For the most part, I would agree with this, and honestly, I would say that noises and or words that trigger someone are generally not used frequently enough for there to be major episodes, though I'm sure that's a "YMMV" type of thing. I'd hope that people who have serious triggers are at least getting some level of help with managing that.
All that being said, I don't necessarily believe that everyone who claims to have triggers actually has them. I do truly believe that, like the abortion example given a few posts ago, "trigger" became synonymous with "really pissed me off" and I disagree with a person's perceived right to harm or assault someone or destroy their belongings under the guise of being triggered, legitimate or not - unless they had absolutely zero control of their own actions, which is probably difficult to determine anyway.
I agree with this, and so far, I have not experienced this neither in the K-12 classrooms nor in the collegiate environment, and if I were to see that, it would bother me, too. My college experience has been that which I am able to express opinions, even if they are "wrong" according to the professor or another student.
This is a difficult one, but I will stress that he is entitled to have and express those beliefs, but that we will not be enacting his or any other oppressive and or potentially offensive ideology in my classroom (or the school in general). If it is that much of a problem such that the particular Muslim student felt unable to continue with my class or any other class in the school, then we'd have to work with parents, guidance counselors, and the administration.
If he is able to continue in my classroom then he will be allowed to express his beliefs the same as anyone else, but he will have to understand that he may have to defend and/or listen to rebuttals to his position. Students will be reminded to be respectful in any and all responses. Although I'm sure my females (and probably I) will be offended, it is my hope that they all gain an understanding of diversity and how sometimes, we have to agree to disagree on some things such as deeply held fundamental beliefs.
Do I think it will happen that way? No, and I think discussions can and will become very heated. In that case, it will be my job to step in and steer the conversation elsewhere and try to get the classroom back to rights. I don't expect it to be easy at all, and that's something I may actually bring up with one of my professors this week as a "what would you do?" scenario, because it sounds like a challenge.
I'm reminded of Randal in Clerks 2 with the "porch monkey" thing, where he claimed to be taking it back but was not able to effectively do so because he was white. In that sense, I'd say that you can't just randomly decide to take words back.
I suppose it would depend on how the argument was presented, but because the change and reclamation of speech is not an overnight process, I would probably not allow him to continue to use it in my classroom until I noted significant change on that front throughout the community. (Sidenote, it'd be nice to see "gay" go back to being "happy," but I can't really be one of the ones to reclaim it as I'm not a member of the gay community). Although I am familiar with the fact that "queer" has been taken back by the LGBTQA community.
I would not refrain from covering difficult topics for the discomfort of one or two students in a classroom. I would find alternative assignments for them to do while we covered those topics. If the topics are just "uncomfortable" like I said earlier, then I would probably ask them to participate. I know that some things aren't going to be easy to talk about, but I'm not going to give people a pass because "talking about sexuality with my 35+ y/o teacher is weird." I am going to have to put the onus on them to come to me if they're not comfortable with something that's coming up (and I will give them warning a few days in advance that it's coming so they have the chance to come to me if they need to).
I think I already responded to this last night? My eyes were drooping pretty hard at that point, but I was really enjoying this thread (and a few other things across the web) and I was stupidly resisting sleep. But I definitely agree that everyone tiptoeing around so as not to potentially offend someone is ridiculous, because you just can't know if what you're saying/doing is going to offend one of the ... how ever many billion people are on this planet.
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