
Originally Posted by
Karbuncle
Yah, again, there are definitely some instances where I see why the conversation went to shit. There kind of has to be a conversation first for it to go to shit though, and that doesn't happen a lot. But, now, I can't really argue much against this without being put in the uncomfortable position of defending someone I don't have the knowledge or experience to defend in terms of if they're acting in good faith, so I'm kind of stuck.
Guess I can go back and see if I can find the tipping point.
Edit: - Apologies.
For arguments sake, I can go back to the Syrup thing on page 7(Cause it was funny, less serious, but also a prudent example). Draylo came in out of nowhere and simply mentioned that its wild they're changing Aunt J, bringing up that nobodies perfect... and the very first response he got called him a quote "Partisan hack", the next response to him was a mocking image implying the irony of being a snowflake while calling others snowflakes, and then its just general mocking dogpile from multiple people. Admittedly after his third response, Draylo did get a little stand-offish, and from there things got worse and worse.
I mean, you could have just asked why he thought that was a bad thing and maybe change his mind by providing examples of stuff changing in our lifetime. I'd like to think by now he understands that Aunt J and Uncle Ben are both products of extremely racist caricatures of Black People from the 1800's and there is nothing wrong with changing the mascot after more than a hundred years. Theres a reason you don't see thinks like "Pickaninny Freezes" anymore, most of the old, extremelry racist products have either changed or stopped existing altogether.
I think the man is capable of being reasonable when given the chance, but as I stated above, I don't know him well enough to argue with any certainty. I guess what I'm getting at here is perhaps you could try a little harder once in a while without insults and maybe you'll be pleasantly surprised? I'm not suggesting infinite chances, but maybe give him like 1 allotment a day or something?