How many is too many?

**Roranora** · 2012-11-09 11:51

also kinda unclear on the question

i would sleep with 50-100+ -- that is, nothing against the idea. enough fish in the sea, etc. -- but i'm not one who has the pacing of new/different partners to get that high

i'll probably end up in that 11-30 window

**Nirokun!** · 2012-11-09 12:11

I put 0-10 because that's most likely what I will experience in my lifetime. I've never had sex before (my friend has held my hand a few times, and kissed me on the cheek twice, but that's about it) because of obvious obstacles. I've always just "ran away" when guys became interested in me, even if I liked them, because I would never want them to know me like that. After the surgery, I don't know. It would have to feel right, and I would have to know that I was safe with him, so I'm sure I'm the kind of person that would only have sex in a relationship.

**Tajin** · 2012-11-09 12:22

I'm in stable relationship but. I do not have a cap for me or my partner (obv. is not like I'll ever get 10+) but STD issues aside, I dont have a problem with fucking half the world.

**Koul** · 2012-11-09 12:37

if I ever date anyone who asks me this question, I usually don't have any high expectations because I feel like it's a loaded question and one that only insecure people ask. For me, it's of no concern how many people I have or how many they have slept with. My response usually depends on the tone they asked the question in though. If they seem apathetic towards it but are just curious, I'm usually okay. The only time I was a little judgmental about sleeping around was when my friend was hooking up with about 4 dudes A DAY for a week or so.

currently, I'm probably getting laid about once every.... 3-6 weeks. Different dude each time. Think I'm up to about 30-40 different sexual partners and I've been sexually active for 6 years now. Not looking to really date seriously until I get more comfortable in my own life.

**Abandon** · 2012-11-09 12:57

As far as race goes, a lot of white guys (hi broven) won't fuck a girl if she's been with a black guy. So there's that.

**Odin'sLaw** · 2012-11-09 13:01

Originally Posted by Abandon

As far as race goes, a lot of white guys (hi broven) won't fuck a girl if she's been with a black guy. So there's that.

sadly as unracist as i am i do fall under this category despite been lucky myself with a better then avarage sized tool :/ on a few occasions i have been told by the woman I'm bigger then the black guy she has been with but for some reason it feels "wrong" and i don't know why D: don't hate me Abandon

**shidobu** · 2012-11-09 13:11

Originally Posted by Odin'sLaw

sadly as unracist as i am i do fall under this category despite been lucky myself with a better then avarage sized tool :/ on a few occasions i have been told by the woman I'm bigger then the black guy she has been with but for some reason it feels "wrong" and i don't know why D: don't hate me Abandon

lol.. this boggles my mind

this is where black men and white men split
Black "do i give a fuck who was in this pussy before me nope, as long as shes clean and sucking my dick i don't care"
Whites: "Well... if she will fuck Mandingo she will do anything huh?"

i had a white girl i was dating tell me once her ex bf at the time had an 9in dick. Bigger than mine
did i fucking care?
nope
did it stop me from fucking her?
nope

**Odin'sLaw** · 2012-11-09 13:14

Originally Posted by shidobu

lol.. this boggles my mind

this is where black men and white men split
Black "do i give a fuck who was in this pussy before me nope, as long as shes clean and sucking my dick i don't care"
Whites: "Well... if she will fuck Mandingo she will do anything huh?"

i had a white girl i was dating tell me once her ex bf at the time had an 9in dick. Bigger than mine
did i fucking care?
nope
did it stop me from fucking her?
nope

thing is it only works if its a white girl if its a black girl i don't mind (maybe i just presume she's more likely to have a black partner? idk) but i find it a weird subconscious thing

**Melena** · 2012-11-09 13:19

As already been said, shit's situational. I've only had a few partners in my life. Wife has had a bunch. We are married but in an open relationship. Sex is sex to us. We enjoy it, and if there's someone else who is fine with the situation who also enjoys it then we go for it. Just have to make sure you wrap it so you don't wind up with herpes the love bug or some other gift that keeps on giving.

**Galkaeater** · 2012-11-09 13:23

I don't really want to know what came before big or small

**Odin'sLaw** · 2012-11-09 13:25

now we are on about partners but would whores be added to that number? I've been lucky with charm but a friend of mine did lose his to a hooker we joked with him saying he never really lost his virginity, but if someone is inclined to pay for it wouldn't there respective view be 100+ instantly? >.> (he has more confidence these days and i think he gets some none paid for pussy about once every 2-3 months but i'd say he'd be inclined to fuck half the world if he could)

**Abandon** · 2012-11-09 13:48

Originally Posted by Odin'sLaw

sadly as unracist as i am i do fall under this category despite been lucky myself with a better then avarage sized tool :/ on a few occasions i have been told by the woman I'm bigger then the black guy she has been with but for some reason it feels "wrong" and i don't know why D: don't hate me Abandon

i read this as "I don't MEAN to be racist; I just am!"

**Xajii** · 2012-11-09 13:51

Originally Posted by Abandon

i read this as "I don't MEAN to be racist; I just am!"

seriously, how can you justify that lmao it's so ridiculous

**Moss** · 2012-11-09 13:55

Originally Posted by Abandon

i read this as "I don't MEAN to be racist; I just am!"

Yeah what the fuck... still not following.

It seriously bothers you if a white chick has been with a black guy?

**Headspace** · 2012-11-09 13:59

I'm not a racist but [insert racist comment here]

**Odin'sLaw** · 2012-11-09 13:59

wouldn't say bothers me and i have been with white chicks who have had black men but idk strange world, not a racist even if it sounds like i am

**Boyiee** · 2012-11-09 14:03

The only time you should be concerned with who/how many the girl has been with before you is when she's been with at least one of your friends and/or you also want to fuck one of her friends too.

**Pirian** · 2012-11-09 14:05

Originally Posted by Odin'sLaw

wouldn't say bothers me and i have been with white chicks who have had black men but idk strange world, not a racist even if it sounds like i am

Just because it's subconscious doesn't mean it isn't, lol.

The fuck should you care? She may have fucked some bigger dicks, but she's fucking yours now.

**Sythe** · 2012-11-09 14:06

I use to be quite the man whore so I feel like I cant really judge a chick on how many men she's been with. That being said, anything more then 10 and I feel like she's a slut :/ damn you double standard building society

**Conrad** · 2012-11-09 14:12

I've had two sexual partners. First had one partner before me. Second and current had between 10-12 total partners, male and female. Couldn't give a shit how many people they had been with prior, or the demographics of those people.

As for me, I expect to be under 10 in my lifetime considering I had a slow start (didn't lose my virginity until after college), but there's no upper cap that I would hit and decide is too much or excessive.

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