Dating a Cray Cray, how to deal? Yup he knocked her up.

[Inshiya]

Not posting any nudes, but for context, these are the girls:

Ex:








Current:

[Fondue]

She's literally one out of 4 billion, sort yourself out

[Astylla]

Ya you're right Astylla. Just really hurts to give up on someone sweet that genuinely loves me. But if I'm this uncertain, that's sorta my answer.

The reason I’m so blunt about it is because I’ve been on the receiving end of this situation and yeah it hurts when you do love someone , but holding back is doing neither of you any favors and only eventually likely leads to resentment.

Having had someone hold back on me for two years in the past when I could have moved forward with aspects of my life really affected me so basically if you already know just get it over with. Whatever happens we get over it somehow- some easier and quicker than others but you also can’t try to accommodate everyone.
It’s a choice with consequences either way.

[Krazy]

I'm being completely objective when I say pick the crazy one.

[BaneTheBrawler]

still not seeing an answer.

[Zetanio]

Pick neither, go to a monastery. Work on your own shit. You ain't ready for shit.

[dasva]

I'm being completely objective when I say pick the crazy one.

I don't think he can pick himself

[Inshiya]

I never suggested I was sane either. But I know my issues and work on them. And I did take several months alone to work on myself after me and the ex initially broke up.

[Abandon]

stop being shit to the normal one. leave the crazy alone, there's a fucknig reason things didnt work out, why would you think things would be different if shes still doing the crazy shit

[Salodin]

still not seeing an answer.

We both know the answer. And if the girlfriend doesn't know she rightfully suspects.

Guy I know the girl is nice to you but if the sex isn't working then the girl isn't going to work for you. And she doesn't look like she wants to share.

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[Inshiya]

stop being shit to the normal one. leave the crazy alone, there's a fucknig reason things didnt work out, why would you think things would be different if shes still doing the crazy shit

Good question.

I think it's because I believe that with the ex, we can do counseling and work as adults to fix previous communication problems. I believe those are issues that adults CAN work on and change/fix.

But with current girl, I believe that sexuality and interests are a lot harder to change/fix/adapt.

I can ask someone to work on communication and set up protocols on how to argue healthily. I can't ask/force someone to be bisexual or fix physical compatibility.

[Zetanio]

You can't turn a hoe into a housewife.

This is fucking basic shit. Stop asking for help.

[dasva]

Good question.

I think it's because I believe that with the ex, we can do counseling and work as adults to fix previous communication problems. I believe those are issues that adults CAN work on and change/fix.

But with current girl, I believe that sexuality and interests are a lot harder to change/fix/adapt.

I can ask someone to work on communication and set up protocols on how to argue healthily. I can't ask/force someone to be bisexual or fix physical compatibility.

Yeah but didn't you guys already try that shit? No amount of counseling or communication is gunna fix something unless the people involved really want to and make it a priority.

Sexuality... a lot of people don't have as much exposure so can try to pique her interest and there is some room for compromise... but yeah kind of at a loss how a borderline sex addict got together with someone that sounds like is fine going with out for long periods? Like that's on you lol. Should've figured out that big of incompatibility pretty early lol

[NynJa]

You can't turn a hoe into a housewife.

This is fucking basic shit. Stop asking for help.

Guy is an attention whore yearning for attention though.
Lets be real here.

[Zetanio]

Guy is an attention whore yearning for attention though.
Lets be real here.

He really is.

[BaneTheBrawler]

We both know the answer. And if the girlfriend doesn't know she rightfully suspects.

Yeah, I'm callin' it.

You're cheating on normie with crayola. The fact that you can't even say as much on an online forum where you are asking for advice tells me that Zet is right. You ain't ready for shit.

[Zetanio]

HURR DURR GUISE I NEED HELP WITH SEX STUFF AND RELATIONSHIPS WITH CRAZY GURLS.

OMG I D K WHAT TO DO

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OMG I D K WHAT TO DO.


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[zoobernut]

Good question.

I think it's because I believe that with the ex, we can do counseling and work as adults to fix previous communication problems. I believe those are issues that adults CAN work on and change/fix.

But with current girl, I believe that sexuality and interests are a lot harder to change/fix/adapt.

I can ask someone to work on communication and set up protocols on how to argue healthily. I can't ask/force someone to be bisexual or fix physical compatibility.

Yeah that isn't necessarily true though. Also sometimes sexuality stuff is easier to fix than personality compatibility issues. There is a heck of a lot more to life than sex. Also have you even given stable girl a chance? Does she know what you are in to?

It is better to look at a situation and ask how can you change rather than trying to change other people. Stop being an asshole to both women which is what you are doing right now. Make a decision and stick to it.

[Inshiya]

1. Not cheating, the ex lives in another city now. And my work may be moving me to that city, which adds to the complications.

2. This isn't about seeking attention, I've literally talked to every friend I have about this and it's just super sad/stressful. Even if half the comments here are just shit talking, a few people have provided some helpful objective 3rd party advice.

@Zoobernut: Ya the stable girl knows what I'm into and she is open to trying stuff. But the physical problems have caused a lot of stress, and she is definitely NOT bi, which puts constrains on what she's willing to try/explore.

[BaneTheBrawler]

HURR DURR GUISE I NEED HELP WITH SEX STUFF AND RELATIONSHIPS WITH CRAZY GURLS.

OMG I D K WHAT TO DO

HERE ARE THE HUMBLEBRAG PICTURES

OMG I D K WHAT TO DO.


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accurate af.