How many is too many?

[dejet]

Actually it's a double standard. If any of the straight guys had pulled the amount of tail I have who among them should be ashamed? Who would be believed?

You really are full of yourself lol

[Odin'sLaw]

It's not difficult to find numerous women to sleep with either, if you have the skill to pick them up that is.

was out saturday night i walked away with 17 numbers 13 of them i wouldn't look at again 3 i would consider and 1 i would like to see a lot more of from any angle, i'm not confident by any means but a woman with a drink in her belly is a lot easier then people think

[Fondue]

was out saturday night i walked away with 17 numbers 13 of them i wouldn't look at again 3 i would consider and 1 i would like to see a lot more of from any angle, i'm not confident by any means but a woman with a drink in her belly is a lot easier then people think

Were you exchanging business cards? Lol what the fuck

[Apelila]

You really are full of yourself lol

I'm good at what I do.
Men.

[Odin'sLaw]

Were you exchanging business cards? Lol what the fuck

was feeling flirty, jumped around the clubs since i had different groups of friends in a few of them got lucky best I've done is 22, we just set each other the task of "who can get the most numbers"

[AoE]

was out saturday night i walked away with 17 numbers 13 of them i wouldn't look at again 3 i would consider and 1 i would like to see a lot more of from any angle, i'm not confident by any means but a woman with a drink in her belly is a lot easier then people think

Reminds me of the time I was on the train going home and all the drunk faggots from the Yankee game that night were coming home at the same time. This one girl walked past me, stopped, demanded her friend to move so she could sit next to me and by the end of the the night, if her people weren't there to stop her from being stupid (I'm actually not mad at them) I could've took her home easily for one of the easiest lays ever.

My only regret that night was not getting her number but I know her type and the places those people hang so if I actually tried, I'd of probably ran into her again.

[Mazmaz]

was out saturday night i walked away with 17 numbers 13 of them i wouldn't look at again 3 i would consider and 1 i would like to see a lot more of from any angle, i'm not confident by any means but a woman with a drink in her belly is a lot easier then people think

OOOOOOH YOU GOT NUMBERS HUH?! WOW OH MAN LOOK AT YOU.

I could go on Craigslist and get 2 cocks in my mouth within 30 mins if I wanted to. Keep pretending like women are just as easy as men.

[Odin'sLaw]

OOOOOOH YOU GOT NUMBERS HUH?! WOW OH MAN LOOK AT YOU.

I could go on Craigslist and get 2 cocks in my mouth within 30 mins if I wanted to. Keep pretending like women are just as easy as men.

well i could have gone home with 3 of them but i like a challenge not to one's half asleep, keep your hate to a minimum

[Kipling]

The amount of flexing in this thread is getting ridiculous.

[AoE]

http://www.bodybuildingpro.com/300px-Arnold-flexing.jpg

[Abandon]

Well, this WAS fun to read.

[Howie Roary]

16 or 17, somehow thought it was more, but I'm looking to have the current one be the one I keep

I don't consider mine high but I have been a bit weirded out by a couple previous partners with like 30-60+ partners (they never did say)

edit: oops, it's how many I would sleep with. Well if you asked me while I was with my first love at 18, I'd have said 1. Ask me later, I'd have said a lot more, especially in high school. Now I'm fine with how things turned out, keeping about half of my partners within relationships

[byebyeffxi]

I personally don't think I have a cap for myself. I have had my share of drunk college sluts but nothing bad. I'd say I would do most everyone I have even when sober. However, I wouldn't want a partner who was that way haha. Double standard? Of course, nobody says you can't have that.

[Xantavia]

For all the people who believe sex is just sex and advise us not to put the pussy on a pedastal, have you always felt that way? Or did you originally have an idealized view of sex until it happened?

As an aside, I'm glad I haven't seen any (or don't remember) posts proclaiming "Good for you. I wish I had waited/was still a virgin". That is the one comment that always annoys me. You made your choice, be o.k. with it.

