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    The one time I gave you a serious response, Draylo, you did jack shit to respond to it because you were too hung up on being called a narcissist.

    This is because it's not about people hearing or acknowledging your opinion, it's about them agreeing with it.

    Byrth said you weren't worth responding to not because your opinion isn't valid but because you refuse to change it or discuss it without victimizing yourself.

    I've treated patients more opaque than you. You aren't fooling anyone here.

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    This isn't some trick question or anything as such, but If you guys truly believe he is irredeemable and transparent, why not just do as he says and block him? I mean if you have no intention of challenging him or engaging him it seems like unnecessary stress. I'm not trying to take sides here. If he's truly a "Waste of time", then stop wasting your time as there is seemingly no positive outcome here for either party.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Karbuncle View Post
    This isn't some trick question or anything as such, but If you guys truly believe he is irredeemable and transparent, why not just do as he says and block him? I mean if you have no intention of challenging him or engaging him it seems like unnecessary stress. I'm not trying to take sides here. If he's truly a "Waste of time", then stop wasting your time as there is seemingly no positive outcome here for either party.
    Because I do want to hear differing opinions on things when there's more effort put into it than a Guartz-esque post where it mainly involves dropping a YouTube link and maybe a line or two with a vague description only to ignore any legit responses questioning said video. I might not change my opinion, but I also might learn something else from the discussion.

    There's no denying that the majority here lean left with their opinions, but those who lean right (or closer to center) are not doing a good job getting their opinions across from what I've seen.

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    hey guys is this week last week

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tomiko View Post
    Because I do want to hear differing opinions on things when there's more effort put into it than a Guartz-esque post where it mainly involves dropping a YouTube link and maybe a line or two with a vague description only to ignore any legit responses questioning said video. I might not change my opinion, but I also might learn something else from the discussion.

    There's no denying that the majority here lean left with their opinions, but those who lean right (or closer to center) are not doing a good job getting their opinions across from what I've seen.
    I can kinda understand how you must feel here.

    Still, I often see even those who try to argue in good faith(presumably, I'm not a mind reader) have to weed through the posts of several agitators to get to a single decent response from someone who still manages to insult them and their intellect with every condescending word. Its not hard to imagine why some of us just don't try anymore or constantly feel like we're being attacked and insulted for having a different opinion when we're constantly attacked and insulted for having a different opinion (Since by the very nature of 2-party politics, our opinions are "stupid"). This isn't one sided either, you guys aren't the only one dishing it out.

    Further, some of them deserve it, I'll admit, there are a remarkable number of posts that make me scratch my head or go "Well thats clearly a biased and misleading video", or stuff that just straight makes me cringe, and i watch Louie La Vau sometimes for funsies and that guy goes HAM on these topics. So yes, I get that sometimes it IS justified so I'm not making a blanket statement here saying you guys are always in the wrong. Its a two way street and maybe there are more bad faith actors here than I give them credit for and I just don't know them well enough.

    Watching pages after of pages across many threads, of dog piles on people who go against the grain over and over and over on BG, only to be like "Hey fellas this is kinda toxic maybe this is overkill?" then be met by someone who for a brief second wipes the blood off their face and puts the shovel down to say "Nah man we're very opening and inviting here, I'm very open minded to new ideas" and then goes immediately back to curb-stomping the dude who didn't like the same Syrup flavor as them, doesn't exactly paint the picture that I could say what I really want to say in a discussion.

    Actions speak louder than words and I tend to keep my mouth closed these days on anything I want to say that I know would be ... uncomfortable. I've made my mistakes in the past, and I'm trying to grow from them.

    Regardless, I know when I try to talk from a calmed perspective I can sound like I'm on a high horse, I can't really argue against that so I'm just kinda saying sorry here. Its unintentional I just don't know how else to word it, but I know i sure as shit ain't perfect and am guilty of the very things I outline in this post. Draylo is the catalyst for me bringing this up but I want to clarify I'm not saying this in defense of anyone, this is not a justification for anyones actions or opinions.

    As a closing thought, I think its worth pointing out BG has ALWAYS been this way even before we got political and it was just video games, so theres that.

    Edit: honestly the only people I can think of off the top of my head as Center/Moderate to very "Right Wing" posters here often fighting against the consensus are Draylo, Guartz, and Day, occasionally me. Funny thoughts come into my head now...

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    I get what you're saying, but I think its important to point out that he got plenty of good faith arguments at first. People tried to have a conversation, people tried to explain why they disagree with him, or why they think his entire argument is irrelevant or missing the big picture. He ignores those and either cherry picks certain sentences, or misreads posts, and focuses on whining that people aren't nice to him.

