BG Couples: How often do you have sex?

[Rhyis.]

Or lack thereof.

[Kipling]

Been married just over 6 months, around 4-5 times a week. I feel like taking care of your partner's sexual needs is part of the responsibility that couples have, especially in marriage, and therefore if your SO wants it, it doesn't fucking matter if you "don't feel like it" - that's your goddamn job.

Whether there is enough "romance" in a relationship is a separate issue and should remain that way. Withholding sex because you're angry about some other aspect of a relationship is dumb and destructive.

Heh. I had a long talk with my girlfriend about expectations when we get married. This came up. I don't think enough people talk about it.

[Nirokun!]

6 times a day. Putting things in my vagina takes up all my time.

[Fievel]

6 times a day. Putting things in my vagina takes up all my time.

rofl

[Brill Weave]

I love you Niro lmao. Prior to wife being pregnant it was 12 - 14 times a month. Now that she's pregnant and the placenta is partially covering the entrance to the cervix, zero. Handjob and blowjob quotient has gone up astronomically though.

[Vandalhart]

I actually went looking for some tutorials and came up with a series of videos that I have yet to watch completely. I know I passed them along to my cousin for his Bachelor party gift. At the moment they're sitting on my dead computer so I don't have access to start watching them again.

If anyone is interested it was a series of videos called 2 Girls Teach Sex. They had a few videos with varied topics.

There's a couple of things that happens that kind of annoys me with my wife. When I start using some of the techniques from the aforementioned videos she tends to make me stop before I can finish making her feel great. I don't really understand why, she's always been like that. I don't know why she won't just relax and go with it. I should know by now that her personality just won't allow it. I have been able to get her to relax more than she did when we first met. When we first met she wouldn't even let me go down on her. I'm not sure where this weird, it feels so good that I need you to stop mentality comes from.

[MrW]

Sometimes i can't keep up with my girl. So when i'm too tired to get my socks blown, i hire niggas to fuck for me.

[Tajin]

Sometimes i can't keep up with my girl. So when i'm too tired to get my socks blown, i hire niggas to fuck for me.

Boss mode activated

[Day]

Been married just over 6 months, around 4-5 times a week. I feel like taking care of your partner's sexual needs is part of the responsibility that couples have, especially in marriage, and therefore if your SO wants it, it doesn't fucking matter if you "don't feel like it" - that's your goddamn job.

Whether there is enough "romance" in a relationship is a separate issue and should remain that way. Withholding sex because you're angry about some other aspect of a relationship is dumb and destructive.

Archi this guy is with a woman, it's probably a little different than your situation.

[tyven]

hahaha

[Xerlic]

2-3x a week. It's more during the period that she's fertile since we're trying to get pregnant. BJs are like... once a month.

My wife and I have been married a year and a half and have been living together since 2009.

[Abandon]

Archi this guy is with a woman, it's probably a little different than your situation.

lol

[kuronosan]

I actually went looking for some tutorials and came up with a series of videos that I have yet to watch completely. I know I passed them along to my cousin for his Bachelor party gift. At the moment they're sitting on my dead computer so I don't have access to start watching them again.

If anyone is interested it was a series of videos called 2 Girls Teach Sex. They had a few videos with varied topics.

There's a couple of things that happens that kind of annoys me with my wife. When I start using some of the techniques from the aforementioned videos she tends to make me stop before I can finish making her feel great. I don't really understand why, she's always been like that. I don't know why she won't just relax and go with it. I should know by now that her personality just won't allow it. I have been able to get her to relax more than she did when we first met. When we first met she wouldn't even let me go down on her. I'm not sure where this weird, it feels so good that I need you to stop mentality comes from.

Sensitivity. They don't know how to deal with the sensation because it either tickles or feels different than what they're used to. Same thing happens with the wife and I occasionally.

Sometimes women just need to relax. XD

[Acevalefor]

When we first met she wouldn't even let me go down on her. I'm not sure where this weird, it feels so good that I need you to stop mentality comes from.

Too much stimulation.

[Vandalhart]

Yeah, I've managed to piece that together over time. It was never about an unpleasant sensation though. I did change my technique to not over stimulate too quickly. Slowly, I've been pushing her threshold so she's not thinking she's going to die from the experience.

[Blubbartron]

I'm not sure where this weird, it feels so good that I need you to stop mentality comes from.

High probability that she's an extreme squirter and doesn't know it. I've heard pornstars talk about learning to make themselves squirt and the first thing they say is that it feels like you're going to piss, and you want to stop, but that's exactly when you need to keep going.

[Ksandra]

High probability that she's an extreme squirter and doesn't know it.

This is just so dumb.

She doesn't have to be a squirter. I think it's safe to say that most (if not all) woman have that mentality to some degree (at least at one point in their lives). It's one of the reason it's so fucking hard to orgasm for the very first time for many.


I didn't go into it earlier because it is always rough to give a guy a wake up call (lol my girl orgasms every time). But if there's one thing men will never seem to understand is orgasming is only part about the guy. Too often guys seem to think they've failed if they don't get their girl to orgasm, and that is NOT always the case. Ya of course, if you aren't doing it right it won't happen, but even if you are doing it perfectly, things can and will go wrong in the girls mind which you have no control over (and she often has no control over for that matter). This is why girls end up faking it because THEY often feel they failed and don't want their partner to feel it was the guy's fault. (Also a great way to be like, "Ok I'm done now.")

Anyway, @ Vandalhart some girls are just like that. Have you ever asked her before going into the bedroom? Be like "hey want to try X?" It could help because she could mentally prepare for it.

[Acevalefor]

things can and will go wrong in the girls mind which you have no control over (and she often has no control over for that matter).

This reminds me of an experience several years ago. We were getting it on and suddenly my wife says "Do you want to take the kids on a bike ride then go to WinCo (grocery store like costco but for food)?" Completely random and totally killed the fun. We both laughed about it and I still joke with her about random thoughts that she has while having sex.

[MF Perm tha Fineass]

I love you Niro lmao. Prior to wife being pregnant it was 12 - 14 times a month. Now that she's pregnant and the placenta is partially covering the entrance to the cervix, zero. Handjob and blowjob quotient has gone up astronomically though.

[Ksandra]

This reminds me of an experience several years ago. We were getting it on and suddenly my wife says "Do you want to take the kids on a bike ride then go to WinCo (grocery store like costco but for food)?" Completely random and totally killed the fun. We both laughed about it and I still joke with her about random thoughts that she has while having sex.

Ya, I fucking hate it. I can be 100% into it, hubby being fucking awesome, about to climax in great sex, and BAM "HOLY SHIT I FORGOT TO BUY EGGS AT THE STORE TODAY."