Random Win: The irl Fuck Ya thread

[Abandon]

ding ding ding, we have a winner

[Aksannyi]

If I give nudes to one person, that isn't consent to give nudes to the whole internet. That's consent for that one person and only that one person to see them.

Then again, this is exactly the reason I stopped taking nude photos a long time ago. Obviously, you can't trust people not to fuck you over, and it's a shitty, terrible world we live in when the leaking/sharing of private photos are the fault of the person taking them rather than the person spreading them around.

People are fucking gross.

[Moss]

See I don't see it that way at all. It's not a sign of trust, it's a fucking choice you make having knowledge and consenting by choosing to share with someone to begin with. Now if someone were to illegally aquire them such as stealing or hacking your phone or computer I would be more inclined to agree.

I feel like personal responsibility is lost when we try to blame others for our choices. I know damn well I could have some floating around but I also shared them with the understanding that if shit goes bad, it's on me.

People are stupid to begin with as a whole, I've made some idiotic choices but that's just it, it's on me because I willingly provided it.

It doesn't have to be mutually exclusive; you can accept personal responsibility that if you share a sensitive pic with someone it has the potential to spread further, but it doesn't make it any less of a dick move on their part.

[Byrthnoth]

People are fucking gross.

Leaked nudez also make me feel this way.

[Kalmado]

The concept of sharing nudes is trust. It is not a binding contract or anything of that nature so the idea that if a person sends a nude photo to another persons phone that it will remain exclusive is silly. Yes it's a terrible thing for the recipient of nudes to go sharing, but the sender needs to take responsibility that they were the ones that sent them in the first place.

[Green]

See I don't see it that way at all. It's not a sign of trust, it's a fucking choice you make having knowledge and consenting by choosing to share with someone to begin with. Now if someone were to illegally aquire them such as stealing or hacking your phone or computer I would be more inclined to agree.

I feel like personal responsibility is lost when we try to blame others for our choices. I know damn well I could have some floating around but I also shared them with the understanding that if shit goes bad, it's on me.

People are stupid to begin with as a whole, I've made some idiotic choices but that's just it, it's on me because I willingly provided it.

This one... she knows.

[Boyiee]

Just booked 3 days in Disney, haven't been since l was like 8 and fiance has never been. Don't remember a single thing from it, only remember universal.

We're going to be using my brothers house for 17 days end of July into August and are vacationing for literally the cost of groceries and fuel. Since her b-day is the 29th we said screw it, let's spend it in Disney. Really excited.

[Kalmado]

Wow that's really cool!

[Tokitoki]

My cousin moved from NYC to outside Denver in February for a job offer. We've been close our entire lives; he's only 6 months older than me and we've, for the most part, lived only 15 mins from each other.

I'm getting married on Sept 26 so he was trying to help plan a bachelor party. After moving he was trying to figure out if we could do something when he was coming back to NYC for a friend's wedding, but I had another wedding to go to the same weekend.

He suggests having everyone go out to Denver instead. He asks his uncle, who runs a B&B out there, if we could use the house as well as a family friend who has a house in Breckenridge. His uncle and the family friend agree to let us use the houses for basically nothing. Bring it up with my friends and, to my surprise, 10 of them said they'd spring for the flights out on Labor Day weekend.

TL;DR: Happy that I have good friends that will pay a few hundred dollars for a flight out and a house for a long weekend to celebrate with, plus I get to spend the long weekend with my cousin as well. Everything fell into place really well.

EDIT: And to add to it, one of my friends from college is currently in Japan doing engineering research related to earthquakes. He's flying into Cali that week and said he'll come as well.

[Melena]

Just booked 3 days in Disney, haven't been since l was like 8 and fiance has never been. Don't remember a single thing from it, only remember universal.

We're going to be using my brothers house for 17 days end of July into August and are vacationing for literally the cost of groceries and fuel. Since her b-day is the 29th we said screw it, let's spend it in Disney. Really excited.

I'm assuming Disneyland, and not Disneyworld? If so, have fun, since they redid the fireworks and parade for Disneyland's 60th anniversary. The new shows were amazing.

[Spicyryan]

I'm assuming Disneyland, and not Disneyworld? If so, have fun, since they redid the fireworks and parade for Disneyland's 60th anniversary. The new shows were amazing.

Iirc land is California and universal is world in Florida.

[Melena]

No there's also a universal studios in LA. So Cal has Disneyland and universal. Florida world and universal studio Florida

[Aksannyi]

He mentioned in the MLB thread he was coming to Florida to visit people so I'm assuming he meant World.

[Astylla]

First day back at work felt pretty good. Not cleared or able to type constantly so on modified duty, but it was nice to have some semblance of structure to my day.

Since I'm relying more on public transit due to hubby's promotion since I left on workman's comp, it also gives me a nice 30 minute walk each way.

Everyone was happy to see me but there is sooo much to catch up on. I think it took me an hour to just reorganize my binder with updated info for reference. So many fucking recalls. I'm kind of glad I'm on modified duty so I'm not dealing with it.

[brozy]

Discovered the wonderfulness of Almond milk i initially tried the sweetned stuff and was pretty impressed but i find unsweetened even better, my only complaint is there needs to be bigger cartons of the stuff but other than that i'll happily swear off moo juice for this stuff, yay for getting healthy...ish!

[Senji]

You mean larger than 1 gal jugs?

[Omniyoji]

Actually I don't think I've ever seen it outside of half gallon carton form. Looking up images on google now. I could only find 1 pic hmmm... wish they had that in my store.

[brozy]

Well where i am all they seem to have is 1 litre cartons but i have only had a brief look to be fair so there may well be bigger ones.

[FNH]

I use it for oatmeal and shakes sometimes but I never seem to run out before it expires even in the half gallon containers

[Boyiee]

Florida, so world.