Did you read the link above? It shows you where the Best Friend selection is. I sent you a friend request. I'm omni@PF - 307,061,247.
Just to reiterate, best friend selection is a pretty important, because resets only come once or twice a year. It's a valuable tool, and it's up to you if you want to use it to give your early/mid game a boost. I don't plan on switching from Verdandi anytime soon, and Verdandi is still relevant for at least 80% of today's game, so you're safe on that front. But it does remove your ability to form a triangle (where you basically gain two best friends for the price of one) until you get a reset.
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