
Originally Posted by
Ayn
That's face-palm worthy.
Of the family mentioned, only the middle kid's the smartest. He flat out said "Yeah, if I went to college, I'd fail out because I'd be partying all the time", so he joined the Navy and is in Japan right now.
Oldest pretty much whines that no one helps him, but that kid got way, way more support than I did with school and has fucked up a lot more.
Youngest one just went to college because that's what she was supposed to do. I'm not against it, but I tried to say 'do a Community College first, but stay on her about it'. "Oh no, she just wants to go off to college so bad and I don't want to stop her".
It was just a long, painful conversation, where the parents assumed it was ok for her to have an asston of loans, since that'd 'be on her' to pay them back. I get that, but telling a kid 'you have to go to college' but do nothing to educate them financially fucking infuriates me.