Wasting perfectly good Soylent Green material, smdh
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Stability is good for a child's upbringing, sure, but the assumption it has to come from family and that we should tolerate any and all shortcomings of blood relatives is a problem.
It's a hot fucking take to suggest cutting off ties with anybody because they don't meet your purity test.
You don't have to tolerate bullshit but yikes at anyone who would look at a family that raised them, whether blood or not, and turn away because they're human and say and do dumb shit.
Kids believe the dumbest shit imaginable and if you think there's a significant difference between your adults manage ignorance and how children manage it you need to get your ass back to school and read more.
That's assuming a shit ton. I love my family, we have some issues but not many, but i've seen enough people with horrible shit family units. You don't owe them anything, if your family was mentally abusive towards you or is now based on your life choices you don't need to stick around and suffer through that.
That's taking something I didn't say and putting it in my post.
You don't need to tolerate abuse but holy shit yikes if being an ignorant moron is tantamount to abuse.
Being racist, homophobic, sexist, etc is being an ignorant moron. You don't think that's abusive for children to endure that kind of behavior or grow up around it?
i recently felt like i had to tell my sister she needs to be nicer to our mom. it didn't feel like it landed well at the time but then come to hear they had their best conversation in a quite awhile during my mom's last visit to Overland Park
Just because they are family does not mean they are immune to getting removed from your life. If they don't approve of your lifestyle choices that aren't harming yourself or others, and are constantly giving your grief over it, then do both of y'all a favor and cut them off. No need to tiptoe and stress over bullshit.
I'm a big believer in the "Found Family", I'm MUCH closer to my friends then I am to my blood related family, but you know the old saying, "The Blood of the Covenant is Thicker then the Water of the Womb." so absolutely family is not off the chopping block if they are/were abusive to you, the same as any person really.
fuck scotus anything goes here now especially including this chatter around caring best for oneself
Being "an asshole" can totally be mentally abusive and is a scale only a person in that situation can judge. I didn't say "Hey if your dad likes Chik Fil A and you're a Popeyes guy then fuck him and disown that bitch". Your family being "ignorant" while also supporting very very abusive systems can be abusive.