Random Win: The irl Fuck Ya thread

[Sepukku]

I just have one thing I don't understand - why are so many women and men frankly opposed to it in the first place ? I've done it multiple times with various people when dating and seriously people act like you want to chop off one of their limbs or some shit. People are weird

Probably tried it in hs with no lube and the chick had painful results, mixed bag so far in my life, couple chicks down for it, some no way

[Abandon]

Ex gf texts me late last night with "I'm sorry we broke up, these last couple months have been confusing and I know I still love you and I'm ready to be in a committed relationship with just you" (after our break up we've hooked up a couple times, as well as hung out). I reply back with "I'll date you again if you do one thing" she texted back immediately asking what it was and I told her "let me have anal with you" (something she adamantly opposed and I knew she'd never agree to). Twenty minutes pass by and she responds with "deal".

may your marriage be a long and fruitful one

[Ksandra]

I just have one thing I don't understand - why are so many women and men frankly opposed to it in the first place ? I've done it multiple times with various people when dating and seriously people act like you want to chop off one of their limbs or some shit. People are weird

We've had this convo in the past on bg. Either a. They can't handle poop comes from there or b. Had a bad experience when they tried it because idiots think they can fuck it like a vag for the first time.

Ex gf texts me late last night with "I'm sorry we broke up, these last couple months have been confusing and I know I still love you and I'm ready to be in a committed relationship with just you" (after our break up we've hooked up a couple times, as well as hung out). I reply back with "I'll date you again if you do one thing" she texted back immediately asking what it was and I told her "let me have anal with you" (something she adamantly opposed and I knew she'd never agree to). Twenty minutes pass by and she responds with "deal".

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[Abandon]

yeah, that's a keeper. what's this broad look like to be hesitant on the pooper?

[Tricen]

I wouldn't want to do something with someone unless they were comfortable with it, it just seems really selfish. If me being with someone depended on whether or not I'd let them do something sexual they know I'm not cool with, then that kinda relationship is garbage.











WHITKNIGHT HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

[Charismatic]

Well, clearly she's comfortable enough with it to let it happen now so w/e. Comfortable enough to take it to be w/ him.
Its not like he's forcing it on her. Calm that shit down.

I mean, if I was in her shoes and I didn't want it in the butt that much I'd just be like 'nah, is kool.'

[Tricen]

He said she was adamantly against, and he knew she'd never agree to it. Giving her an ultimatum like that is like literally forcing her to submit to him. It's like borderline raep

[Abandon]

get that shit out of here, she could've said no, but didnt

[Sepukku]

On one hand, good for him for fucking her ass. On the other hand, I don't think strong arm negotiating / emotional coercion is a healthy foundation for a relationship

[Astylla]

I wouldn't want to do something with someone unless they were comfortable with it, it just seems really selfish. If me being with someone depended on whether or not I'd let them do something sexual they know I'm not cool with, then that kinda relationship is garbage.

WHITKNIGHT HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

To each their own on this. Not every relationship is built on a traditional foundation of any type nor does this make it any less valid of one.
Maybe she will find she really likes it and enjoy it from now on ? Never know until you try.

Well, clearly she's comfortable enough with it to let it happen now so w/e. Comfortable enough to take it to be w/ him.
Its not like he's forcing it on her. Calm that shit down.

I mean, if I was in her shoes and I didn't want it in the butt that much I'd just be like 'nah, is kool.'

THIS. He gave the option - she chose to say yes and could have just as easily said no.

He said she was adamantly against, and he knew she'd never agree to it. Giving her an ultimatum like that is like literally forcing her to submit to him. It's like borderline raep

Oh FFS it's not borderline anything. Funny thing about as you put it "submission" - that it still takes fucking consent. If there is not consent involved then yes it would be rape.
I don't see force anywhere here at all. It's not like he forced himself on her or even suggested so. An ultimatum is nothing more than a fancy way of saying here are your options - take it or leave it.
There are these things called limits and some people are willing to break them down for various reasons. In this case obviously she feels it is enough a reason and that's between her and him tbh.

get that shit out of here, she could've said no, but didnt

Again..THIS. I am a rape survivor - several times over and let me just close this by saying nothing pisses me off more right now than this whole feminism and rape culture shit going around. Yes these things happen in all walks of life - male , female , gay , straight , etc. but that doesn't mean every implied action or phrase is a prelude to anything. You have a fucking choice. If however that choice is not honored then obviously the argument has a whole other meaning.

[Sepukku]

this new chick is the anti-aks voice this forum has sorely needed

[Boyiee]

sorely

ha

[AidenCarby]

He said she was adamantly against, and he knew she'd never agree to it. Giving her an ultimatum like that is like literally forcing her to submit to him. It's like borderline raep

Look whatchu done started.

[Airenn]

Eh, I just think if it was something "she'd never consider" but then spent 20 minutes considering whether or not she wanted to let this dude be the dude who gets his shaft up her manure patch, then I have no idea why the fuck she said yes and quite frankly I think both ya'll be pretty dumb.

[Ksandra]

Let's be real for a minute. Chick doesn't actually want a relationship. She wants a rebound guy to get laid. I would hope Isaac is smart enough to know this and figured if he's gonna get some fun out of the crazy, might as well try something new.

[Mertron]

betting she only said yes to meet up and talk about shit then cry a bit then back out

[mortimer]i will bet you

one dollar[/mortimer]

[Pringles]

If she truly still doesn't want to have anal when it comes up, I wouldn't push it, that's not who I am. I was mainly seeing if she would say yes or not. To be fair, I'm not even that *interested* in doing anal in the first place, it was more of something to tick off my bucket list in life.

Comparing this to rape is almost comical. Anyone who knows me on a personal level in person knows I could never force anyone to do anything they didn't want to sexual. When I was a child I was sexually molested by a neighbor for a year and a half. Forcing someone to do anything against their will is not in my cards, and it's why I'm more passive than aggressive when it even comes to sex in the first place. She knows for a fact that all she would have to say is "Chris I don't want to have anal" and I'll say "that's fine we don't have to" and go about my day with no problem.

I also know that odds are this relationship won't last 6months, let alone the rest of my life. I do know, asides from great sex, she's cool to hang around and a decent person. She just knows I'm starting to date again and is worried I'll find someone that will swoop in and take her place, which is why she sent me the text in the first place.

[Mertron]

If she truly still doesn't want to have anal when it comes up, I wouldn't push it, that's not who I am. I was mainly seeing if she would say yes or not. To be fair, I'm not even that *interested* in doing anal in the first place, it was more of something to tick off my bucket list in life.

Comparing this to rape is almost comical. Anyone who knows me on a personal level in person knows I could never force anyone to do anything they didn't want to sexual. When I was a child I was sexually molested by a neighbor for a year and a half. Forcing someone to do anything against their will is not in my cards, and it's why I'm more passive than aggressive when it even comes to sex in the first place. She knows for a fact that all she would have to say is "Chris I don't want to have anal" and I'll say "that's fine we don't have to" and go about my day with no problem.

I also know that odds are this relationship won't last 6months, let alone the rest of my life. I do know, asides from great sex, she's cool to hang around and a decent person. She just knows I'm starting to date again and is worried I'll find someone that will swoop in and take her place, which is why she sent me the text in the first place.

whatever rapist. male pig dog #EndFathersDay

[Tricen]

Ehhhhhhhhh c+ I guess. I should have tried harder.

[Ksandra]

Ksandra is so smart about this shit.

I know, right?