go for it.

Also, I just realized, I misread the question as well. 0 is what I'm at, I definitely don't plan on staying at 0. So I apologize for that. It's still annoying when people act like it's a huge deal to not have had sex yet, though.

[Xantavia]

You just compared masturbation to penetration, as a virgin. Your entire argument is invalid. Just because the end result is the same doesn't make how you get there the same or as enjoyable.

But you have to remember, having not had penetration yet there is nothing to compare it to. I think its better to have only yourself as reference instead of that one time drunk in college, then dealing with a long ass dry spell. That has got to be a nightmare.

[GentaiShinigami]

I'd say it's rather the pheremones+hormones+brain feel good chems from being with a woman that will change feelings toward sex rather than just the sensations (though it certainly helps leave a nice mental impression).

Doesn't matter though, it'll happen when you want it to. If it hasn't you clearly didn't want it to (or weren't ready on some level), since as stated above, it really isn't that hard. The terms just haven't lined up for you and that's cool.

On topic: I'd say there realistically is no limit as far as me just cutting you off because of the number itself. However, after a certain point it is clear what qualifies as good judgment for that person and myself do not quite match and it's probably not going to be a good relationship to pursue. Doesn't mean they did anything wrong though it just basically means our personalities aren't likely to fit.

[Mazmaz]

http://www.theroot.com/views/nearly-...en-have-herpes

I don't like those odds

WHAT THE FUCK. So is it just American black women or all black women? Can I fuck non-black women from Africa?

[Rhyis.]

I imagine even the white native Africans are teeming with STDs. Africa in general is just fucked.

[Thuronn]

23, have had sex with 3 people but also been in a stable relationship since I was 17.

I know a girl who just turned 21, has had sex with 25 people and already had 3 stds (Chlamydia, gonorrhea, and HPV).

I've always felt like asking a person really doesn't matter. Most people I know, early to mid 20s, have this mindset of 'condoms are gross/stupid. I don't feel anything'. They might think they're not bad at 5.. maybe 10.

But then it's just a numbers game, the 5 people they may have already fucked 15+ people each. And all of those 15 people each have had sex with 10+ people... etcetc

I've thought of a future where, just like at any job where you have a criminal background check before you 'work', people decide to get tested regularly so they have a record of their sexual history before people just start humping.

Where I live, in Chattanooga, TN, amongst the young people there is WIDESPREAD HPV, that actually causes the warts, and people act like it's no big deal and just proceed to rawdog any and everyone they know.

edit; My girlfriend was telling me that her sister walked into her friend's house and this girl was getting railed by 5+guys at the same time. No condoms of course. Then 2 days later I see her sister and the alleged girl kissing on Instagram. ewwwwwwwwwwww

[Odin'sLaw]

To the people saying it must be because of our low self esteem and whatnot: Fuck you guys. Those of us who knowingly admitted to a social stigma (omg VIRGIN) were asked, in a rather impolite manner, to explain ourselves. We did. You then call us insecure? Fuck that. It takes a significant amount of security in one's self to admit when you're not good at something. Also, has it occurred to you that you might not be putting enough importance on it? If it's so trivial, and only about busting a nut, why not just whack off? Safer, less baggage, less expensive, etc. Obviously there's something that makes it about more than that. You want human companionship, not just an orgasm. Some of us don't need someone else to make us feel awesome; we can do that ourselves, in more ways than just masturbation.

I want sex to be important. Therefore, in addition to the other reasons I listed, I'm not going to chase after women like a slavering animal. When I decide I want to have sex with someone, and they agree, I will. Not when some random shithead on the internet thinks I should.

I realize I'm probably overreacting. I don't give a shit. I get this question any time the topic comes up, and without fail some dipshit comes up with the same half-baked diagnosis. Sure, sometimes you might be right. But not about me. I don't have a character flaw, so fuck you and the crabs you rode in on.

k im done ranting.

took bigger balls then i have to admit to it bane good on you, when you find that person you love and want to be with you fuck there brains out and enjoy it!

[Mizango]

Hah, it has nothing to do with your body. 90% is how well you can talk.

This a thousand times over.

[Mizango]

Also, Bane-raging isnt a good look. Slathering animal? Reeks of pussy propping to me.

[Tajin]

Reading comprehension. It is important.