[Kuya]

I didn't always feel that way. I learned my lesson the hard way that you have no control over when you'll find someone to love. I made a lot of mistakes by prioritizing finding a serious relationship, when i simply should have been enjoying my time and my sexuality while the right person shows up.

[Tajin]

For all the people who believe sex is just sex and advise us not to put the pussy on a pedastal, have you always felt that way? Or did you originally have an idealized view of sex until it happened?

As an aside, I'm glad I haven't seen any (or don't remember) posts proclaiming "Good for you. I wish I had waited/was still a virgin". That is the one comment that always annoys me. You made your choice, be o.k. with it.

I've always disliked one night stands because STD paranoia and also prefer to give and receive full service; that's easier to accomplish with a regular sexual partner than your average one night stand (sexual higyene, etc).

[Maakoto]

Yes, absolutely. I don't see why an exact number is so important though. I enjoy sex. A lot. I am a sexual person. I know that when I end up with someone, the fact that I've had multiple partners won't faze him, just as it won't faze me that he's had a lot. It will be someone who is as sexual as I am and will understand that sex is sometimes just sex and sometimes it's deeper (lolpun).

I'm not at all insecure about it, but the hell I went through in that past relationship seriously tainted me against wanting to be nearly as forthcoming in the future. I have no trust issues and I'm not afraid to share that I've been with a good number of people, I just don't see why anyone who is with me now needs details. "I was with other people, more than X and less than Y, I'm with you now, let's leave it as it is." My past is my past, I do dwell on it from time to time but I don't live in it.

I agree with Aksannyi. Needing to know that information is unnecessary. You should enjoy what you have now and not worry about what someone's number of partners.

Also, to say that because I've had N partners means that sex is considered meaningless to me (N being whatever threshold you deem it to be, I suppose) is stupid. Sex is a fun thing to do sometimes when I just want to get some, and sex with someone I love means a whole lot. Shit is situational. I'm sorry, but the battery operated boyfriend doesn't always do it for me. Sue me. There is a difference between sex and making love. One means something, the other doesn't.

If you're with someone and it feels meaningful (on both ends), the sex will feel meaningful. If there were no feelings, then it is probably meaningless. If you felt ready with another person, then it shouldn't matter about the N number of partners.

I used to want to share my virginity with a girl that was also a virgin. Or, even share first date/kiss with someone that may be also their first. I realized that I was putting off potential dates with people with similar interests or possible quality relationships because they had a boyfriend before. That's when I finally met the first girl I dated. We dated for a year, but never got in a serious relationship. I also knew that she had a four-year relationship before meeting me. I thought it would bother me but instead, I enjoyed the time I spent with her. I even lost my virginity to her and I don't regret it. Because, to us at that time, it was meaningful.

I answered 0-10 because I would rather find a lover than something short term. I don't think I can do sex with zero attachment. I'm 26 and I've only really dated two girls. I'll most likely date a girl that previously had partner(s), as long as we're both responsible when we're together.

Also, I don't know how many would be too many. maybe over 50?

[hey]

For all the people who believe sex is just sex and advise us not to put the pussy on a pedastal, have you always felt that way?

Yes.

[Nightfyre]

For all the people who believe sex is just sex and advise us not to put the pussy on a pedastal, have you always felt that way? Or did you originally have an idealized view of sex until it happened?

Not really one of the people you're targeting with that question, but I had an idealized view when I was younger. That actually stopped at some point prior to losing my virginity. I still don't really do one-night stands and prefer... not necessarily committed long-term relationships, but fairly stable ones. Partly out of a desire to avoid STDs and partly because my free time is pretty sparse. I'd rather get repeat hookups/dates with somebody I know I'll enjoy spending time with than constantly experiment with the flavor of the week.

[Kuya]

Why are you guys worried about STDs during one night stands? That's what condoms are for. What exactly were you guys planning on doing?