How many is too many?

[Priran]

one woman with an extremely loose pussy wouldn't exist?

Nah, the woman would still exist. Just, her vagina would be virgin-tight because shoving fists and melons up it every day wouldn't have any lasting effect.

aside from that, intentional mutilation is a whole lot different than having sex

so according to you,

what doesn't count:
-size of insertion
-frequency of insertion

what counts:
-how tight she was to begin with
-kegels
-intent

so as long as they don't intend to get looser, tightness never changes except to get even tighter if they start doing kegels

[BaneTheBrawler]

I'd be interested in my partner's number, but only in the sense of gauging experience level. I'd like to know if I'm going in with someone who knows what they're doing, or if they're just as inexperienced as I am, or whatever.

Woefully hypothetical, of course, but some things are easier to guess than others. I really don't think I'd attach any value to the number itself; rather, the experience involved.

I'm curious, Aksannyi, would you give generalizations? Like, if a guy asked, would you say "I've had a few other partners." or would you just say "I'm not going to say." ? Because I think flat out not saying would bother me, as opposed to just a generalization. It would feel like you had a secret or something.

[Salodin]

Because I think flat out not saying would bother me, as opposed to just a generalization. It would feel like you had a secret or something.

This. It shouldn't be a big deal, unless there's something the female is ashamed of or wants to hide. And if there's a reason to feel ashamed of by having a large number of partners, well then don't have a large number of partners. I thought this was all simple stuff, but I guess not.

[Milkster]

So, a woman that sleeps with a lot is essential a whore, too few inexperienced/prude. Again, I ask why does sex have to be such a big deal and have to be a production?

[Xno Kappa]

And if there's a reason to feel ashamed of by having a large number of partners, well then don't have a large number of partners. I thought this was all simple stuff, but I guess not.

Come on, there's a social stigma for a reason. Women can't enjoy themselves the same way men can, so of course they're gonna lie about how many partners they've been with. If you want to start a legitimate relationship it shouldn't matter how many partners she's been with unless you're insecure with yourself. Maybe is because I got an eight inch cock, but I literally never gave a fuck about how many partners she's had as long she wasn't disease ridden.

EDIT: And the inexperience bit is nonsense. I married a virgin, trained her good, and she's now easily the best lay I've ever had. This coming from a dude with high double digit lays.

[BaneTheBrawler]

totally not how I meant it. I don't mean techniques and that sort of thing, number of partners isn't even a good gauge of that. Some people never try anything new. I just mean general experience. Knowing what to expect, whether its a big deal, if they might be nervous, etc. Any questions I would have would vary slightly based on the answer I got, but not much, honestly. I'd ask how I performed. If she had any previous partners, I'd ask if I was better. I wouldn't let the answer discourage me, either, because I'm a good learner. If I wasn't better, I want to become better. If I was better, then I get to feel smug about myself for a while. And still get better, because practice does that.

I guess my question is: What if you find someone who asks and feels the answer (ANSWER, not number) is important, but not in such an insecure way?

[Churchill]

Girls always ask me and I never know whether to lie and use a small number, or tell them the truth. Some women don't like hearing the truth, and others are comforted by it.

[Milkster]

totally not how I meant it. I don't mean techniques and that sort of thing, number of partners isn't even a good gauge of that. Some people never try anything new. I just mean general experience. Knowing what to expect, whether its a big deal, if they might be nervous, etc. Any questions I would have would vary slightly based on the answer I got, but not much, honestly. I'd ask how I performed. If she had any previous partners, I'd ask if I was better. I wouldn't let the answer discourage me, either, because I'm a good learner. If I wasn't better, I want to become better. If I was better, then I get to feel smug about myself for a while. And still get better, because practice does that.

I guess my question is: What if you find someone who asks and feels the answer (ANSWER, not number) is important, but not in such an insecure way?

It's based around insecurity, needing validation.

[BaneTheBrawler]

Well Milk, I guess I'm just not your type then.

Edit: I should clarify: I already said it was, just to a much lesser degree. Since you repeatedly point out how insecure I am, clearly, the above must be true.

Also, forgive me for seeking the approval of the people significant to me. My bad.

[Salodin]

So, a woman that sleeps with a lot is essential a whore, too few inexperienced/prude. Again, I ask why does sex have to be such a big deal and have to be a production?

I never said too few means shes inexperienced and a prude. And if a man sleeps with too many he's a man-whore. Again, I never said there's anything wrong with that, if that's what the man and woman are ok with, but I am not. I don't want to have laid with double digits, and I don't want my wife to have either.

I find the problem lays with the person being asked the question feeling there is a stigma to the large number they've slept with. It's not the number itself that bothers me, it's that sex means nothing to the woman, and that in itself bothers me. I feel like it should, and that if it didn't then what's the point in being in a serious relationship?

