Dating a Cray Cray, how to deal? Yup he knocked her up.

[Jefe]

Sooooooo did that broad turn to a life of debauchery and prostitution? Wait, iirc she was selling her services in craigs lol. Nvm.

[Tyrath]

Hot damn did this end up being prophetic.

Wait, what I miss?

[Anoat]

Airenn left BG to be a hooker essentially.

[Zealot]

But why would you need to leave BG to do that.

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[Cream Soda]

TLDR: OP hasn't learned a damn thing in nearly 2 years.

w/e shit fate you crawl into, you've earned it. Kudos

[Anoat]

It's all fun and games until someone uses BG to arrange some prostitutin' and then it becomes a big legal no no, I'm guessing.

[Boyiee]

But why would you need to leave BG to do that.

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Because we asked.
Because it's what we wanted.
Because it was better for us all.
Because it made the world a better place.
Because it made the forum more tolerable and brought it back from a dark place.
Because she fucking sucked. This is not a pun.

[Zealot]

Is she worried johns will discover she was terrible at FFXI and demand a refund?

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[Tyrath]

BG discriminates against whores!

[vagus]

Airenn a CL hoe? Lol!


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[Ksandra]

I know that the smart answer is to stay away from crazy, that crazy doesn't change, and stick with the stable girl.

That is not the smart answer. This is:

Dump both of them and go to a monastery for a few years.

I honestly think you are the one that is too unstable for a relationship. Get your shit together before you drag other people into it.

Based on this whole thread.

[Tyrath]

Turns out the girls in the stories were the ones dating the cray.

What a tweest.

[Rhyis.]

I honestly think you are the one that is too unstable for a relationship. Get your shit together before you drag other people into it.

[Yuri-G]

wait, when were we dating?

[Zetanio]

You wish.

[dasva]

Would make for some amazing BG story times

[BaneTheBrawler]

Eventually I started dating someone else, who has been very good to me. I never stopped caring about crazy though, and we've been in contact off and on over the last year, meeting a few times (which usually involved the best sex I've ever had, followed by a day of fighting over who left whom).

Just wanting some clarification here before I give any advice. So you broke up with craycray, started dating normie, and continued to hook up with craycray on the side? Does normie know/is she okay with an open relationship like that?

[Astylla]

Just wanting some clarification here before I give any advice. So you broke up with craycray, started dating normie, and continued to hook up with craycray on the side? Does normie know/is she okay with an open relationship like that?

This is a good question however my reply is going to ignore that for now and address something else you spoke about already. Though I will say if the current GF doesn’t know you should tell her the truth.

I tried myself for a long time to settle for my own reasons of thinking it’s what I should do. From what you’ve shared here I think that’s exactly what you are doing with the stable one. While I understand part of the draw to stability, if there’s questions if this is really what you want that enough is a reason to reevaluate. Then of course there’s always the sexual compatibility concern which is very valid. Take away the medical concern that comes into play - is this person really compatible with your needs and wants ?
Being poly and kinky /submissive myself these were and are HUGE factors in who I can be with in a relationship and otherwise.

You readily admit you still have feelings for the crazy one which it sounds like you never fully addressed. I think her behavior is erratic and would raise questions if she would provide the type of partner long term you can trust , however I think at the same time you are both very similar and need to determine what you want.
I wouldn’t personally rush back to her especially if she’s pushing for a family or if that’s what you want too that needs to be determined- just consider the lifelong changes that entails and how it wouldn’t be just about you and her anymore and I’ll leave that as is.

Don’t stress so much about hurting someone you love as much as figuring out what is best and be honest with yourself and those involved.
These situations suck but it’s far worse to drag something out than to make a choice so at least whatever happens everyone can move on.
The fact is there are so many people in the world that statistically there is almost always someone more compatible out there , but it doesn’t feel that way I know. Good luck.

[Inshiya]

Ya you're right Astylla. Just really hurts to give up on someone sweet that genuinely loves me. But if I'm this uncertain, that's sorta my answer.

[BaneTheBrawler]

WTB answer.