Random Win: The irl Fuck Ya thread

[Penthesilea]

The fact was simple. My ex-husband hadn't met my parents yet. I wasn't even ready for him to meet them yet. I didn't want to involve them in what I thought was going to be a short-lived relationship. He took it upon himself to look up their numbers and call them before I was ready to take that step (introducing him to them and marrying him). I was then pressured by my parents to marry this "nice young man" who used this as the first manipulation in a series of many. So not only was I pressured by him to marry, long before I was ready, now I was getting it from my family, who I didn't even want involved in this because it isn't their fucking decision. Oh look, then he traps me into getting pregnant and then I pretty much have to marry him. Those of you who have not been in a controlling relationship have no fucking idea what I went through. And then I was made to look like the bad guy (as I am in this very thread) when it was a very real issue of him actually taking away my autonomy. This isn't just misplaced social justice warrior-ism. I literally lost my personal freedom to a controlling asshole.

The manipulation and emotional abuse didn't stop there, it continued for quite awhile until he actually hit me. That's when I saw everything clearly, and it all made sense. He'd done everything a certain way to isolate me from my family (not that we were close, but they were there to support me regardless), my friends, my finances, and my freedom. I had to call my father up, crying, and beg him to come get me. I was gone in less than a month.

So yes, when I look at someone going through my phone and getting a phone number for someone I didn't give him permission to contact, it looks like an extreme violation of trust and privacy. Both of which I am entitled to have in an adult relationship.

So fuck the lot of your for judging me. None of you have lived my life nor do you know what the fuck I've been through. This is the absolute last word I will say on this subject.



Annnnnd fuck you.

y u no abort?

[Acevalefor]

y u no abort?

Religion and Florida.

[archibaldcrane]

Sending your children to Mexico is kind of like 40th trimester abortion right?

[Abandon]

It wasn't the phone, dudes. It could've been almost anything and she woulda reacted the same way. She has daddy/family/anger issues. From the dude's perspective, bullet dodged? :kappa:

Mai random win, going to a party today. Yas.

no bullet dodged, there are kids. i also find it funny that she knew it was gonna be short term, and yet still had spawn with dude. brains seems to be elsewhere

[AidenCarby]

Sending your children to Mexico is kind of like 40th trimester abortion right?

God fucking damn it Archi lmao

[Brill Weave]

I asked her Dad and that was it. It was a respect thing. And he was in recon in Vietnam so I'm pretty sure even at 66 he could kill me with one hand.

[Boyiee]

Closing on my first house this Friday. I mentioned it before but didn't want to jinx it. Shits real, it's here, fuck I gotta pack.

[Penthesilea]

Start my new job Friday. Can't wait to be out of this place...

[MF Perm tha Fineass]

I asked her Dad and that was it. It was a respect thing. And he was in recon in Vietnam so I'm pretty sure even at 66 he could kill me with one hand.

shouldn't be getting hj's from future father in law my dude

[Quixon]

Closing on my first house this Friday. I mentioned it before but didn't want to jinx it. Shits real, it's here, fuck I gotta pack.

Welcome to the wonderful world of Home Ownership. Learn how to fix shit yourself quickly ^_^d

[Brill Weave]

shouldn't be getting hj's from future father in law my dude

I miss you

[MF Perm tha Fineass]

I miss you

likewise man. I'm banned from FPS to keep the kiddo from mimicking dad swearing up a storm. working on building a man cave this next year so could be back in business this time next year.

[Abandon]

daww, eggroll is the fucking man

[Ksandra]

daww, eggroll is the fucking man

STOP SWEARING AT THE KID, FUCK

[Tokitoki]

Got a house rented in Vermont for the week between Christmas and New Years. Get some snowboarding in with a group of friends. We've done it the past two years too and it's been a blast. Hot tub, grill, fireplace, excessive amounts of alcohol and other substances, and snowboarding for an entire week. To add to the excitement, I talked the owner into giving us two extra days for the same price. I also got great new boots because my old ones were too small. I couldn't feel my feet after a couple hours which is obviously not a good thing.

Very excited; works been kicking my ass recently. This time period is the only point where work slows enough for me to get away for more than a day without falling too far behind. Been looking forward to this for months and it's finally all set.

[BaneTheBrawler]

don't forget to bring a towel

[Tokitoki]

don't forget to bring a towel

Towelie would be right at home with us.

We bring all the towels. 1 for hot tub, 1 for shower, double it for myself and the fiancee. Also, I would get high with Towelie.

[Brill Weave]

likewise man. I'm banned from FPS to keep the kiddo from mimicking dad swearing up a storm. working on building a man cave this next year so could be back in business this time next year.

No doubt. I'm fucking terrified for the day when the boy drops an F bomb in front of the wife or my mother lol.

[BaneTheBrawler]

also, you might want to be careful with the chernobly.

[Tokitoki]

also, you might want to be careful with the chernobly.

The only energy drink I need is whisky.