
Originally Posted by
Marootsoobutsu
I think that's the point where it's *most* necessary. That you show that all the bluster and bravado amounts to nothing. You give folks like that a fight, they take it, and they feel like they win. You disarm them with consistent displays of courtesy, kindness, and helpfulness, and... what do they suddenly have as ammunition? It's not an instant panacea, but it's one that works over time. You defeat their assumptions, not by tolerating their views, but by treating them as people. Do they deserve it? In a real sense, no-- but it's not about what they deserve. It's about what makes things better for everyone. You show up, be a presence, and be a *counter* presence-- not violence under a different name, but a positive force of anti-violence-- that does more to help everyone.
The only time violence-- or even a show of violence-- is acceptable is in the prevention of violence. A bunch of Nazis start beating up a Jew? Yeah, go interpose yourself, stop the violence, get the police. A bunch of Nazis walking down the street, insulting Jews and getting their Rah Rah on with signs and hate? Offer 'em a sandwich, a bottle of water, and a conversation. Showing up with a show of force, building a barricade of bodies for them to smash through-- that exacerbates violence instead of quelling it.