    And this is a common theme with a bunch of posters. They bitch and whine that this is an echo chamber, but then get banned because it turns out they were only here to start shit and troll the entire time (Day), or they are crazy pedo racists (blubbs or grooogggle, I always confuse them), or they refuse to actually have a conversation and back up a single claim (guartz). Shit, you had a ton of posts that were clearly trolling (I won't get into specifics because its not the point right now) but you're here now and people have no problem at all responding. Even when Gard was admittedly trolling, people still had conversations with him and tried to explain things.

    People don't get shit on for having a good faith conversation. They get disagreed with. They get arguments. But they don't get 50 pages of people telling them to stfu until they push everyone that far.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Eurell View Post
    I get what you're saying, but I think its important to point out that he got plenty of good faith arguments at first. People tried to have a conversation, people tried to explain why they disagree with him, or why they think his entire argument is irrelevant or missing the big picture. He ignores those and either cherry picks certain sentences, or misreads posts, and focuses on whining that people aren't nice to him.

    And this is a common theme with a bunch of posters. They bitch and whine that this is an echo chamber, but then get banned because it turns out they were only here to start shit and troll the entire time (Day), or they are crazy pedo racists (blubbs or grooogggle, I always confuse them), or they refuse to actually have a conversation and back up a single claim (guartz). Shit, you had a ton of posts that were clearly trolling (I won't get into specifics because its not the point right now) but you're here now and people have no problem at all responding. Even when Gard was admittedly trolling, people still had conversations with him and tried to explain things.

    People don't get shit on for having a good faith conversation. They get disagreed with. They get arguments. But they don't get 50 pages of people telling them to stfu until they push everyone that far.
    Yah, again, there are definitely some instances where I see why the conversation went to shit. There kind of has to be a conversation first for it to go to shit though, and that doesn't happen a lot. But, now, I can't really argue much against this without being put in the uncomfortable position of defending someone I don't have the knowledge or experience to defend in terms of if they're acting in good faith, so I'm kind of stuck.

    Guess I can go back and see if I can find the tipping point.

    Edit: - Apologies.

    For arguments sake, I can go back to the Syrup thing on page 7(Cause it was funny, less serious, but also a prudent example). Draylo came in out of nowhere and simply mentioned that its wild they're changing Aunt J, bringing up that nobodies perfect... and the very first response he got called him a quote "Partisan hack", the next response to him was a mocking image implying the irony of being a snowflake while calling others snowflakes, and then its just general mocking dogpile from multiple people. Admittedly after his third response, Draylo did get a little stand-offish, and from there things got worse and worse.

    I mean, you could have just asked why he thought that was a bad thing and maybe change his mind by providing examples of stuff changing in our lifetime. I'd like to think by now he understands that Aunt J and Uncle Ben are both products of extremely racist caricatures of Black People from the 1800's and there is nothing wrong with changing the mascot after more than a hundred years. Theres a reason you don't see thinks like "Pickaninny Freezes" anymore, most of the old, extremelry racist products have either changed or stopped existing altogether.

    I think the man is capable of being reasonable when given the chance, but as I stated above, I don't know him well enough to argue with any certainty. I guess what I'm getting at here is perhaps you could try a little harder once in a while without insults and maybe you'll be pleasantly surprised? I'm not suggesting infinite chances, but maybe give him like 1 allotment a day or something?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Eurell View Post
    they are crazy pedo racists (blubbs or grooogggle, I always confuse them)
    Blub tried to make the comment about how it was no different than giving your daughter a bath.

    Groggle called Zealot a "duplicitous jew with political aspirations" and talked about how we should have small racially homogenous agrarian communities with defined gender roles because that is what we were naturally predisposed to.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gredival View Post
    Blub tried to make the comment about how it was no different than giving your daughter a bath.

    Groggle called Zealot a "duplicitous jew with political aspirations" and talked about how we should have racially homogenous agrarian community with defined gender roles because that is what we were naturally predisposed to.
    Woof. Thats some cringey shit.

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    Who the fuck is Gard

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    Quote Originally Posted by Draylo View Post
    This post doesn't make sense as its in line with what I said here. Just an observation and no call to action. I don't see what you're implying.
    The difference in posts on the same topic over a 4 hour span.

    Quote Originally Posted by Draylo View Post
    Not true actually, I don't go and copy everything they say to post here. I'm capable of my own thought, unlike some others. The observations I brought weren't posted here or there first actually. The "sources" you speak of are YouTube... lol
    Not "everything," true, but it has influenced your rhetoric. Yeah, YouTube personalities, the same influencers that Guartz has peddled. lo...l?

