Join a match on C as the only healer. Suggest to the party with ample time for it to process in their heads that we should hit the Flame OP first and then hit temple so I don't get destroyed and ultimately end up wasting time trying to take a flag I know we're not gonna get. Team expectedly ignores me while I take Flame OP alone uncontested. Run off to Temple to spy since Flames typically goes for our OP if they're able to take our OP uncontested leaving Temple free and easy for us to take. Unfortunately I 90k'd. When I got back, the team was screwing off doing whatever so I ran to temple flag and lo' and behold Temple was largely empty save a PLD so me and this NIN took the point. However, we didn't keep it long because the rest of the team wasn't there and the enemy team eventually doubled-back and killed us.
Someone tells me I should join the rest of the team but I replied I'd rather not do what they're doing while trying to explain (in a typical FF14 pompous but articulate way) that I'd rather not do pointless things as a solo healer in a party because it's moronic to keep running into a disadvantageous situation. Then this guy accuses me of playing to lose even though we were already losing, and quite pathetically. Tried to explain to him that I usually play to win but I'm not interested in needlessly frustrating myself but he wasn't hearing it and continued accusing me of purposefully diving.
I don't always bring out my healer because I don't like playing it if I'm not getting proper support. Actually in hindsight now thinking about it, dude that was accusing me of diving also has a healer but he wasn't using it for that match so I could've totally turned that around on him if I remembered at the time.
Had enough for one day. Might try to start recruiting again for my LS before the new patch so I can try to condition people to play smarter.