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    Restraining order question (case dismissed) Sadly, not a CS story

    Sorry, it's not a CS thread.


    My friend was involved w/ some wacko and he filed a restraining order on her for stalking after she was trying to collect money she let him borrow (Told her not to, etc. lol)

    Anyways, there was a temporary order issued during the court case, but the case was ultimately thrown out and his restraining order was not granted.

    That said, it still shows up on public records, etc. She's worried about it affecting future employment (she's a 4th year in Pharmacy school)

    Does anyone know anything about these types of things? She thinks she's not going to be able to get her license for even having it filed, despite it being dismissed


    Edit: will some mod add the not a CS disclaimer to the title; so people don't get excited for nothing?

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    Hahaha people will literally read this thread because you posted it expecting some more CS-BS but alas that is not the case. I can help you none, but I shouldn't think a restraining order will affect anything you do aside from being near/seeing that person. IANAL tho, duh.

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    I had a restraining order issued against me in 6th grade cause I hit a bitch too hard in football.

    I repeatedly get turned down from employment because of it

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    Quote Originally Posted by VeganCrossfitWOWRaidKILLA View Post
    I had a restraining order issued against me in 6th grade cause I hit a bitch too hard in football.

    I repeatedly get turned down from employment because of it
    Looks like your friend is fucked CS. And by fucked I mean dicked by your BBC because she's gonna be traumatized over those 3 1/2 years of pharmacy school gone to waste.

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    If it was not granted, why would it show on public record? She needs to talk to an agent of the court that issued it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FNH View Post
    If it was not granted, why would it show on public record? She needs to talk to an agent of the court that issued it.
    Anything that goes through a court is generally public record

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    Quote Originally Posted by VeganCrossfitWOWRaidKILLA View Post
    I had a restraining order issued against me in 6th grade cause I hit a bitch too hard in football.

    I repeatedly get turned down from employment because of it
    6th grade? I'm no Gredival but shouldn't you be able to get that shit expunged?

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    I don't think you can seal civil cases? That's for criminal cases (though medical/govt jobs/education can see sealed/expunged records anyways)

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    Quote Originally Posted by SathFenrir View Post
    6th grade? I'm no Gredival but shouldn't you be able to get that shit expunged?
    I don't actually not get jobs because of it, lol.

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    Not FL, but
    Expungement is not available for ordinary traffic tickets, Orders of Protection, or civil orders or judgments.
    Sealing is not available for civil orders or judgments.
    http://www.niu.edu/legal/topics/expungement/index.shtml

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    http://sealmyrecord.com/blog/2012/ju...ed-or-expunged

    http://www.ejdirga.com/expungements/...njunctions.htm

    http://hernandoclerk.com/courts/seal-expunge/

    long story short you can, she needs to find an attorney experienced in getting records sealed/expunged.

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    Being accused of anything is pretty much an instant game over in life. Seen as guilty no matter what (especially in things like stalking or rape accusations)

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    Quote Originally Posted by FNH View Post
    http://sealmyrecord.com/blog/2012/ju...ed-or-expunged

    http://www.ejdirga.com/expungements/...njunctions.htm

    http://hernandoclerk.com/courts/seal-expunge/

    long story short you can, she needs to find an attorney experienced in getting records sealed/expunged.
    Hmm fair enough but that's pretty much a derail question. Sealed, expunged, or left as is, it makes no diff. (Medical field, govt jobs, education) can see both sealed and expunged records in the US. So It's not a matter of keeping them from seeing it since that shouldn't be possible.

    I was just asking about how much the allegation could potentially hurt (even if it was dismissed/never granted)

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    You tryna get your dick wet, Soda?

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    nah; known this one since 2010; if it ain't happen by now, not worth putting any effort into it.

    Actually a friend of mine; no expectation or see any potential in anything beyond that

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    If this gets resolved, make sure to change the title to Case Closed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SathFenrir View Post
    If this gets resolved, make sure to change the title to Case Closed.
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    for what it's worth, first ex wife has dropped restraining orders on me twice and it's never been an issue with background checks for jobs.

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    rofl wat

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