How many is too many?

[Odin'sLaw]

Just because it's subconscious doesn't mean it isn't, lol.

The fuck should you care? She may have fucked some bigger dicks, but she's fucking yours now.

if there is a reason for it i'd say it would be women who have had black men seem to think there black and develop a weird attitude, a friend of mine nicest guy in the world his girl friend has developed this attitude (him been black) and i know its not from him but others (his sisters have an aggressive attitude) which is probably the only reason i might walk away but i honestly don't know, I've slept with a few women who have been against fucking a black guy and saying its repulsive, now that's racist, I'd fuck a day glow green chick if she was hot :/

[hey]

wouldn't say bothers me and i have been with white chicks who have had black men but idk strange world, not a racist even if it sounds like i am

Actually you are, you just don't realize it.

[Odin'sLaw]

Actually you are, you just don't realize it.

maybe my penis is racist? ;o

[Milkster]

Having race as a sexual preference for you and your partners doesn't make you racist... But that's not what this thread is about.

[Abandon]

one drop, etc

[Odin'sLaw]

i don't like been with women who have had other men tbh (STD's worry me more then anything else) only 2 of the 8 women i've slept with have had partners before me

[Nirokun!]

Now I'm curious (look how many posts I've made lately!) People are judging a guy for not wanting a woman who has a sexual history with a black man/black men. Would you judge him for not wanting a woman who has a history of male genitalia, where she now has female genitalia? Assuming she is pretty, obviously. I mean, if history is history, and she is there now, and willing, is it okay?

My prediction:

Spoiler: show

I think the guys who have had a lot of sexual partners would not care if it was just sex, everyone else: "Nah bro." lol

[Aksannyi]

Having race as a sexual preference for you and your partners doesn't make you racist... But that's not what this thread is about.

Saying that you personally wouldn't sleep with X race is different than saying I wouldn't sleep with <name> because he/she was with X race in the past. I'm personally not attracted to black men just the same as I'm not attracted to men with blonde hair (sorry Aryan race you just don't do it for me), but I give two shits if a guy I'm with fucked a black chick once or ten times. It isn't like any "black germs" are still on him or some shit.

As for the poll question, somewhere up to 50 would be my limit. I think if I ever crossed that mark I would feel like a ho. I have a ways to go on it, which is good, gives me a chance to play lol. My ex-husband couldn't believe that I'd been with the number of people at the time (which is obviously less than it is now) and he constantly brought it up. I learned two things: 1. Don't date insecure assholes and 2. Don't bring up the number, even if they say they want to know, their perception will change whether they expected more or less from you.

It is a sad standard. My number is not what I'd consider high but it's higher than some of the others in this thread. I don't share it - with anyone - so don't ask. But suffice to say I'm sure many would consider me a whore because I enjoy sex and do not necessarily feel the need to be in a relationship to have it. Relationships take work, sex is all the fun without the work. But at the end of the day, I'm content with how I treat myself and my body and it's my decision to make. On that same token, as long as a guy I'm gonna sleep with is free from the nasties, he can sleep with however many people he wants in his lifetime.

[Rhyis.]

50+ is reaching pornstar quantity imo. I dunno what my count is, but 50 seems like a whole lot of one night stands.

i don't like been with women who have had other men tbh (STD's worry me more then anything else) only 2 of the 8 women i've slept with have had partners before me

We got a pedo in our midst.

[Cream Soda]

If I came home and there was some hot bitch laying on my bed butt naked and I was single, sure why not, but dont' really go out of my way to fuck someone if I'm not in a relationship (not against it though if they're the on pressing the issue, otherwise, simply not that important to me). I'm fine with only pursuing when I'm with someone.

So that being said, don't really have an exact answer for your poll.

[Pirian]

Now I'm curious (look how many posts I've made lately!) People are judging a guy for not wanting a woman who has a sexual history with a black man/black men. Would you judge him for not wanting a woman who has a history of male genitalia, where she now has female genitalia? Assuming she is pretty, obviously. I mean, if history is history, and she is there now, and willing, is it okay?

My prediction:

Spoiler: show

I think the guys who have had a lot of sexual partners would not care if it was just sex, everyone else: "Nah bro." lol

I think we've had this conversation in that special transgender rights thread a long while ago, and the conclusion was that any lingering feelings of "this is a man" is more homophobic, even if it's subtle and not overt homophobia.

