I dont think they do either
I dont think they do either
Cultural appropriation.
Exhibit inclusivity by showcasing that everyone is fucking stupid.
well like I said, the gay community is notoriously racist. it's just that this... this does not address that issue at all.
it's only going to alienate the black gays more. Or make the more level-headed ones more visible and as a result, appealing
Dating websites are a weird crossroads for me on when and where its appropriate to instantly label something as 'racist' as if it's fully negative.
You can't say race isn't important in dating because that is reductive, but to swing the other way and say what I can and cannot pursue in my dating life is a bit pants on head crazy to me as it doesn't actually address the underlying racial issues the person may or may not have, It just "wills" away the visible racist behaviours (and then the behaviour just becomes covert).
But then again, people do model their behaviours off of others and if it's popular and cool to say shit like 'Masc4Masc' or 'NoFatsNoFemmesNoAsians' then that shit spreads like wildfire with the basics.
E.g. I have had a bad string of interactions with fellows from the South American continent. With my current volition, I've no interest in pursing anything with someone from that area, and would seek people who have more similar values (e.g. western born people) at this time. I'm basing my dating decisions on race.
This might change again (of course it will, that S.American booty will be the death of me), but right now I'm making dating decisions based on race. It's impossible not to in our lives.
Now if I was a company or a professional limiting or changing my service based on race, obviously that deserves condemnation....but someone's personal dating life? Sorry I'm not into Asian guys right now (unless you're Korean/Vietnamese guy; or a Japanese girl).
And be careful to so quickly put the mantle of moral authority of 'fixing problems society' has at large, when your authority stems from little or more "wah people dont like me, how can I force people to like me," or "Wah I've been fetishized by the majority". That zeal of moral authority is what the Crusaders used, or the thousand of other examples where someone didn't realise that their pride in their abilities (or perspective) doesn't give them the authority to dictate to everyone in society.
Governments have strict rules on where and when they can regulate people's behaviour (home vs in society), we don't try to police thoughts. There should be a line of where someone can express beliefs and opinions without instantly being branded with a scarlet R and dragged through the streets, especially when that decision is about who that person sticks their dick into.
Racism and not being attracted to a certain demographic are different things. I'm not attracted to black people but that doesn't mean I hate them or think they shouldn't have universal rights, so it is not a racist thing(as sleeping with me is not a universal right).
Sexuality can't really be racist.
Dick wants want it wants.
Pussy wants what it wants.
How it is racist if I don't find latin chicks hot?
Because I don't.
fml late to the party
I saw some article roll thru my feed yesterday about it being transphobic if you aren't attracted to trans folk, so sorry Zet looks like you are in fact a racist even if you have slayed a couple blacks
/yawn
What the fuuuuuuuck
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Pretty much this. It's like the time that I got called ableist and fatphobic because I expressed my opinion that I don't find Tess Holliday attractive and that she's teaching just as bad of a societal lesson as anorexic women are by promoting that being morbidly obese is normal and beautiful.
The best advice I ever got was "She ain't a lady if she ain't 280"
Tess Holliday isn't attractive.