BG Confessional

**Roranora** · 2021-09-13 15:36

Originally Posted by Salodin

First child? Overworked to provide for your family? The story sounds ripe for life stresses to ruin your relationship even if the love is still there, do try and seek some help if both of you still love each other but are operating at different wavelengths. Maybe you're both just stressed out parents and are neglecting things both of you didn't realize you were. I wish you the best homey

this is pretty much exactly what's going on. when i have a bit of optimism, i'm thinking about we have several challenging external pressures on us and there must be a way through

Originally Posted by Milkster

Also rule out any medical reasons that could be causing a change or negatively affecting them.

she burnt-out and depressed as hell, so yeah there's that

i've shared with her best friend who agrees, that if she keeps this up, she'll soon forget how to care for herself. then when she does speak up, she's pretty mean and callous (not at all like her) and i have to do my best to not respond defensively or aggressively to the barbs

**Salodin** · 2021-09-13 15:45

I really do hope y'all figure it out cause it sounds like y'all are just two new, stressed out parents and I hope that doesn't ruin the relationship you've had

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**archibaldcrane** · 2021-09-13 15:56

Post baby depression/personality change is very difficult to know what to do with. It sounds like some pharmaceutical intervention is needed.

**Day** · 2021-09-13 16:03

i also think about suicide almost daily, idk what you call it, not a serious thought really just thinking about leaving this place, i couldn't hurt those around me or be that selfish though so it is generally a passing thought

**Day** · 2021-09-13 16:04

hopin for the best for you homie

**archibaldcrane** · 2021-09-13 16:48

I really do feel fortunate to have great mental health, the few times I felt depressed it was like "man this shit sucks" and I can't imagine having to feel like that all the time.

**Andalusian girls** · 2021-09-13 17:50

i was depressed as shit for half of high school and pretty down with dying, woke up in an ICU a couple times, wouldn't recommend

**Tokitoki** · 2021-09-13 18:57

My wife and I went through something similar recently. Stress, depression, big change in life with a new child, and my wife being confined to a house for 18 months. Add on to that doing constant repairs on a house that we're now having trouble selling even in this market. It all adds up fast.

Definitely put the effort in with individual and couples therapy.

**kuronosan** · 2021-09-14 06:26

Originally Posted by Roranora

you ever think about how you'd kill yourself? seems messy

even at worst, it seems perhaps preferable to live life hollowed out and empty. i do suppose there could be joy again but it feels so distant as to be nearly unimaginable

i can't even begin to think about how we could split up. like it's not just the relationship, we'd lose the home--basically all that i work for for 60 hours and 6 days a week--our family's stability, and a safe home for our 2-year old son

i couldn't afford another home, and right now she probably couldn't even afford an apartment

Go to counseling and therapy. As soon as you can get in.

**Zealot** · 2021-09-14 10:44

I just can't imagine the world without me.

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**Anoat** · 2021-09-14 10:59

Think I am nearing the end with my dog. Tumor in her mammaries ruptured months ago, leading to open wounds that I’ve been treating ever since daily. It’s been a miracle it has not yet been infected. The fluids which once pooled in her mammary now travel down her back legs, which are both ridiculously swollen. She can still walk, but squatting to relieve herself is becoming a struggle more and more. She can no longer climb on the bed or couch and I have to pick her up. When she lays down, it’s near impossible for her to pick herself back up without her back leg mobility. When I leave for work each day I basically have to lay out an old comforter mattress and pillows for her and move her water bowl close to her so she can at least drag herself if she wants a drink.

It’s tough because her happy personality is still in there. She still gets the (limited) zoomies when it is time to go outside. She still gets excited for toys, food, and treats. She still loves to cuddle. But I’m sure her limited mobility and swollen legs (it has to be painful) are taking a toll on her.

It sucks.

**Salodin** · 2021-09-14 11:15

That's terrible man, my condolences for what you're about to go through. Idk what I'd do if my dog was in a slow decline, idk when I'd decide to end it.

The only dog I've lost, I lost in less than 24hrs to a tumor we had no clue about until it was too big and too late, but in hindsight it made saying goodbye easier cause we weren't spending all this time watching her quality of life slowly decline. Hope the puppers gets to enjoy it's final days and it's health problems don't make those days painful and regrettable.

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**Xno Kappa** · 2021-10-29 21:29

I’ve been listening to a bunch of MC Hammer music videos all week. And not just the usual hits, like I mean even watching the shitty cartoons and everything.

Help me...

**kuronosan** · 2021-10-29 21:41

Originally Posted by Xno Kappa

I’ve been listening to a bunch of MC Hammer music videos all week. And not just the usual hits, like I mean even watching the shitty cartoons and everything.

Help me...

Don't worry, he won't hurt you.

**Mertron** · 2021-11-06 20:13

i think i have the story to end all stories that i just head today

but i need to wait until my Uber comes to get me and i get home

but oh man

when you guys hear this

holy shit

**Mertron** · 2021-11-06 20:14

and im well aware im hammered but oh man

oh man

you guys need to hear this

**Andalusian girls** · 2021-11-06 20:39

**Boyiee** · 2021-11-06 20:40

He got in the wrong Uber, he gone.

**Rhyis.** · 2021-11-06 21:24

Originally Posted by Boyiee

He got in the wrong Uber, he gone.

**Mertron** · 2021-11-06 21:26

unrelated, Amazon said this wouldn’t be here until the 15th to 19th, and holy shit what a stunner to see it at my doorstep when I got home today, what a day

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