[Plow]

Nah, the woman would still exist. Just, her vagina would be virgin-tight because shoving fists and melons up it every day wouldn't have any lasting effect.


so according to you,

what doesn't count:
-size of insertion
-frequency of insertion

what counts:
-how tight she was to begin with
-kegels
-intent

so as long as they don't intend to get looser, tightness never changes except to get even tighter if they start doing kegels

you know a lot of guys with cocks the size of melons?

or women that walk around in public for hours at a time being fucked by guys with cocks the size of melons?

go do some research on the subject, you're simply wrong

[Plow]

So, a woman that sleeps with a lot is essential a whore, too few inexperienced/prude. Again, I ask why does sex have to be such a big deal and have to be a production?

while we're asking questions about mountains of molehills, can your next poll be "how many attention whoring threads is too many?"

[dejet]

how about this. Do whatever the fuck you want?

That simple, if a girl turns you off because 30 dicks have been in it. Then ya skip her. If not why does it matter? Myself I could care. Guy/Girl does not matter, if you have had 30 partners(random large number) and you are in your 20's I feel that me sleeping with you means nothing as it is not really hard to do so with you, and a major part of a relationship is sex. And really to me it does mean something. Im pissed at myself for getting over 10 and I could see some woman being turn off by that.

just like I said at the start; Do whatever you want that simple. no man/woman should be ashamed of any number if they ok with i their partners doing the same that is my real cut off and answer to how many is to many..

[Xno Kappa]

Some of you guys really need to stop putting the pussy on the pedestal. Pro-tip, not every single sexual experience in your life is going to be some straight outta Notebook nonsense. Believe it or not, there really are girls out there who just wants to have a good time that night and solely just wants sex.

[Zeb]

But how many dicks is it ok for your GF to have sucked before she dated you? 37?

[Salodin]

how about this. Do whatever the fuck you want?

That simple, if a girl turns you off because 30 dicks have been in it. Then ya skip her. If not why does it matter? Myself I could care. Guy/Girl does not matter, if you have had 30 partners(random large number) and you are in your 20's I feel that me sleeping with you means nothing as it is not really hard to do so with you, and a major part of a relationship is sex. And really to me it does mean something. Im pissed at myself for getting over 10 and I could see some woman being turn off by that.

just like I said at the start; Do whatever you want that simple. no man/woman should be ashamed of any number if they ok with i their partners doing the same that is my real cut off and answer to how many is to many..

Winner winner chicken dinner.

Some of you guys really need to stop putting the pussy on the pedestal. Pro-tip, not every single sexual experience in your life is going to be some straight outta Notebook nonsense. Believe it or not, there really are girls out there who just wants to have a good time that night and solely just wants sex.

I'm not putting the pussy on a pedestal, I'm putting what I want in a relationship on a pedestal, like it should be. I want a relationship to mean something to me, and it doesn't mean something to me if I know my partner is easy. I know some women just want sex cause it feels good, more power to them; but it's not for me.

[BaneTheBrawler]

Some of you guys really need to stop putting the pussy on the pedestal. Pro-tip, not every single sexual experience in your life is going to be some straight outta Notebook nonsense. Believe it or not, there really are girls out there who just wants to have a good time that night and solely just wants sex.

We've been over this. Just cos that's what she wants doesn't mean that's what I want. Get it? I don't want that. If you think that's putting it on a pedestal, fine. Too bad for you. I'm going to keep on doing it.

[Talragan]

I don't think it really matters? Why have a goal? Just see what happens.

Worked in hospitality for 5 years, got my numbers up then (not that I think it matters too much?) as long as you wrap your tool, don't get anyone pregnant until your ready etc.

EDIT - see others have said similar things xD

[Xno Kappa]

I'm not putting the pussy on a pedestal, I'm putting what I want in a relationship on a pedestal, like it should be. I want a relationship to mean something to me, and it doesn't mean something to me if I know my partner is easy. I know some women just want sex cause it feels good, more power to them; but it's not for me.

So any woman who who has every quality you ever dreamed of for a wife is automatically null and void because she had one too many nuts busted on her face? Sounds silly as shit to me lol, you make it out to be those kind of women can never fall in love, never stay faithful, and straight up fault them for having a good time in their single life.

[Xno Kappa]

We've been over this. Just cos that's what she wants doesn't mean that's what I want. Get it? I don't want that. If you think that's putting it on a pedestal, fine. Too bad for you. I'm going to keep on doing it.

And like I said, get your girl however you want your romantic comedy to be written. That's your life, live it son. Shit still reeks of insecurity, giving the pussy way too much power.