So much this..
Not only is it awful and lazy, but here is an actual situation which occurred last night to really highlight how awful it is;
Friend>> Hey what you up to?
Me>> Just farming for Atmas, been in this zone about 3 hours now /sulk
Friend>> Oh I'll come join you, I also need the Atma in that zone
We group up together, friend teleports into the zone and heads to the FATE I am currently in
Friend slowly strolls up to the FATE by like the 20% Health mark, summons their Chocobo Companion and hits the boss FATE a few times
FATE ends
Friend>> Haha, got the Atma
Friend hits Return and leaves the party
(I still don't have it)