BG Confessional

[Day]

you mean thinking?

[Xno Kappa]

Lol

[Milkster]

If all your thoughts induce anxiety you should probably seek some better professional help.

[Tokitoki]

I don't know if the "hyping myself up" thing is directed at me, but I'm not doing anything of the sort. I posted that it stressed me out and that sucks. If stress incapacitates you so quickly then I dunno what to tell you.

[Day]

thinking is emotional labor

[NynJa]

Texas is awesome. What's wrong with Texas?

You live there.

[Anoat]

But so does his wife.

[NynJa]

[Ksandra]

Hubby and I have a fight like once a year. Happened today. Shit sucks.


Already made up like 10 seconds after yelling at each other for about 5 minutes. Lol

[Roranora]

you only fought once during covid?

i think we're at like 80+

[NynJa]

You're on an 80+ fight losing streak too, arent you?

[Zealot]

Sounds like me playing my older brother at Tekken 2.

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[Andalusian girls]

i don't think i've ever been in a relationship where there wasn't, on average, a fight every week or two

[Milkster]

Going to your weekly toxica meetings I see.

[Roranora]

You're on an 80+ fight losing streak too, arent you?

i'd like to think there were a few draws in there

[Andalusian girls]

Going to your weekly toxica meetings I see.

white bitches have been the worst for me. black girlfriend and Asian lover and Native American lover were drama-free, Latinas were all semi-toxica; kind but so dramatic, white girls have universally been fuckin Stalingrad. never again.

[Andalusian girls]

unless they're hot

[Ksandra]

you only fought once during covid?

i think we're at like 80+

Well, once per year, so there was a fight in 2020, too.

I admit it's actually kinda weird. My parents fought all the time. My husbands parents barely talk to each other anymore.


We have little tiffs now and then. Mostly like, "Not dealing with this, going to the bedroom," for an hour. But when it comes to screaming at each other it's only once per year, and I think the longest "mad" it's lasted is about 3 hours.



Today was stressful. Daughter got a fever last night and I slept with her. Got no sleep between her moaning, kicking, and my over active imagination thinking I was gonna find her dead from Covid in the morning.

Took her to the Immediate Care, got tested right away, then had to wait 2 hours to be seen. Thankfully she has strep, not Covid.

Went to the pharmacy to get her meds, took forever for the pharmacist to start prepping it. He realized they gave the wrong dosage. Had to call the clinic to get a new prescription sent. Was now past noon and daughter hadn't eaten all day (neither had I). Called hubby to pick her up. He sounded super frustrated to have to come get her, but did. Didn't get home until 2 pm, and I kinda exploded on him for giving me attitude when I asked for help.

He exploded back because he had just gotten out of a stressful meeting at work.

Reality is: I was exhausted, stressed, and hungry from the entire ordeal. He was exhausted and stressed from work. So I think we just needed to let off steam and it ended up being at each other. We both understand we were just at our limits and made up right away.

[Andalusian girls]

but who won

[Ksandra]

but who won

We'll find out tonight. Heeeyyyooo.