
Originally Posted by
BaneTheBrawler
I dunno. There's a lot of reasons I'm at 0, I suppose. Partly because I'm just not all that interested, I guess. I mean, I'd like to have sex, but not with some random chick who had one too many. I want it to be with someone important to me. Not just my first time, either. All times should be with someone important. The only female friends I have are married or live thousands of miles away. I'm not a party guy, either. Too loud. I like to be able to hear myself think. I don't go to school right now, and haven't since High School, and even then I was socially awkward and unpopular. I don't drink, smoke, or do any other drugs, and never have (With the exception of drinking a few times after I turned 21- I stopped because the beer shits are a lot worse with Crohn's). So yeah, I rarely get out more than twice a week, and then usually to do errands. I hang out with my friends, but since they know I don't like loud bars and whatnot, usually when we hang out it's at someone's house or a movie theater. And I live with my parents. Not even in the basement; I still have the same bedroom I've had since High School. And of course there's a fair amount of cowardice involved, though that's diminished over the years (As Xantavia described). None of that is really conducive to meeting interesting women.
I might be unattractive, or even a jerk too. Dunno. Hard to self-evaluate these things.
In any case, while I do sometimes get lonely, I joke about it because it's not a big deal to me. Eventually I'll meet someone awesome, we'll decide to get it on, and then I'll know if I should have been trying harder.
Also: for the trans question... I honestly don't know how I'd act. I could see it going either way. There's certainly some squeamishness, which I try to suppress, but it's still there. I think I could more easily overcome it if the woman was just a generally awesome person. Trans stuff is confusing, so thus far I've tended to just ignore it and treat them as I would any other person of that gender with an interesting, unusual perspective. Whether I could apply that to sex, I'm not sure. I hope so, because (operating on the assumption that the person in question is a pretty awesome individual) if not I'd be missing out.
For the race thing: I don't find some races to be as attractive as others, though there are some notable exceptions within those races. And again, awesome personality would go a long way towards overcoming anything else. My partner's past choice in partners wouldn't bother me, so long as there's no diseases involved.
And as for size... I'm certainly not the largest man alive, but I'm not concerned. If my dick doesn't do it for her... well, I've got other body parts, and we've become the dominant species by creating and using tools, and I'm not above using them to please someone important to me. If that's still not enough to keep her interested, too damn bad for her.