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    You know at least all quartz and the rest of the exiles arent as insufferable as draylo.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mrbeansman View Post
    You know at least all quartz and the rest of the exiles arent as insufferable as draylo.

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    Lol no

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    Quote Originally Posted by Karbuncle View Post
    For arguments sake, I can go back to the Syrup thing on page 7(Cause it was funny, less serious, but also a prudent example). Draylo came in out of nowhere and simply mentioned that its wild they're changing Aunt J, bringing up that nobodies perfect... and the very first response he got called him a quote "Partisan hack", the next response to him was a mocking image implying the irony of being a snowflake while calling others snowflakes, and then its just general mocking dogpile from multiple people. Admittedly after his third response, Draylo did get a little stand-offish, and from there things got worse and worse.

    I mean, you could have just asked why he thought that was a bad thing and maybe change his mind by providing examples of stuff changing in our lifetime. I'd like to think by now he understands that Aunt J and Uncle Ben are both products of extremely racist caricatures of Black People from the 1800's and there is nothing wrong with changing the mascot after more than a hundred years. Theres a reason you don't see thinks like "Pickaninny Freezes" anymore, most of the old, extremelry racist products have either changed or stopped existing altogether.

    I think the man is capable of being reasonable when given the chance, but as I stated above, I don't know him well enough to argue with any certainty. I guess what I'm getting at here is perhaps you could try a little harder once in a while without insults and maybe you'll be pleasantly surprised? I'm not suggesting infinite chances, but maybe give him like 1 allotment a day or something?
    I think the syrup thing was shut down so quick because of his behavior in this thread. Its all the same people talking, so everyone was already over his shit. We've also already had this same conversation a few months back over butter. I'd like to believe he now gets why its good Aunt Jemima is changing, but I really don't think he does.

    Draylo, can you set the record straight for us on your current blackface syrup opinions?


    Quote Originally Posted by Gredival View Post

    Groggle talked about how we should have small racially homogenous agrarian communities with defined gender roles because that is what we were naturally predisposed to.
    This was the absolute fucking best lol. I hated everything he ever said but never wanted it to stop, that shit was entertaining.

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    Who the fuck is Gard

    What in the fuck. I swear to Christ I've been reading your name is Garditan forever lol, I have no idea why.

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    You're not the only one. Over the years idk how many times people would say "Gard" in party chat.

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    And in an interesting turn of events:

    The real Aunt Jemima's grandson is pretty pissed they're rebranding over the public outrage.

    Interesting read and I'm 100% guilty of not even considering this. I didn't know she was a real person.

    https://thegrio.com/2020/06/19/aunt-...randson-angry/

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    Quote Originally Posted by Karbuncle View Post
    Yah, again, there are definitely some instances where I see why the conversation went to shit. There kind of has to be a conversation first for it to go to shit though, and that doesn't happen a lot. But, now, I can't really argue much against this without being put in the uncomfortable position of defending someone I don't have the knowledge or experience to defend in terms of if they're acting in good faith, so I'm kind of stuck.

    Guess I can go back and see if I can find the tipping point.

    Edit: - Apologies.

    For arguments sake, I can go back to the Syrup thing on page 7(Cause it was funny, less serious, but also a prudent example). Draylo came in out of nowhere and simply mentioned that its wild they're changing Aunt J, bringing up that nobodies perfect... and the very first response he got called him a quote "Partisan hack", the next response to him was a mocking image implying the irony of being a snowflake while calling others snowflakes, and then its just general mocking dogpile from multiple people. Admittedly after his third response, Draylo did get a little stand-offish, and from there things got worse and worse.

    I mean, you could have just asked why he thought that was a bad thing and maybe change his mind by providing examples of stuff changing in our lifetime. I'd like to think by now he understands that Aunt J and Uncle Ben are both products of extremely racist caricatures of Black People from the 1800's and there is nothing wrong with changing the mascot after more than a hundred years. Theres a reason you don't see thinks like "Pickaninny Freezes" anymore, most of the old, extremelry racist products have either changed or stopped existing altogether.

    I think the man is capable of being reasonable when given the chance, but as I stated above, I don't know him well enough to argue with any certainty. I guess what I'm getting at here is perhaps you could try a little harder once in a while without insults and maybe you'll be pleasantly surprised? I'm not suggesting infinite chances, but maybe give him like 1 allotment a day or something?
    If you’re trying to imply that my meme was not fabulous I will absolutely not stand for this.

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