For reference, when I say "plenty of men are infertile," I mean 9% of American men. That's right there next to the 11% of American women experiencing similar issues.
You were educated literally earlier in the thread that transgender is not a noun yet an adjective but you still keep using it as a noun. When I said saying "a transgender" is akin to saying "a black" they're both very shitty ways to refer to people but yes keep pulling out the I have friends of xxx group therefore I am immune to this.
I think there are two types of ways people are attractive:
1. Biological. Like what makes you get wet when you see someone.
2. Compatibility. ie. The talk about wanting kids.
1. Can't be transphobic because it likes what it likes without rhyme or reason. For me, I think vags are the most disgusting thing on the planet and wonder why anyone would want to touch one. Having a vag is a dealbreaker for me.
2. Compatibility can be transphobic, but let's be honest here. There is a lot of baggage that unfortunately comes with being with a trans person. They are more often than not severely depressed, and are having to spend a lot of their brain functions trying to find themselves and put themselves right in the world. And while that may be something to be pitied, not everyone is going to want to attach themselves to it. You are not under any circumstances obligated to be with someone because they are depressed.
With that said, for me on 2. only person I'd want to be with is my husband. If he came out as a woman, I don't think I would have an issue staying with him. I would, probably, ask he keep the dick; otherwise, he'd have to accept I'd either not be touching him down there, or at least if I was I'd be doing it only out of a sense of duty and love vs. enjoyment. But if I were still on the dating scene I would be wary of dating a transperson due to the very probably depression.
If that makes me transphobic, I'll accept it. I spend a lot of time trying to support the LGBTQ community, especially by being one of the school's leads in the anti-bully group. I'm not perfect, though. At the end of the day, I am already married, so this is just talk.
when do you stop? why do you post here if you think every single person here is a homophobe, transphobe, racist?
the majority of the people that post here don't give a single fuck if you have 8 titties 3 dicks and 2 vaginas with purple skin that identifies as a giraffe. not being attracted to said giraffe doesn't make you a transhomophoberacist though and it doesn't make you conditioned to not liking things. your upbringing was not special or unique that gave you your stupid ass view on the world. are you the type of guy that would argue for 12 hours that die hard is the best movie of all time? like you're literally talking tastes and then saying people are phobes for it or conditioned to not like it.
so cringe
i missed this, ur obsessed homie
Ah Mr. Why are we talking about coercion when we're talking about rape has shown up.
And the what you find sexually attractive being conditioned into you is in response to #1 as in what you see that automatically turns you on and also #2 somewhat... actually a lot. There's a lot that has been drilled into people's heads about what is and isn't desirable in a partner and is extremely pervasive in society.
I'd prefer talking to him than mr. "everyone is a bigot because I need more context and by the way you're a bigot if you don't want to date fuck or adopt with a transgendered person and also you hate women if you want to have biological children with them".
At least I can be sure that he's only misguided and not a total ignorant judgmental prick.
You continue to make those snap judgments though. I bet it serves you well.
P.S. people are allowed to have preferences.
Have your preferences just realize that if they're exclusionary then you should do some soul searching on why that is what it is. If you accept it cool, do you and grow as a person. But all this screaming from the roof tops a la Draylo I'm not racist is messy
I called you transphobic for numerous reasons. 1) you keep referencing Trans people as objects 2) You also keep using them as a shield to negate any criticism towards you.
Also you keep using the fact that you're a physician as if that makes you an expert. Physicians are dumb outside of medicine. Which happens with any PhD level or higher educated individual. You spend so much time learning about a bubble of knowledge that everything else becomes neglected. Let's know pretend there aren't a large number of physicians that are homophobic or transphobic
I'm okay with that, as long as we don't pretend you have anything remotely resembling emotional intellect.
Loool. Comes into a Transgender thread, uses transness as a noun, is told that isn't cool and yet he keeps on doing it.
That ain't it
Sorry you should try reading my last post.
i saw some ffxi futanari back in the day so i hope that makes me gucci
according to milk logic if you dont find children sexually attractive you have a phobia towards them
Not even close since it was explained earlier that if a trans person is the gender you are attracted and has the dangly bits that turns you on then not dating them because they're trans is transphobic. Womp womp.
the grammar nazi in me has a hard time using a plural pronoun, subjective or objective case, for an individual
kindly come up with a pronoun that wouldn't upset my sophomore english teacher so greatly
when we learned that the word everyone is actually singular, i thought hey i can be an ass about this the rest of my life, to say nothing about the fact singular possessive pronouns shant have apostrophes, which has also allowed much snobbery
what's the difference between an adult male not being attracted to a child female in this scenario exactly? or the million other scenarios one can come up with in terms of sexual attraction.
your logic is so far out there it's to the level of trolling. not being attracted to brunettes now means you have a phobia towards them. fuck me lol