
Originally Posted by
Ayn
I hear you. I paid off student loans earlier except a smaller one for credit history. The things I splurge on 'most' are travel to see family/friends (most of the close ones live out of state, or until recently, overseas); but job is flexible enough that I could always book tickets at cheaper times. Lodgings were usually taken care of cause I was staying with them, or because I was traveling off peak times (fun fact: Vegas is cheap as hell at key points in December/September). Vidya's cheap these days and there's enough streaming services for entertainment.
I also drive a cheap car that's paid off, but it doesn't have a ton of miles on it cause again, most of my longer trips just end up being flights, even within state.
When I had to suddenly move and CoL went up, someone I knew basically said "I know it's frustrating, but to be fair, what you're paying now is the standard for this area"
Basically said "It's one thing when you actively decide to live in a more expensive place; it's another when it's forced upon you. I didn't get to where I am now financially by doing the first all these years."
I just kind of marvel at it: I don't think I'm exceptionally smart with money (I'm risk adverse, which was a slow process of overcoming), but it's pretty amazing to watch people I know out here rationalize all types of things.
Or my favorites:
"Why don't you buy <x>?"
"..Because I wouldn't use it enough to justify that price tag?"
"Why don't you upgrade your car!"
"..Because this one runs fine and has never broken down?"