That being said, I wouldn't care because it isn't really relevant. The only reason I would ever care is if I wanted biological children, and then I wouldn't be thinking of you as a man without ovaries, but a woman with a hysterectomy (which I've have messed around with a girl that had a hysterectomy, so for all I know she could have been post-op.)

[Odin'sLaw]

50+ is reaching pornstar quantity imo. I dunno what my count is, but 50 seems like a whole lot of one night stands.



We got a pedo in our midst.

1st one was when i was 14 (she was 15 so by law standards i was raped?) the rest have been 18-20 the couple that hadn't was 27 and 36

[Odin'sLaw]

Saying that you personally wouldn't sleep with X race is different than saying I wouldn't sleep with <name> because he/she was with X race in the past. I'm personally not attracted to black men just the same as I'm not attracted to men with blonde hair (sorry Aryan race you just don't do it for me), but I give two shits if a guy I'm with fucked a black chick once or ten times. It isn't like any "black germs" are still on him or some shit.

As for the poll question, somewhere up to 50 would be my limit. I think if I ever crossed that mark I would feel like a ho. I have a ways to go on it, which is good, gives me a chance to play lol. My ex-husband couldn't believe that I'd been with the number of people at the time (which is obviously less than it is now) and he constantly brought it up. I learned two things: 1. Don't date insecure assholes and 2. Don't bring up the number, even if they say they want to know, their perception will change whether they expected more or less from you.

It is a sad standard. My number is not what I'd consider high but it's higher than some of the others in this thread. I don't share it - with anyone - so don't ask. But suffice to say I'm sure many would consider me a whore because I enjoy sex and do not necessarily feel the need to be in a relationship to have it. Relationships take work, sex is all the fun without the work. But at the end of the day, I'm content with how I treat myself and my body and it's my decision to make. On that same token, as long as a guy I'm gonna sleep with is free from the nasties, he can sleep with however many people he wants in his lifetime.

i've fucked black women so i'm not worried for this "black germ" >.>

[Aksannyi]

i've fucked black women so i'm not worried for this "black germ" >.>

I put it in quotes so I hope it's not offending, I'm honestly not sure what people consider is going to happen to them if they sleep outside their race, it baffles me. So I made up and quoted the "black germs" thing. lol

[Kipling]

A few male friends and I were having a conversation about racial preferences when dating (and general attraction) just a few days ago. Most of us are white and stated we prefer white women just because that is what we find ourselves most attracted to. Peruvian friend said he prefers Hispanic women. However, it is not a deal breaker or something we would hold against a possible interest (and that we would not think any less of them for having a more open and diverse interest - I.E. a girl of our race being attracted to those who are not white). A very normal perspective I think in general to just be more attracted to what you know. Though holding it against someone is just silly.

However, the true gem of knowledge in the conversation came from my south American friend who said "I like brown and black girls cause flat booty is the WORST thing." He's right too.

[Xno Kappa]

Wifey was a virgin and I've had a shit load of partners when we married. Women in my experience tend to feel more comfortable when the guy has more partners then they've had.

[Odin'sLaw]

I put it in quotes so I hope it's not offending, I'm honestly not sure what people consider is going to happen to them if they sleep outside their race, it baffles me. So I made up and quoted the "black germs" thing. lol

i know you didn't mean it as a quip at me i was just saying i know its not that, as long as a woman has a pretty face a nice smile and a decent body i'd take her home Asian white or black

[Rhyis.]

1st one was when i was 14 (she was 15 so by law standards i was raped?) the rest have been 18-20 the couple that hadn't was 27 and 36

I was just fucking with ya. I'm assuming you're just young. If you're still single at 27+, you really won't have a choice but to date people who have had prior experience. Because well if you're dating a 25+ year old that hasn't had sex yet, there's probably something fishy going on there.

[Odin'sLaw]

I was just fucking with ya. I'm assuming you're just young. If you're still single at 27+, you really won't have a choice but to date people who have had prior experience. Because well if you're dating a 25+ year old that hasn't had sex yet, there's probably something fishy going on there.

i'm 23, i actually know a woman of 32 who is a virgin because she believes in it only after marriage (her reason is of a religious standard so i understand why, she is a very attractive woman but insanely religious)

[Rhyis.]

Sounds fishy.