I don't think I could go more than 3 years either way. At that point, it starts becoming "thats my older/younger sisters age and weird to be dating outside of my age group"
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I don't think I could go more than 3 years either way. At that point, it starts becoming "thats my older/younger sisters age and weird to be dating outside of my age group"
Im 24 and my last gf was 2 years younger than me but always looked HS age and always acted middle schoolish but she was pretty amazing sexually. Since I broke up with her last fall I've found myself disinterested in any girl who can't drink (21+ now). Freshman/sophmore college girls still too immature, giggly, and limited in what they can do / where they can go with me / enjoying drinks with me even if they can go there I feel now.
old enough to drink, younger than menopause, let's get it
oldest i've ever dated was 5ish years older than me. biggest age difference has been 14 years younger (she was 20 when we started dating). my wife is 11 years younger than me. looking back, most of them have been 4ish years younger than me. only ever dated 4 that were within 1 year of me. weird.
My girlfriend has a thing for older men and I didn't mind that she was 17 when I was 27. We've been together for 4 years in a serious relationship and are happy. Has worked for us and works for many. A couple of friends of mine who recently broke up were 22 years apart. He was 43 and she was 21 (they were together several years). She's now with a bloke closer to her age and quite happy. Frankly for me it comes down to whether we're both happy. Age doesn't come into it, within reason.
Im 30 the wife is 39, it has it's ups and downs. Half the time we don't get each other's references... go go gadget generation gap!
a friend of mine is recently divorced, she's 29 he's 40. She's dating a guy she was friends with in HS and says its like they are more in sync.
ymmv
my fiance is older. i find her to be just as dim as the young broads i used to pummel. ive really stepped in it this time
Wife is 2 years younger (she just turned 31, I'm about to turn 33), but when I was younger I dated a number of older women. I think I just like dating women who have their shit together.
Also I've never banged a teenager. Fucking late starts man.
I've gone both ways, though never with someone under 21. I was married to someone 8 years older than me, I've had relationships/dated people 10+ years younger and older both, and I'm in a LTR with someone who's 6 years younger right now.
Yay for variety, it's been worth it to me because I've enjoyed so many different experiences in the process, and it helps keep you from getting rusty in dealing with things.
Older females, all the young ones have lost their minds or expect a full ride/sugardaddy.
I've never dated a girl older than me.
Given that I'm getting older and older, I don't expect it to change now.
younger. Maybe it's just because I eat right and exercise, but most anybody even close to my age looks like complete shit (I'm 35). Seriously, girls my age look like they are 45 to me most of the time. Even at the late 20s most seem to have no engery/stamina. A milf is a very rare creature for sure. I'd say 26-27ish is my normal max, and has been since I was at least 25.
This is what sucks so bad about attracting all the cougars. 99 times out of 100, they nasty. They know what they want, but... ugh. I like my women to have their shit together, but it seems rare to have that AND a well-kept body. At least from my experience. The last woman I drunkenly hooked up with was 40 (I'm 30) and she turned out to be batshit. Age seems to only dictate body quality at this point. I have no evidence to imply a correlation between age and fucking crazy.
'Age Sony nuthin but a numba.' - Aaliyah
My gf is 10 years younger then me. She is a lot mature then girls her own age. And we'll I'm a bit immature for my age. So it works out. Drawbacks for any age.
Did vagus of all ppl just quote Aaliyah? Lol
I'm 30 and I still get carded for smokes and alcohol, so I think I'm doing pretty well for my age. I hope by the time I'm 35 that I don't look like a dried up raisin, hahaha. It does take a lot of maintenance though. Sunscreen errday!
Wanted to add that I actually quit smoking (@50 days now)