How many is too many?

[Denchi]

MY TWO CENTS WELL AFTER THE THREAD DERAILED AND NO ONE CARES.

I said 0-10. I'm at a 5 right now. 3 long relationships, a one-night stand, and a 3-night stand. The whole "night stand" scenario just never sits well with me. Granted, they were both with chicks who were way too fucking hot for me......and honestly who knows what I'll do if/when those situations present themselves. But generally I just prefer people who are a little more selective about that sort of thing. I think it tends to fit with personalities, although realistically if I clicked with a girl and she told me she's slept with 30 dudes I'd be kinda uncomfortable, but something I think I could get over, I'm just not sure that girl and I would have much in common.....just going off stereotypes (whee).

I'm doing the whole OK Cupid thing right now and met a few girls that way, and I know I could have slept with 10 girls by now (currently only the 3-night stand is my foray into that), and more to come....but I just don't like that shit, it's too shallow and IM SENSITIVE WTF.

[Milkster]

From my own views on the subject, I would be unsure if it is something I could deal with. Being a virgin with the old fashioned idea that the upper limit would be 1, I'm not sure what my feelings would be if I didn't have sex with a "real" woman first. But all of that is moot for me anyway. Went from shyness of "what if she says no", to freaking out of "what if she says yes and I have no idea what to do", to comfortably settling down with "i'm not going to go out of my way to make it happen and I'm okay with that". And that was just when it came to asking somebody out on a date.


When you can measure 4" if you are feeling generous with yourself, there is no way to build up confidence to just go with it. Too much thinking that she really won't be into it, will eventually cheat on you, you will break up with her, and so on. For me, all I can see is the relationship unhappily ending so why bother starting.

[Milkster]

MY TWO CENTS WELL AFTER THE THREAD DERAILED AND NO ONE CARES.

I said 0-10. I'm at a 5 right now. 3 long relationships, a one-night stand, and a 3-night stand. The whole "night stand" scenario just never sits well with me. Granted, they were both with chicks who were way too fucking hot for me......and honestly who knows what I'll do if/when those situations present themselves. But generally I just prefer people who are a little more selective about that sort of thing. I think it tends to fit with personalities, although realistically if I clicked with a girl and she told me she's slept with 30 dudes I'd be kinda uncomfortable, but something I think I could get over, I'm just not sure that girl and I would have much in common.....just going off stereotypes (whee).

I'm doing the whole OK Cupid thing right now and met a few girls that way, and I know I could have slept with 10 girls by now (currently only the 3-night stand is my foray into that), and more to come....but I just don't like that shit, it's too shallow and IM SENSITIVE WTF.

I believe most people that feel this way only believe you can have sex with emotions behind it due to how much of an event it's been turned into by media. Sex can be purely physical with 0 emotion involved but multiple orgasms. Sometimes, you just need to cum.

[Xno Kappa]

Sounds like some of ya are just putting the pussy on a pedestal.

[Dimmauk]

Sounds like some of ya are just putting the pussy on a pedestal.

Yup.

I blame Religion or those shitty Notebook type movies also.

[Naggi]

One of my wife's friends cheated on her husband because he was too big. She was Asian and sex was painful and not pleasurable.

Wow, seriously? Either the husband was too selfish to take things more slowly, or she was too thoughtless to realise that you just get used to it after a while.

[Churchill]

Being married portrays an assumption of an ample amount of time to get used to it.

[Dimmauk]

Wow, seriously? Either the husband was too selfish to take things more slowly, or she was too thoughtless to realise that you just get used to it after a while.

They were High School sweethearts, but it wasn't like they only had sex a couple of times. They were together for like 5 years, but also pretty young.

[Naggi]

They were High School sweethearts, but it wasn't like they only had sex a couple of times. They were together for like 5 years, but also pretty young.

Unless this guy had an unusually large one, I don't see how that could have been such an issue that was enough to make her cheat. I'm in the same boat as she was, and whilst it's sometimes unpleasant, I wouldn't cheat because of it. Sounds like inexperience coupled with lack of common sense...

[Rhyis.]

Sounds like some of ya are just putting the pussy on a pedestal.

Pretty much what the last page has turned into.

[Ksandra]

hey now. Dicks were mentioned.

[Mizango]

Pretty much what the last page has turned into.

Glad it wasnt just me.

hey now. Dicks were mentioned.

Even pics if you look hard enough..

[Weltall]

Sounds like some of ya are just putting the pussy on a pedestal.

This is never the key to success....

Berate, scorn, and mold...

[Dizzy's]

Im currently at zero myself. Some of you know me from the fitness thread, so yes i work out.

[Weltall]

Hah, it has nothing to do with your body. 90% is how well you can talk.

[Xajii]

Hah, it has nothing to do with your body. 90% is how well you can talk.

Second. Don't worry about your performance so much and be yourself - if you're cool, girls will like you, and they'll let you do things to them. Let the rest develop as you get experience. No one, no matter how strong their cock and how chiseled their face, is great their first time.

[Xno Kappa]

I remember my first time with a chick who was like four years older then me and had mad experience. I was trying to be some porn star by putting her in all kinds of positions lol, she told me afterwards that with the constant changes she couldn't get off.

[Abandon]

eat pussy. then you can be as selfish as you want. If you wanna dump an' roll, it becomes acceptable.

[Xno Kappa]

Shit was like when I was 13, I'm well versed in giving a good dicking now lol.

[Guitarman]

Hah, it has nothing to do with your body. 90% is how well you can talk.

This is true and all, but it's a hell of a lot harder to get to "hello" when your gut meets her first.