I mean exactly what I say here, and nothing more. The first time I have sex, it's going to be terrible by any standard but my own. But I want it, and all following encounters, to be with someone important. Not my wife, hell not even necessarily my girlfriend, but someone who means something to me. It doesn't have to go anywhere. I just don't like the idea of banging someone I don't know.

Late and shit but...
Your opinion ok, good. However fuck this shit.
If I'm having sex, I want to have a good time first and foremost with a girl that knows how to fuck or has a body that attracts me. It wont be about "omg memories with that person!" but about having a good time.
For all intents and puposes I just want a wet pussy and a decent rack, stfu and spread and leta be done with this shit.

Making love or whatever else is another biz.

[stewie]

0, but I'm 18 and not currently going to college, so meh. I don't think there's really a "too many" number, it's more of how safe you are than how many I think. I don't think I'll ever go past 11-30 personally though, but I don't really care how many my partner would've been with.

[Boyiee]

I'm taking all my classes with my sister this semester, really really gets in the way of meeting girls on campus. But that's ok as I have a go-to already and I'm kinda tempted to see where things go with two friends of mine that, well they're best friends and just add alcohol and jump in the middle.

[TheDangerousDave]

I voted before reading the OP assuming the question was actually how many WOULD you fuck, in which case the number is infinite as I would hope any man's answer would be. How many could I theoretically fuck in my life time? Well, that depends on too many factors like health, how long I live, if I continue to stay in my relationship etc, etc. If you asked me if I would for any reason limit the number of people I would fuck then the answer is a resounding no, why would I? In, out, jizz face, move on, no fucks were given. If the answer was how many women could I be bothered to seduce in a lifetime then well, that's completely different as I only have so much willpower (ok, I'm lazy) and generally sex is sex so I would just fuck whatever comes easiest.

[TheDangerousDave]

Late and shit but...
Your opinion ok, good. However fuck this shit.
If I'm having sex, I want to have a good time first and foremost with a girl that knows how to fuck or has a body that attracts me. It wont be about "omg memories with that person!" but about having a good time.
For all intents and puposes I just want a wet pussy and a decent rack, stfu and spread and leta be done with this shit.

Making love or whatever else is another biz.

If you last more than 3 seconds, shit that sucked on my first time haha.

[Kanriel]

To the people saying it must be because of our low self esteem and whatnot: Fuck you guys. Those of us who knowingly admitted to a social stigma (omg VIRGIN) were asked, in a rather impolite manner, to explain ourselves. We did. You then call us insecure? Fuck that. It takes a significant amount of security in one's self to admit when you're not good at something. Also, has it occurred to you that you might not be putting enough importance on it? If it's so trivial, and only about busting a nut, why not just whack off? Safer, less baggage, less expensive, etc. Obviously there's something that makes it about more than that. You want human companionship, not just an orgasm. Some of us don't need someone else to make us feel awesome; we can do that ourselves, in more ways than just masturbation.

I want sex to be important. Therefore, in addition to the other reasons I listed, I'm not going to chase after women like a slavering animal. When I decide I want to have sex with someone, and they agree, I will. Not when some random shithead on the internet thinks I should.

I realize I'm probably overreacting. I don't give a shit. I get this question any time the topic comes up, and without fail some dipshit comes up with the same half-baked diagnosis. Sure, sometimes you might be right. But not about me. I don't have a character flaw, so fuck you and the crabs you rode in on.

k im done ranting.

I felt the same way as you do a few years back, didn't lose my virginity until 25 and didn't give a fuck if anyone thought it was wrong. Spent a few weeks chatting with a girl, we hit it off, we met up and I lost my virginity to her. Within a minute or two she says to me "I hope you're not going to be like a teenage girl and get emotionally attached to me and stuff because it was your first time." We still fucked the rest of the week but we sure didn't last.

Point of my story is that you can prop up the situation all you want, and try to make it perfect all you want, but basically you're likely going to be disappointed in the end for some reason or another. Find someone you care about, sure. Find someone you life, sure. Find someone you want to be with, sure. Find someone safe, sure. But 99% chance your first time is kinda sad, and you'll think so once you finally hit your groove in your sex life. Part of me wants to regret having lost my virginity to that girl (especially since I met my current girlfriend just over a month later) but I don't really care to worry and regret about shit like that, the first time is simply not that important.